A few days ago to go to my cousin's house to play, my cousin angrily told me that the exam is coming, let the child review at home on the weekend, she has always thought that the child is seriously reading, but the child played a "golden cicada shell" for her, leaving the clothes at home disguised as a "dummy", the real person ran to the community to play earlier, the most depressing thing is that she did not even find it!
Seeing the photos taken by my cousin, I couldn't help but laugh dumbly, at this time the child said to me next to me: "Little aunt, don't listen to my mother, I usually don't know the grades you don't know, all review for half a day, but also let me read at home, don't I do this is also reading books?" I have watched "Thirty-Six Plans" since I was a child, and now it has finally come in handy. ”
Although the child's way of avoiding learning makes parents angry, learning does not mean that learning is good for a long time, but the child understands this truth, but the parents may not understand.
Children who read "Thirty-Six Plans" from an early age are scheming and knowledgeable
It turned out that the child's grandfather was a retired old teacher who liked to read "Thirty-Six Plans", and deeply felt that this set of books was very helpful to the child's growth, so he took the child to read it from the age of three. The child has not yet gone to primary school, what golden cicadas shed their shells, throwing bricks and jade, adjusting the tiger away from the mountain, Li Dai peach stiffness, pointing mulberry scolding locust, watching the fire from the other side, flowering on the tree, secretly crossing Chen Cang, and other idioms are all familiar to the heart, and will blurt out at the right time.
Because of the reason for reading "Thirty-Six Counts" since he was a child, this child's grades in primary school were very good, his thinking was particularly meticulous, and in his words, his favorite problem was the expansion problem, because ordinary problems were not difficult for him.
The child has been in the fifth grade this year, not only has maintained excellent results, but also has been serving as the class leader, every year by the school as an excellent class cadre, the teachers said that they picked up a "treasure", many children in the class between the contradictions, some small problems and disputes are handled by him, never let the teacher worry.
I heard my cousin say that when the child was 6 years old and in the second semester of the first grade of primary school, his parents let him go to school by himself because he was close to home, and once he was stopped by several teenage children near home after school to ask for money, threatening him that if he did not bring the money to them the next day, he would block him here every day. The child did not hurry and said to the children: "My mother never gave me money, but I know where my mother's money is, and I will give it to you tomorrow when I go to school." ”
After returning home, the child told his father about this matter, and came up with the idea that if the father was next to him, several children would not dare to come out when they saw adults around, but not coming out today does not mean that they will not come out tomorrow, and they will always come out again when they are alone, it is better for the father to follow far behind and wait for several children to appear.
Dad did as the child said, sure enough, the next day after school, to the home nearby to see a few big children waiting there to find children to ask for money, then the father quickly went up, sent a few children to the neighborhood committee, by the neighborhood committee to educate, I heard that a few left-behind children were taken to the city by their parents, secretly skipped school outside, specifically looking for primary school students to extort, after being called parents by the neighborhood committee and educated, several children never appeared on the road again.
The child said that this time he used three schemes at once - "go for the best", "the golden cicada shelled" and "the bottom of the pot". I have to say that it is really amazing that the first-grade child has this plan, and it really feels very graphic to listen to him say this!
Reading "Thirty-Six Plans" not only makes children's thinking meticulous, but also allows children to learn to protect themselves.
Reading the "Thirty-Six Plans" improves children's ability to do things
In reality, many parents reflect that their children are procrastinating and slow, others can write homework in 30 minutes, he has not finished in an hour, others can complete things in a while, he can not complete for a long time, this is actually not the child's procrastination, but the child's lack of logic, do not know how to complete things efficiently.
The reason why the cousin's children have always maintained the forefront of academic performance, and can still have extra time to play and do what they like after completing the learning tasks, is because he read "Thirty-Six Plans" from a young age, and he understands that whether it is doing things or learning, it is necessary to sort out the order, distinguish the order, and grasp the core content, so as to achieve the effect of doubling the results with half the effort.
He said that after reading the "Capture the Thief Before Capturing the King" in the "Thirty-Six Plans", he understood that if he wanted to conquer the highlands, he must seize the "main force" and study and live in the same way.
Choose the right one for your child, not the one you think is the best
"Thirty-Six Plans" integrates the wisdom of the ancients, there are also many ways to survive, so that children understand the success or failure, learn to deal with people, but the original ancient text of "Thirty-Six Plans" is very obscure and difficult to understand, don't say children, even adults are very difficult to read, how can children fall in love with reading?
Based on this question, I specifically asked my cousin's father-in-law for advice.
The old man recommended to me a set of comic books that children can read and understand, "Fun Reading Thirty-Six Counts", saying that this set of books is very suitable for children aged 3-12 to read, vivid and interesting, easy to understand. I bought a set back and found that this set of books is indeed very suitable for children to read, the main advantages are as follows:
First, highlight the word "fun" and expand your thinking
This set of books in the form of cartoons, with exquisite pictures to attract children's attention, each plan has an explanation in front, there is a corresponding historical story behind, the book also uses a small story to explain the profound connotation of this plan, and then use comic stories to deepen the child's impression, so that both interesting stories and pictures to attract children's attention, but also open up the child's thinking, know how to use the plan for life.
After reading the "Thirty-Six Plans", children will understand how to become passive and anti-customer in their interactions with people, and understand that when they are weak in competition, they must wait for work and recuperate.
Second, know how to learn from each other and improve emotional intelligence
There is a corresponding historical story behind each scheme in the book, and we will take the scheme of "wanting to capture the old and indulge", and the book tells a small historical story, that is, Zhuge Liang's seven captures of Meng.
Zhuge Liang personally captured Meng Yu and wanted him to surrender, but Meng Yu refused, so Zhuge Liang used an offensive plan, and captured Meng Yu seven times, so that Meng Yue was satisfied with him and sincerely obeyed.
My cousin's children are very good at using the "want to get away with it" scheme, the emotional intelligence is extremely high, both the trust of the teacher, but also the love of the classmates, and won the position of class leader by unanimous approval.
Third, improve essay scores
We all know that the first grade of primary school is mainly based on looking at pictures and writing, the second grade is mainly based on small composition, and from the third grade onwards, the children's composition requirements will increase, which will test the expansion of children's thinking, and also begin to test the breadth of children's knowledge.
Children who often read "Thirty-Six Plans" have a good understanding of historical knowledge and planning, will associate the content of the plan with related historical figures and historical events with the composition, and from time to time introduce the idiom of the plan and historical stories into the composition, which instantly enhances the connotation of the composition, appears to be very high, and is very helpful for the score of the future examination.
There are children aged 3-12 years old, during the winter vacation, it is strongly recommended to start a set of hardcover comic versions of "Thirty-Six Plans of Fun Reading", send others or their own children are very face-saving, so that children can learn strategies and improve their knowledge in relaxed and interesting pictures and stories.
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