Recently, a group of dads with the baby to write homework video fire, watching the usual gentle and rational dad mentality gradually collapsed, mothers can't help but laugh out loud.
In the video, a Sven dad with glasses is about to be mad and actually says, "I think you were sent by heaven to clean me up!" Then he thanked his son and even called him "big brother."
The other dad, with a broom in his hand, rushed up to beat people every minute, and roared angrily: "Nine-nine-forty-five, are you angry?" “
There is also a father, he thinks it is a very simple problem, the son just will not, so anxious that the father had to squat down and impatiently explain to his son.
Studies have shown that the most harmful thing to family relationships at present is to help children with homework, especially math homework. This work hurts not only the parent-child relationship, but also the relationship between husband and wife.
Therefore, when tutoring children with homework, it is particularly important to appropriately change your way and method.
1. Both parents take turns to counsel
Do not leave the task of tutoring your child's homework entirely to the father or mother, and both parents can take turns to tutor your child's homework.
In this way, both husband and wife can participate in the child's learning and education, have a certain understanding of the child's growth, and alleviate each other's tension, which is conducive to family unity and the improvement of husband and wife, parent-child relationship.
2, the first is patience, and the other is to control the emotions
Your patience will make it easy for your child to accept your homework tutoring, if you can't control your emotions, don't easily tutor your child.
The first discipline for parents to observe is:
To understand the child's thinking to tutor the child's learning; you can point out the problem but do not easily blame the child; you can be strict but not ruthless; you should pay attention to the way to guide the child, and always pay attention to the child's feelings.
3. Let the child check the homework by himself
When the child finishes the homework, first let the child check it himself to see if there are any errors; this purpose is to let the child's ability to find errors, applied to the test, can improve the score.
After the child is checked, the parents will check again, and if the error is checked, the reason for the error will be patiently explained, so that the child can avoid the occurrence of this error in the future.
4, do not stare at the child to write homework
Some parents like to stare at their children to do homework, once they find that there is a problem, or the words are wrong, the writing is crooked, while helping the child to scribble, while criticizing, complaining, and blaming the child:
"How to do it, and do it wrong, always can't change it." "How many times have I said it, I just can't remember it, I'm angry!"
We can imagine that in this tense and anxious atmosphere, can the door of interest and energy in his learning still be opened? At this time, no matter how much the parents say to teach, he can't listen to it, and he can't change it.
5, do not blindly criticize and accuse, point out problems in praise
Without blaming children, how to make children understand what is wrong? How to make children truly accept and correct it? This requires parents to do: more praise and less criticism, and point out problems in the table.
Not only tell your child what is wrong, but also take the opportunity to praise the right place.
Each question is repeated, "Right, right, right, right, right, huh?" Is this right? This increases the chances of positive feedback so that children don't feel that "checking together" is a particularly scary process
Making children "not disgusted" is a very important point at the beginning of anything.
Although the disadvantages of tutoring homework are a basket: destroying family affection, detrimental to the health of parents, affecting family harmony...
But parents still can't leave their children's homework alone, so be a wise parent and grow up with your children on the road of tutoring homework!
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