Ding Jiali is a performance artist, in her career can be said to be loved by thousands of people, unfortunately, her daughter Hu Linna did not have such a good life.
A month after the first husband, Hu Guangchuan and Ding Jiali gave birth to Hu Linna, they announced that they had ended the marriage, and the result was a child, and Hu Linna was fostered in her uncle's house at the age of 5.
What is even more tragic is that Ding Jiali has only met her child twice in her 15 years as a mother. This is a great harm to a child, because there is no love at all.
Originally Hu Linna was brought by grandparents, compared to this is also a good sustenance, after all, the grandparents' love for the child, there is a certain probability that Hu Linna can still get that "subrogation" feeling, but unfortunately the grandparents are not very good, and finally helpless can only send Hu Linna to the uncle for foster care.
Such a bad growth environment, Hu Linna became, inferior, introverted, sensitive, eager for her mother to take herself away, but the day is going to rain the mother to marry, Ding Jiali has a new life, naturally there is no way to give her daughter more love, rather than saying so, it is better to say that Ding Jiali completely ignored the existence of her daughter.
When Hu Linna was 11 years old, he had not yet seen his mother' appearance, which was a great sadness for an artist's child, and Ding Jiali only had a phone call with her mother once a year during the Spring Festival, and every time Hu Linna would cry and say to her mother: "Mom, you take me home."
What is the concept of going home for a child? What kind of vision does a child who has never received fatherly and maternal love have towards a family? Maybe only a child who hasn't been loved can understand.
Ding Jiali often has to shoot scenes and has a son to bring, so this daughter seems to have become a guest in her life. Each call was only perfunctory.
What is it like for 12-year-old Hulina to meet her mother for the first time, and as an artist's daughter, she can only see her mother on TV until she is 12 years old?
Ding Jiali took her daughter in her arms and cried, but she didn't know what kind of feeling this 12-year-late hug felt for Ding Jiali? At least for Hulina, the whole world was embracing her.
And this first visit to her daughter was at the end of the 10 yuan, let the daughter go to buy toys, and finally Ding Jiali sneaked away.
Years later, when Ding Jiali was interviewed by Zhejiang Satellite TV, she cried bitterly. It means that he is too selfish and wants to live his own life.
But how much damage did this to her daughter Hulina? Imagined.
Years later, Hulina told her mother that she had sneaked away. Her uncle told her that a 12-year-old child chased her to the bus stop and saw only the traffic flowing through, without the shelter of her heart, which was desperate for her.
The second time Ding Jiali saw her child Hu Linna was when Hu Linna was 14 years old, this time she did not beg her mother to take her home, and when Ding Jiali got into the car, Hu Linna only silently shed tears, she was just a 14-year-old child. But it is necessary for a man to bear the bitter sorrow of this world.
Hu Linna's uncle is not an evil person, but he is short-tempered, and Hu Linna will be beaten and scolded if he makes a mistake, which makes Hu Linna's life even worse, only promises, living a humble life.
And Hu Linna once wrote in her diary: "I have a father and mother, why can't I see it?" I'm not baggage, so why should I be thrown out there? Mom has a home, why can't I go back? I live in my uncle's house, my heart is lonely, and my heart is wandering. This is Hulina's "childhood."
When Hu linna was a sophomore in high school, her grades slipped. In front of Ding Jiali, the uncle slapped HuLina, a sophomore girl in high school, to the ground.
Seeing this scene, Ding Jiali understood and said to her daughter: "After you take a vacation, go back to your mother's side." Hulina chose to stay alone in the dormitory.
The huge city of Beijing, the huge school, all the parents came to pick up the children, and on the weekends there was only one girl named Hu Linna in the dormitory.
Hulina had no money, couldn't afford the heating, and wrapped herself in a quilt. The landlord heard that Hu Linna was Ding Jiali's daughter and questioned it, but the child denied it.
In exchange for the landlord's words: "Ding Jiali is a big star, how can her daughter live such a life?" After the landlord left, the remaining Hulina cried.
On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve 12 years, Hu Linna was alone in a rental house, 2 yuan of brine tofu, cut half and mixed to eat, the other half stewed cabbage.
Such a tragic life made this child who had no one to love persist on his own.
Finally, Hulina opened the window that God had given her. "No One Can Be Less" made Hulina officially enter the show business circle.
In fact, the story is even more bleak, which really makes the viewers uncomfortable. Just to say that divorce hurts your children too much, and if you don't think about it, don't make the wrong decision. Don't bring an innocent life into the world.