Why boys are getting poorer and poorer in love is a question worth pondering, which seems simple, but it is actually created by many reasons.
From ancient times to the present, the problem of men and women is a problem that our society cannot avoid, and it is also a mainstream problem, and only when the problem of men and women is solved, the society will be stable and everyone will be happy. At the beginning of the last century, at the end of the Qing Dynasty, men were still inferior to women, there were still many feudal ideas, and the status of men was always higher than that of women. However, through the efforts and propaganda of many people of insight, many people have slowly opened their minds, begun to be wise, and began to understand that we are all born equal, and there is no such thing as nobility or poverty. That was just an excuse used by the former dignitaries to deceive the people at the bottom of society.
Entering the 21st century, most of us should agree that we have entered a highly developed civilized society, although for the vast cosmic civilization, our earth culture is insignificant. Under the analysis of European and American scientists, cosmic civilization is divided into seven levels.
The first level of civilization: planetary civilization, this level of civilization has broken through the gravitational constraints of the parent star to freely go to space, we humans are still in the initial stage of this lowest level civilization, is entering the intermediate stage. When we are able to freely shuttle through the eight planets in the solar system one day, we can say that we have fully entered the advanced stage of planetary civilization.
The second level of civilization: stellar civilization, in this level of civilization has been able to build a device similar to the "Dyson ball" to perfectly collect the energy of stars, this stage of human beings basically will not have an energy crisis, because the life of the sun is still billions of years, enough for us to slowly use. We humans are able to send scientifically researched manned spacecraft to other stars.
The third level of civilization: galactic civilization, when we are at this level of civilization, it proves that travel between star systems has been fully realized, colonies have been established in the right star system, not only that, civilization has been able to send cross-river level super detectors, such as from within the Milky Way to Andromeda. It is estimated that the number of scientists in this civilization needs to be at least ten billion, which is still an astronomical number for the earth today. We know that the total population of the earth is just over 7.6 billion.
Fourth-level civilization: river civilization, this level of civilization has been able to carry out large-scale cross-river tourism, and even the possibility of high-latitude exploration, time may become a controllable weapon in their hands, time back and leap in the future may be a dream come true. People at that time may have used their ability to see things in the past, present, and future. Of course, I still can't believe it. Because the past is already a fact, if you change the past, it will affect the present, which will cause instability in the whole space, which is incomprehensible to human beings at present. The past cannot be traced, it is not too late, and the future can still be expected.
Fifth-level civilization: dimensional civilization, the civilization at this level has been able to travel across dimensions, and multi-dimensional space is no longer an obstacle for them. They have been able to make unlimited use of all kinds of energy, and the survival of civilization has been fundamentally guaranteed.
Sixth-level civilization: cosmic civilization, cosmic civilization has thoroughly mastered all the physical laws of the universe and can be used flexibly, and causal weapons may appear. Distance and dimension are no longer barriers to their communication, and they can even travel between universes, in a sense, this civilization can be said to be omnipotent in this universe, equivalent to the "role of God", they are the rules of the universe themselves.
The seventh level of civilization, this level of civilization is our current unimaginable existence, perhaps no civilization can reach this level, only exist in our fantasy, perhaps civilization to describe them is no longer suitable, they are no longer created by the universe, but the creator of the universe itself, perhaps countless cosmic civilizations live in the cage of "their creation." Of course, this is all the current speculation and conjecture of mankind, after all, we are currently only in the early stage of the lowest level of civilization. It's still so much hard for us to go to the nearest moon, let alone fly out of the solar system and explore the Milky Way. The Milky Way galaxy, which is only 100,000 light-years in diameter, is an insignificant distance for the boundless universe, and even if we can travel freely through the galaxy, we are still so small for the universe, so civilization really has no end.
Far from it, let's talk about the relationship between men and women in the earth civilization. Due to the cultural influences of thousands of years, we have a big man mind and a little woman mind. In the previous social civilization, men went out to earn money to support their families, and women were at home with their babies and farmed. Today's society, has long been different from a hundred years ago, now men and women can go out to work to earn money, men can also take a baby at home, in the end what is a personal freedom. Of course, there are still invisible social pressures that drive you to know what you can and can't do. Men with babies at home may be misunderstood by many people, and women may have many difficulties in working outside, but people live, who can be more relaxed.
Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, where there are rivers and lakes, there are love and hate, there are countless problems and contradictions, which require civilization to control the order, otherwise it will be chaotic. Nowadays, under the influence of social civilization, men and women fall in love, it seems that men should pay the bill, and it is natural for men to pay for it, and it is reasonable. In fact, if you think about it, this is a logical mistake. We have always emphasized the equality of men and women, since it is equal, then eating together can be paid separately, of course, if you are willing to help pay together, this is nothing, but can not say that it must be a man to come, otherwise it is said that this man is stingy, there is a problem.
Of course, there are also many enlightened women who will be happy to pay for themselves, because they like to be independent and self-reliant since they are young, and they do not like to take advantage, what they like to eat, and what they buy by themselves is the most deserving. You can't find a man to ask for money because you are in love, this is not right.
We all know that love is emotional, and it should be the details to feel happiness and touch. Life is rational, it tells us that there is no material premise basis, and it is difficult to love for a long time after all. Of course, this material basis varies from person to person. Some people need tens of millions of material foundations, and some people only need tens of thousands of material foundations to settle down and live slowly. Rich people have rich people's laws, and people without money also have laws without money, and as long as everyone is satisfied in their hearts, they will actually feel happy. This is true, each of us, whether rich or not, has a lot of happy memories, that has little to do with whether you are rich or not, such as when you were a child, your father bought your favorite food and playable toys, you may be happy for a few days, which is very happy.
Love may be a whim, but managing love requires long-term tolerance and understanding from two people. Why so many men spend a lot of money when they are in love, not only because he is generous but also because he needs to do it in this social culture, otherwise he may not be able to gain a lover, or he can't catch a heart that loves him.
We always say that money can't buy sincerity, but money can buy care. Anyone who understands the meaning of the words understands, so I will not expand on it. Many couples who fall in love on campus will break up after entering the society, in fact, their respective pursuits are different, cultural concepts are different, unlike when they study together, everyone is the same simple cultural atmosphere, without too much social interference.
When a boy is not thinking about how to accompany you, but planning your future, this is the right person. But what kind of girl deserves such a boy to do this for her? Everyone wants to find someone they want to love and love themselves, but in the vast sea of people, it is difficult to find a true friend, let alone a lover who stays together for a lifetime. In fact, so many people around us are married and divorced, many of them are living together, and they themselves do not understand whether there is love between them, how much love there is, and how much test they can withstand.
Husband and wife were originally the same forest birds, and they flew separately in the face of great trouble. I hope that all loving couples in the world will not have such a sad ending.