preface:
We always have some throbbing inside when we are with the opposite sex.
We may only fall in love with someone for a moment, but it takes a long time to fall in love with someone.
So in my opinion, liking and loving are completely different, and love is inseparable.
We all know in our hearts that liking someone is not the same as loving.
But the premise of loving someone must be to like and want to continue to walk with the other person.
Over time, as two people face things together, they will find that they are more and more inseparable from each other.
Everyone's view of love is different, some people think that love is a very crazy thing,
Love and marriage do not even produce a relationship, and some people think that the most perfect love arises between the same sex.
We often say that liking a person is not the same as loving a person,
But the premise of loving someone is to like that person, and this liking continues to become love.
So what is the difference between liking and loving? Social psychologists have found interesting phenomena in the process of studying the difference between the two.
One person likes another person and there are several rules to follow.
In fact, we all know that two people who see each other regularly will like each other more.
This is understandable as to why people who meet often in life are more likely to develop feelings.
I believe that each of us knows that if we like someone, we want to stay with each other,
For example, using similar personalities, the same hobbies, and the same three views and interests can greatly close the distance between two people.
So you like each other as much as you like yourself, full of appreciation and feel very familiar.
Two people with a good relationship in heterosexual interactions have a distinction between like and love,
Some are just likes between friends, and some can develop into lovers.
Especially men, they always don't like to show their feelings,
So when they behave very kindly to the opposite sex, they always let others misunderstand.
But as long as we carefully distinguish, we can clearly distinguish whether we like it or love.
Because liking is far from appreciating, being able to get along peacefully without too many ties.
And love is the concern in the heart, wanting to know each other's information all the time.
So a man will always be very polite to the woman he likes and will also keep his distance.
On the contrary, those who love deeply will give more for each other.
In the eyes of men, like a person, only like each other's bright highlight moments,
And to love someone, no matter what state the other person is in, is willing to accept.
When you like someone, you pay more attention to yourself
The degree of care of liking and loving is actually not the same,
When we like someone, we will mostly pay attention to our emotions and experiences.
You will feel very sad when you are separated, and you will feel very happy when you meet.
This is often from your own point of view to experience the feeling of the moment.
And true love is the habit of making considerations for the other person.
It will also be more concerned about whether the other party is happy, and pay more attention to what the other party thinks in their hearts.
In fact, I know that I will not have a future with each other, and I will feel happy because of the happiness of the other party.
Like is universal love is unique
Love is always one level higher than love, and this is the truth of love house and Wu.
Even if there is something bad about the other person, it cannot prevent us from loving him.
In this lifetime, we will have a good feeling and like for many people.
But love alone is unique and will never linger in a new car.
In this life, it is difficult for us to have several unforgettable loves.
A lot of people will ask you what type you like, and we generally say that you are handsome and uninteresting.
But love someone, even if the other person is a flaw and looks ordinary, we will always be in love.
From a physiological point of view, liking is the secretion of hormones is a short-term business impulse.
And love is a city where feelings and responsibilities accumulated over a long period of time are completely different.
Conclusion:
In fact, love is both beautiful and very complicated,
Often love is more of a test of the degree of tacit understanding between two people.
This process is often long-term and unstable, and many times love will make us feel lost.
But if we spend the rest of our lives with the people we love, it is nothing we can restrain.
Liking someone is a feeling, loving someone is a touch.
Like is the beginning of love, maybe it has nothing to do with love, but love is love, it is twilight.
Loving someone will toss and turn because of missing each other, and liking someone will be eager to possess.
On the contrary, loving someone gives the other complete freedom and understanding.
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Are loving someone and liking someone two completely different feelings?
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References | Behaviour research and therapy