Speaking of the baby, I believe that many people will think of those endless nights, the dark circles that cannot be covered, and the sound is getting louder and louder, which are the "sequelae" left by the baby in the back. Post-70s people may know this better. After having children, it can be said that they are conscientious and dare not relax at all. Their lives will be plunged into a dire situation, and even shopping and dressing will become a luxury. However, for the post-90s in the new era, it seems easy to take a baby. There was not a trace of a baby's "ruin" on their faces. They dress appropriately and are energetic every day. The key is that the baby that comes out is still better. Great, don't live too happily. The post-90s generation born of the "Buddhist system" has these three obvious advantages, and the post-70s generation is not envious.
Don't be a traditional good wife and mother, the pursuit of self-improvement, "after marriage, the family is yours?" For this question, the answer of the post-90s generation is very negative. In their cognition, marriage is not the main theme of their lives, and they will not completely pin their happiness on marriage. Instead, they have more ideals and pursuits, focusing on realizing self-worth and sublimating their lives, rather than living at a glance. Even if you have children, you won't change your plans. This is a good example for children, boldly pursuing what they want, constantly improving themselves and making themselves better. It's something that "viable" mothers can't teach their children.
Don't be a superior parent, but be friends with your child. The post-90s generation advocates equality between people. On the issue of children's education, they will not stick to the tradition like the post-70s generation, emphasizing their majesty and status as elders in front of their children. Instead, put your child in the same position as yourself, give your child enough respect, and become friends with your child. For example, when children play with toys, the post-70s may only look at one side first and will not participate. The post-90s generation likes to play with children. In the process of playing with toys, you can not only develop the child's intelligence and exercise his communication skills, but also close the parent-child relationship to a large extent and become the child's most trusted and intimate partner.
Avant-garde thinking allows children to grow up freely. One of the characteristics of the post-90s generation is the pursuit of freedom. Neither thought nor acted, they wanted to be restricted. So when educating children, it is natural to follow this principle. They will be more tolerant of their children than to set an example for them. They will not forcibly interfere with a child's choices and let him pursue the life he really wants. This practice may seem irresponsible to the post-70s. However, this kind of "open" education will effectively enhance the child's subjective initiative, enhance his creativity and imagination, and let him have his own personality, rather than "pipe" education out of the "good" child.
From the "rebellious generation" to the "new parents", the post-90s generation is not only reversing their own labels, but also defining "Chinese parents". They pursue scientific parenting and also focus on self-liberation. It seems to be a hard-core way to take a baby, but it contains a strong sense of love.