Ding Jiali is a post-film level actor, who has debuted for so many years and participated in wonderful works such as "The First Woman in the Mountain Forest", "New Year", "No One Applause", "Red Hair Card", "Alley Premier" and so on.
Don't look at Ding Jiali's acting career is supreme, but her life is very bumpy.
Ding Jiali was abandoned by her biological parents when she was born, raised by her adoptive parents, and did not expect to abandon her own daughter after starting a family.
In the process of Hu Linna's growth, she did not enjoy the love of her father and mother, and hated why her parents gave birth to her in the first place and did not support herself.
Many years later, Hu Linna reconciled with her mother, Ding Jiali.
In 1980, 21-year-old Ding Jiali planned to enter the Shanghai Film Academy for acting and wanted to become an actress in the future.
Her adoptive parents are drama actors, and Ding Jiali has loved acting since she was a child, but she is opposed by her adoptive parents.
They want Ding Jiali to study medicine and have a job to support themselves. Ding Jiali is stubborn, completely does not listen to her adoptive parents, and insists on learning acting.
On the way to Shanghai, the adoptive parents told Ding Jiali that since she chose this road, she should go on well. She nodded.
After graduation, she entered the Chinese Drama Theatre with excellent grades.
With a stable career, Ding Jiali's adoptive parents began to worry about their daughter's lifelong events, and they were introduced to the actor Hu Guangchuan.
Hu Guangchuan is an actor and a colleague of Ding Jiali.
When they first met, Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan left a good impression and decided to continue the exchange.
It didn't take long for Ding Jiali to take the initiative to express her love to Hu Guangchuan, and he was still a little shy, so he quickly agreed.
In love for a while, Hu Guangchuan took good care of Ding Jiali, giving her a feeling that she wanted to spend a lifetime with this person.
In 1986, Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan married.
After marriage, Ding Jiali and Hu Guangchuan were busy with their careers, often staying alone in an empty house, and she had other thoughts.
Fortunately, Ding Jiali was pregnant with a child, and her relationship with Hu Guangchuan was on the right track, but it seemed to be a premeditation.
Throughout the pregnancy, Hu Guangchuan did not accompany Ding Jiali and was taken care of by his in-laws.
Even on the day of childbirth, Hu Guangchuan was not by Ding Jiali's side, but accompanied by another woman.
It turned out that he already knew that Ding Jiali was unfaithful, and he wanted to take revenge on his wife at this time.
In 1987, Ding Jiali entered the delivery room, and for some reason, the doctor recommended a caesarean section. This needed to be discussed with her husband, and as a result, Hu Guangchuan was not there, and she could only decide for herself.
However, during the caesarean section, an anesthetic is required. The anesthesiologist went out to answer the phone because of something, which caused him to be in a bad mood and forgot to give Ding Jiali anesthesia.
The doctor's first knife went down, Ding Jiali screamed, the sound was so loud that the whole hospital could hear it, and the doctor still wanted to take anesthesia and do so.
In the pain, the doctor pulled out the child, she felt the intestines, stomach, heart all pulled out, on the spot unconscious.
After three days of coma, it was the mother-in-law who accompanied Ding Jiali, and her husband Hu Guangchuan still did not appear.
When Ding Jiali woke up to see her mother-in-law crying, she thought that the child did not survive and passed out. When she woke up again, her mother-in-law told her: It hurts you, and the child is fine.
Ding Jiali looked at her daughter very happy, forgot the pain, and named hulina.
After a while, she remembered her husband and asked about Hu Guangchuan's situation, but she did not expect to receive the news that her husband had cheated.
Ding Jiali wanted to put up with it for the sake of the child, and when she returned home from the hospital, her husband did not ask her and the child.
Her indifferent attitude made her feel cold, and she couldn't live with Hu Guangchuan's life.
On the day of her daughter's full moon, Ding Jiali called her husband to her side and filed for divorce. Hu Guangchuan did not have any expression and said yes.
After the divorce formalities, she rushed home to pack her things.
She looked at her daughter who had just reached the full moon and was very entangled, and she was reluctant to give up her daughter, but she thought that having a child in her future would affect her life.
Ding Jiali decided not to have a daughter, left it to her ex-husband Hu Guangchuan to take care of, waiting for her free time to see her daughter.
As a result, she never came back.
Hu Linna lived with Hu Guangchuan, and most of the time due to her father's work, she was taken care of by her grandparents.
Hu Guangchuan's development in the show business circle was not smooth, and in order to support his daughter, he decided to do business.
Business is like a battlefield, his development in this circle is not smooth, they all began to borrow money to maintain their lives, and they all lost money overnight.
Hu Guangchuan owed a lot of debts, was unable to repay them, could not stay in this home, and chose to leave secretly.
That year, Hu Linna was only 5 years old, and it was when she was curious about the world that she was once again abandoned by her relatives.
Although the grandparents are a certain age, they try to give their granddaughters the best life possible. In some things, the grandparents are still powerless.
When you are old, your body is prone to problems, and if you have a problem, you will be hospitalized, and Hulina will have no one to take care of her.
She will go to the teacher's house, today by the class teacher, tomorrow by the math teacher. Wait for her grandparents to return from the hospital before she can return to her home.
Growing up in such an environment, Hulina often wondered where my parents had gone.
She is afraid that the school will hold parent-child activities, afraid of being said to be a child without a father and a mother, she often finds various excuses, and her parents do not have time to participate.
That day, the classmate and her parents were happy to play games, and she could only envy and envy in the corner, why did I have parents, why can't I play games with them?
She often fantasized that one day her mother would appear in front of me with a gift, and she thought that she was not good enough, so she studied hard.
Took the first place several times, full score, and there was no blessing from her parents, only her grandparents were happy for her.
Because Ding Jiali met her beloved again, got married and had children, and left her daughter with her ex-husband behind.
With the passage of time, Hulina's grandparents were getting worse and worse every day, and they all left her.
As a mother, Ding Jiali still did not go to find her daughter, hulina was sad and sad, thinking that she had become an orphan, but was adopted by her uncle.
The uncle has his own happy family, has two children to support, does not want to raise, but he is Hu Guangchuan's younger brother.
When she first arrived at her uncle's house, Hu Linna was still very happy and could live with her sisters, and the three of them often played together and wrote homework together.
But the uncle was very strict with Hulina, as long as there was something wrong with it, he scolded on the spot.
Once, my sister didn't want to write homework, so she asked her sister to help her write for herself, only to be discovered by her uncle. The uncle was very angry and gave her a slap.
Hu Linna was directly lying on the ground and was confused, completely unaware that her uncle would do this to herself, which made her feel the heartache under the fence.
Since then, she has lived in this family cautiously, afraid of being beaten for doing the wrong thing, and often wondering why others are so happy, I can't.
Children's playfulness is uncontrollable, and they forget everything when they are happy.
That day, the sisters wanted to play a pillow fight, and Hulina took her sister upstairs to play and was seen by her uncle.
The uncle didn't ask anything, just went up to give her a slap, and Hulina kept crying in pain.
The uncle tugged at her collar impatiently and walked in the direction of the little black room.
This little black room was where the ashes of her grandparents were placed, and the house was very dark, and she couldn't see anything, and she was very afraid.
She cried and said, "Uncle, I was wrong. I don't dare anymore, you don't lock me up inside, can you let me out.
The uncle outside the door didn't ask or ask, to take care of his own business.
In the little black room she thought a lot, hating why her parents gave birth to me but didn't want me, why didn't they come to save me?
Is it because I don't understand things, or because I spend too much money, or because I look ugly? Why don't you want me?
After being locked up for a day and a night, I wanted to think about it day and night, and I couldn't understand it at all.
Whatever the reason, I want my mother to take herself away. Unfortunately, Ding Jiali has only seen her daughter 2 times.
On the day of Hu Linna's birthday, she was very surprised to see her mother Ding Jiali, and quickly ran over to hug her mother.
He ran to his side and stopped moving, because there was a little boy next to his mother.
She only then understood that after her parents divorced, they had a new family, so it was inconvenient to pick me up.
Hu Linna still held a glimmer of hope and quietly asked her mother if she could take me away. Ding Jiali said: Yes.
She was so happy that she couldn't close her mouth. This meal was the happiest meal she had ever eaten when she came to her uncle's house.
After the meal, Ding Jiali gave Hu Linna money and asked her to buy delicious food, and she went upside down.
Ding Jiali watched her daughter's fading figure, hurried back to the house to pack up her things, and took her son home.
Hulina came back to look for her mother, and her uncle said she was gone.
She hurried in the direction of the station, but there was no one there, and she returned to her uncle's house in a cold heart.
When Ding Jiali came to see her daughter again, she did not mention leaving the house.
Because Hulina's hopes of staying away from this home are dashed, she can only be well-behaved and sensible so as not to be beaten.
No matter what she did, her uncle had all kinds of reasons to scold, and she could only bear it, if she cried, the beating would be worse.
Hu Linna thought that she must study hard and leave this home early, and soon this day will come.
When Hu Linna was in the second year of junior high school, Ding Jiali finally opened her mind and decided to take her daughter home.
Living with her mom was something she dreamed of, and she didn't seem too happy.
Coming to the new home, Hu Linna is very restrained, polite with Ding Jiali, not at all like her own mother and daughter.
Ding Jiali told her daughter: This is your home, you are not foster now, you are a little more comfortable, I love you.
Hu Linna's heart was very warm when she heard this sentence, and she also wanted to be intimate with Ding Jiali, but there was a gap in between.
Ding Jiali took the initiative to break the relationship with her daughter, she had no way, how to treat the guests, how to treat the daughter, the two lived together very awkwardly.
When it was better to go to high school, Hulina went to boarding school, just to go home once a week.
However, Ding Jiali does not care about her daughter's life, only cares about her daughter's study.
Hu Linna, who usually ranks at the top, took the penultimate exam, and Ding Jiali did not know what to do, and called her uncle to educate the children.
As a result, when the uncle saw her, she went up and slapped her, and Ding Jiali next to her was frightened and stupid, and did not dare to move at all. She was disappointed to see that her mother did not react.
She no longer dared not study well, and the pressure was high, and her grades could not go up, causing her to dare not go home.
Ding Jiali waited for her daughter at home, thinking that she had not finished school, so she called the teacher to ask about the situation, but the head said that she had left class early.
She was very anxious, and it was not until nearly twelve o'clock that Hulina came home and told her mother: "Just after school."
Ding Jiali was very angry when she saw her daughter lying: You lie, you give me a roll.
Hu Linna ran directly out of the house and came to the overpass, watching people coming and going, especially desperate, feeling that she was superfluous in this world, and wanted to jump.
At that time, Ding Jiali and her friends went to look for her separately, and her friends found her and asked her to go home with her first.
The next morning, a friend called Ding Jiali and said that the child was with me, you know? Sister, you are too willful. You can't do this.
Ding Jiali realized that she had done something wrong and felt sorry for her daughter. However, she did not have a chance to say goodbye to her daughter.
After graduating from high school, Hu Linna was admitted to Nanguang, and there were fewer opportunities to return home, and Ding Jiali was too busy filming to visit her daughter.
After waiting until her daughter graduated from college, she did not choose to live with her mother, but rented a house.
At the New Year, Hu Linna did not go home, and Ding Jiali did not take the initiative to ask her daughter to go home, so she called her mother, just as if it was the New Year.
She had a very hard time, and the little salary of the film editor was difficult to support herself, so she could only buy 50 yuan of apples to put at home and eat for a week.
Even if she can't live a life, Hu Linna did not ask for help from her mother, and sent a text message to Ding Jiali to report good news and not worry.
In 2013, Hulina was 26 years old and still couldn't achieve anything, so she wanted to be an actress like her mother.
When I told Ding Jiali about this idea, I was opposed, saying that you don't do it, it is more difficult.
Hu Linna did not listen, made up her mind to lose weight, lost forty or fifty pounds at once, and began to run dragon sets in various crews.
No matter what role, she is not disgusted to make money.
Having been an actress for so long, she understands that it is not easy for her mother, and why her mother abandoned herself and did not take care of herself in the first place.
She decided to reconcile with her mother, participated in "I Am Not a Star", and bravely spoke about her childhood experiences.
In the show, Ding Jiali has already arrived at the scene, but when she heard her daughter tell about the beating when she was a child, she was very remorseful, guilty, and did not have the courage to see her daughter.
Hu Linna entered the finals, Ding Jiali finally appeared, and the moment the two saw each other, they cried with headaches.
Ding Jiali said: I'm sorry daughter, selfishness let her bear things that she shouldn't bear at a young age, and she really feels guilty.
Hu Linna quickly comforted her mother: No, it was not easy for her mother in the past, it was not easy to support this family alone, there was no way to make such a decision.
Hu Linna also felt that she did not do well enough, the things promised to her mother were always impossible, sorry mother, did not contact and communicate with her mother earlier, I hope that my mother can have confidence in herself.
Later, Hu Linna returned to Ding Jiali's side, and her mother was also very supportive of her walking the path of an actor. Where there is a need for Ding Jiali, she will help without hesitation.
Because her daughter has not studied acting, she personally teaches her daughter how to perform and cut the action.
Now that Hu Linna is 34 years old, Ding Jiali wants her to get married soon, but she has not yet met that person. Because her parents divorced, she was also somewhat resistant to marriage.
Divorce may be the entrance to happiness for parents. But for children, it's a nightmare.