"Isn't this book very good, why don't you want to read it?"
"It's not as good as The Lion and Me, so watch it a few more times..."
This is the recent conversation with Yue Yue about reading books that often appears, going to school, shortening the time to read books at home, the requirement of only reading one book before going to bed, letting the little one carefully select the bookshelf, choose to choose, always take out this book.
An old book, I remember when I looked through it for him a few years ago, he laughed at the way the lion made curls.
At that time, although he liked lions, he would also look through each picture carefully, but he did not feel the story.
So I asked him, 'So tell me, what is this book about?' ”
He didn't hesitate to say: ''What he's talking about is that the lion and I are friends, and one day the lion came to my house as a guest, and as a result..."
He paused,
Suddenly he said loudly, "The result was suddenly restrained!" ”
Looking at his slightly frowning brow and staring at the serious expression of the lion,
I suddenly felt how uncomfortable it was to say "stuck"...
That's the king of the hundred beasts, the lion!
The lion has a good friend, that person, it's "me"...
At the invitation of "I", the lion came to the house as a guest.
But I didn't expect that, from the time the lion came to the door,
Wave after wave of trouble befell its head.
Dad was the first to jump out,
"Hey, hey, hey, he got into the house with a foot of mud,
So rude! The hair is also disheveled! ”
The lion quickly ran home and dressed up,
I also put on a pair of large leather shoes.
Then mom opened her mouth:
"Oops, I sat down at the table without washing my hands!"
Rinse your mouth and change into a clean shirt! ”
The lion quickly washed his hands, and when he wore his tie, he was strangled and hummed...
Finally got the approval of mom and dad, and it was time to eat cake on the table.
My sister spoke again:
"Hey, don't click and shake the chair okay!"
Don't stuff something in your mouth and talk about it!
In order not to shake the chair anymore, the lion raised his ass a little,
In this way, the king of the hundred beasts finally won the love of my family,
Even my sister smiled: "I will often come to play in the future, Lion Classmate!" ”
At this time, the "I" on the side stood out from the surprise and surprise again and again,
"What a lion is this?" It's so boring!
I don't like lions like that! ”
"I, talent, no, joy, joy, this, like, of, lion, son, what—"
"Click—"
The lion returned to its original form, let out a terrible roar, threw aside its tie and shirt, its mane disheveled, threw off its leather shoes, and stuffed a mouthful of cake.
Rushed outside,
Two good friends running and running in the wind...
Dad, Mom, and sister all sat down on the ground.
"Ah! Finally free! ”
At the end of each story, you can hear Yue Yue's relieved voice and look at his satisfied smile.
I suddenly realized that this lion, which looked so huge,
This is "my friend" in the story,
In fact, it is the child's free and unrestrained heart.
They have a boundless imagination of the world,
Always want to explore the boundless curiosity,
Don't want to be tied down,
Don't want to be stuck...
However, in the process of growing up,
Children need to face new environments, new faces, and so on
A certain intensity of learning life and a certain constraint of collective life,
The free-hearted lions in their hearts had to adapt to the new rules,
Keep making changes,
It's hard to go smoothly.
For a lot of kids, these are challenges,
Some children feel that they are "detained".
At this time, we must first be the children's understanding,
Don't look at your child with a critical eye,
Like the "Dad, Mom and Sister" in the story look at lions,
How to see how unpleasant.
We should tell our children that rules and freedom are not contradictory,
Not only is it not contradictory,
Rules still exist to preserve freedom.
Maybe the child will not understand,
We can use analogies, we can give examples,
With the embankment, the rivers can run freely,
And it won't flood.
When you come to the intersection, everyone has to cross the street,
If people in four directions walk at the same time, they will bump into each other, so that no one can walk well.
At this time, we need traffic rules to ensure safety and freedom of passage. Because the road is not only us walking, others also have the freedom to pass, encounter a red light, only stop, so that when the green light route people pass, we will not be hit, will be safe.
Therefore, everyone must standardize traffic rules.
It's not easy to follow the rules,
But when everyone comes to follow the rules,
Their own freedom is guaranteed to the greatest extent.
Freedom everyone yearns for,
Be sure to understand the child,
Protect their free, sensitive hearts,
At the same time guide them to recognize the relationship between rules and freedom,
Help them soothe their emotions, release their hearts, and rise to the challenge with confidence and boldness!