Recently, a video about a 38-year-old leftover girl in Zhejiang became popular all over the Internet. In the video, she questioned, these men are too disagreeable, these conditions can't be met, what else can they marry? It turned out that when she went on a blind date, she proposed five marriage conditions to the man, but they were all rejected by the blind date. It's really puzzling! She has been on a blind date many times, and each time she put forward these conditions, but the result is that without exception, the man has rejected her. So, what kind of marriage conditions make many men shy away from this beautiful woman? Let's take a look at the five conditions that the blind date needs to meet, Xiaobian, I am also very curious about what kind of conditions she put forward to make a beautiful woman not be able to marry until she is 38 years old.
The five conditions she put forward are as follows:
1. The bride price must be 300,000 yuan, after marriage, the man shall not go home later than 10 o'clock every night, if the number of late returns exceeds five times, then simply break up, and don't think about returning the bride price;
Second, if the man cheats after marriage, then break up decisively, the bride price money will not be refunded, and the man will have to compensate the woman for an additional 100,000 yuan for mental damages;
3. If the man's mother is sick, the woman has no obligation to take care of her, and the man cannot ask her to take care of her.
Fourth, the man's salary must be handed over to the woman, and the man is only given 1,000 yuan of pocket money every month.
5. Relatives and friends of the man's family can go if they want to, and if they don't want to go, they won't go, and the man can't force the woman to go, otherwise they will break up.
Almost every sentence is inseparable from the words "no return" of the bride price! How can marriage be treated so lightly As the saying goes: Men should get married, and women should get married. When you reach a certain age, if you can meet the opposite sex who you like, get to know each other through mutual acquaintance, and when all the conditions are ripe, you can join hands to enter the palace of marriage, open a new stage of life, and start a family, which is a natural thing. Blind dates provide a good opportunity for both men and women to get to know each other. Marriage is not only a legal recognition for both men and women, but also an emotional commitment to each other.
Speaking of which, I can't help but think of some ancient vows about marriage: hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son. Even if there are three thousand weak waters, I will only take that scoop. The king is the solid rock, and the concubine is the pliable reed; The reed seems to be weak but tough as silk, and the rock seems to be steady but unswerving. These beautiful poems all express that husband and wife should spend their lives together, each other's single-mindedness and dedication to love, and their persistence and loyalty to marriage. In Western weddings, men and women will make a firm wedding vow to each other in front of the pastor, relatives and friends: I swear that I will always love you, whether you are poor or rich, healthy or sick, I will always love, respect and support you! Therefore, the premise of marriage must be mutual respect and mutual care!
The conditions of the 38-year-old leftover woman are not suitable for marriage, everyone is emphasizing the equality of men and women, if you empathize and convert the marriage conditions of the 38-year-old leftover woman into the man's requirements for the woman, how will the woman feel? Are you looking for a life partner, or is you looking for a servant to serve you? Although as the saying goes, if a man marries a woman, and a woman marries into a man's family, the man should indeed give a bride price, even if it is appropriate to give some bride price, but the purpose of marriage between men and women is to form a new family together, and in marriage, both parties should work together to build this new family better! Therefore, we should have more understanding and tolerance with each other, support each other, trust each other, and run this home with love!
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