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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Socrates said, "A woman's pure ornament is virtue, not clothing." ”
Indeed, women who really make men fall in love with them have a strong attraction.
This kind of attraction, not relying on the appearance of beauty, but the inner characteristics, often make men more favored.
A woman who wants to be the beloved in a man's heart must make herself attractive, and only when you become excellent yourself will it really make men's hearts move.
As the saying goes, "If you bloom, the butterflies will come." ”
Women attract men, if only relying on beauty is not enough, after all, no matter how beautiful the face, it can not withstand the devastation of the years.
Although, men like beautiful women, but this kind of appearance of liking, without too much texture, is difficult to stand the test of reality.
Only by maintaining a unique attraction can a man always be loyal to you and protect you for a lifetime.
Therefore, women attract men, not by being beautiful, but mostly by these three points. An attractive woman will usually make men fall in love with it.
First, have an empathetic personality
Someone once asked: What kind of woman is the most attractive to men?
There are many answers given below, but in the end only one has received high praise: an empathetic woman.
It is true that women have an empathetic personality, which can often make men more favored, and once they meet such a woman, men will definitely love it.
Because, a woman with a good heart must be a woman of good character, which is incomparable to the beauty of appearance.
Such a woman, especially able to understand men, is more conducive to emotional harmony, and life will become more harmonious.
Especially after marriage, they can be considerate to men, understand and support men, not only can manage the family well, but also can become a strong backing for men.
Men have this kind of woman, often able to make achievements, life will be happier.
If a woman has a bad personality, often makes unreasonable trouble, and turns the family into a strife scene, even if she looks beautiful, it is difficult to get the man's cherishing.
As we all know, Lu Xiaoman is a woman who is both talented and beautiful, but her marriage is a chicken feather.
Although, when she was in love, she and Xu Zhimo loved vigorously, but when they really entered the marriage, she became a strong woman.
Because of her personality, she can't tolerate it, and she can't understand each other, less of a woman's empathy, and completely live by her own nature.
This kind of marriage must be a failure, after all, no matter how much the man who loves you, it is impossible to accommodate your unreasonable trouble for a lifetime.
Some people say: "Love begins with the appearance value, and finally the character." ”
This is very reasonable, a woman with a bad personality and poor character may not get true love, and when the other party is tired of your appearance, it is likely that she will forget about you.
So, women still have to keep themselves attractive, be an empathetic woman, at any time, a good character, can make men more caring for you.
Second, be true to yourself in life
Some women, once they enter the relationship, are obedient to men and lose their uniqueness, which is not right.
Whenever a woman becomes humble and cannot be true to herself, she is likely to lose the dignity she deserves.
Because, men will not cherish you, but will feel that you are humble and useless, and their feelings for you will gradually fade.
Blindly pleasing, never in exchange for a man's sincerity, only loyal to the self, live out their dignity and confidence, in order to make men look at each other.
In love, the man may like you because you are beautiful and cute, at this time, you are obedient to him, more dependent on him, he may not feel anything bad.
However, once two people are married, you are so dependent on him and obedient to him, it is likely that you will make him resentful.
A man will feel that you don't have a little ego, wrap around him like a drag bottle, and when he is exhausted, he will naturally alienate you.
Therefore, in the feelings of women, it is best not to be obedient to men, let alone become humble, but to follow the heart and be loyal to themselves.
You must have your own ability, do not always think of relying on men in everything, and you cannot endlessly ask for men.
At any time, you have to have your own pursuits, have the ability to make money, and live your life seriously, without bringing too much burden to men.
Feelings are most afraid of causing a burden to each other, if you expect anything from men, there is no mentality of giving, one day will disappoint men, thus being cold to you.
A woman's attraction is really not beautiful, but to live faithfully to herself and be able to stand shoulder to shoulder with men.
Such a woman must be the love of a man's heart, so that men can't let go.
If a woman is always obedient to men and flatters men, and does not have a little independent dignity, she will eventually be abandoned by men.
Third, precipitate their own connotations
If a woman wants to have attraction, the best way is to improve herself and precipitate a rich connotation.
A woman with connotation is far better than a woman with beautiful appearance, because beauty will change over time, but the connotation will accumulate deeper and deeper, full of charm.
The flowers on the side of the road are beautiful, but they can't withstand the wind and rain, and they can never stand in the wind and frost.
However, a small, resilient grass, although it looks inconspicuous, it can withstand the wind and frost and stand proudly independent.
The same is true for women, a beautiful but not connotative woman, may initially make men move, but over time, men will get bored.
Such a woman has no ability, no connotation, and a little setback will lead to the collapse of feelings.
On the contrary, a woman with a plain appearance but rich connotation may not let men have a feeling of excitement at first, but over time, men will feel your unique temperament and charm, and they will definitely love it.
In fact, men can't look at women forever just at looks.
Time will prove everything, when both parties enter the marriage, they can really become a woman who cannot be put down in a man's heart, or a woman with connotation.
Therefore, women should know how to improve their connotations, in life, slowly precipitate themselves, so that they become more attractive.
When you are really excellent, full of thoughts, unique temperament, and exude elegance, what man does not love?
In the final analysis, women who can attract men for a long time do not rely on beauty, but on connotation.
No matter how beautiful the face, it will retreat in the years, but the connotation can be eternal, and the longer it is precipitated, the more attractive it is.
Therefore, no matter what age a woman is in, she should not be satisfied with the status quo, but should actively improve herself.
Whether it is your vision, or your thoughts and patterns, as well as the ability to be independent, you must slowly precipitate, and eventually turn yourself into an attractive woman, so that men can love it.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Jan Ma Barry said: "Charm is a flower that blooms in a woman's body. With it you don't need anything else; without it, you have nothing more than nothing. ”
Indeed, attractive women will have real attraction and make men obsessed with you.
An attractive woman will surely make men fall in love with you, willing to shield you from the wind and rain, and give you the best happiness.
Therefore, women should make themselves attractive, and when you do the above three points, I believe it will make men love and cherish it more.
Having an empathetic personality, being loyal to oneself in life, and precipitating one's own connotations is the best capital for women.
The maintenance of a relationship is inseparable from attraction, and I hope that every woman can have and maintain the attraction to men and live happier.
Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.