Throughout the ages, women have always been taken for granted to take care of children and families, and men are responsible for supporting their families on the outside, and the male and female protagonists have always been the mode of life of most families.
In today's society, due to the pressure of life, widowed parenting is increasing. Dad put more energy into work, leaving the child's food, drink and education to the mother.
As the saying goes, "If you don't teach, it's the fault of the father."
The lack of children's growth by fathers seems to have no impact in the short term, but it has buried hidden dangers in family relations and children's education.
In the long run, it will cause harm to the wife and the child, which will lead to a bad relationship between husband and wife, and the child's personality, psychology and other obstacles.
Widowed families, the relationship between husband and wife is likely to be bad, and the family atmosphere is very poor
Mom was doing housework while raising the child, and when she was in trouble, there was no one to support her.
Whether behaviorally or psychologically, such mothers are particularly prone to collapse.
Once the mother is broken and the husband is not around, she will easily vent her negative emotions to the child, and the child will be afraid.
The family will continue to be in this vicious circle, and there will be very little laughter.
If the child is a girl, it is likely that she will easily meet a scumbag in the future
When her daughter was a child, she did not get the love of her father, no man loved her, and when she grew up, whenever a man was kind to her, she could easily follow.
She will drastically lower her standards for men, and she will not be able to tell the difference between good men and bad men.
If the child is a boy, the personality is more likely to be cowardly
Boys should learn masculinity, courage, and strength from their fathers, but their lack of fathers leaves him without an example and from them.
Such boys, when they grow up, are more likely to be prone to cowardice.
In the family, the role of dad has an irreplaceable role of mom
Father's words and deeds are more conducive to the harmony of the husband and wife relationship, and are conducive to improving the child's personality, temperament and way of thinking.
As the economic pillar of the family, the father must also become the guardian of the child.
No matter how busy you are at work, don't forget your children, even if you take a dozen or twenty minutes a day to accompany your children, talk to your children, chat, read books...
Time permitting, you can take your children out for a walk and participate in some outdoor activities.
Make full use of the limited time and cultivate feelings for your child and pay attention to your child's growth.
The combination of education for dad and mom is the best education.
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