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Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

In the campus we often see such a situation, whenever the physical education class, the physical education teacher is either sick or sick on the way, because the physical education class is always occupied, so back to their own student days of the physical education teacher, their faces are always so blurry.

As a "deputy subject" teacher, the physical education teacher is very easy to be ignored, but there is such a physical education teacher in Anshan, Liaoning Province, who has not become an unimportant existence in the eyes of students, but has become an irreplaceable immortal figure in the hearts of students.

His name is Bai Jian, is the "father" in the hearts of many children, although he was married at the age of 46, he was already a fatherly existence in the hearts of more than 120 children a long time ago, and today we will tell his story.

The hope of the whole county, the college students out of the countryside

Bai Jian was born in Huludao City in 1973, his parents are rural people, Bai Jian's living conditions are not good, when he went to school, he had to walk several miles of mountain roads every day to get to school, and the determined Bai Jian survived a difficult academic career and finally became the second college student in the county.

As one of the few college students in the county, Bai Jian has received the attention of the whole village, as a prospective college student Bai Jian's heart is undoubtedly excited, but the tuition fee of 3,000 yuan for college has overwhelmed the family, and finally Bai Jian has entered the university gate with the joint help of the villagers.

Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

As the pride and hope of the whole village, Bai Jian never dared to relax in his studies, he worked while going to school to earn tuition, successfully completed his studies in 1995, and was assigned to a middle school to become a physical education teacher after graduation.

After Bai Jian became a physical education teacher, his life was very leisurely and stable, as if he could see his head at a glance, but the appearance of a child completely changed all this, and it was also because of this child That Bai Jian's life took a big turn.

In 1996, Xiao Hao, the second year of junior high school, because of the divorce of his parents, became a poor child who did not want both sides, Bai Jian, as Xiao Hao's physical education teacher, keenly discovered Xiao Hao's difficulties and uneasiness, and looked at the helpless Xiao Hao Bai Jian's heart soft, so he let Xiao Hao live in his single dormitory, and used a monthly salary of 193 yuan to support Xiao Hao's food, clothing, and housing.

Xiao Hao, who is in the rebellious period, does not understand that the teacher is not easy, addicted to online games, he actually stole 1,000 yuan behind bai jian, Xiao Hao took this thousand yuan to stay in the Internet café day and night, the school did not go home and did not return as if it disappeared out of thin air, there was no way Bai Jian could only find an Internet café and an Internet café.

After two consecutive days of searching, Bai Jian finally found the "missing" Xiao Hao in a game hall, for the 1,000 yuan that disappeared, Xiao Hao did not admit that he took it himself, and after the education was ineffective, Bai Jian still took Xiao Hao home.

The cost of living is gone, Bai Jian can only take Xiao Hao three meals a day to eat steamed pickles, the rapid fire attack heart and malnutrition, Bai Jian coughed up blood phlegm, watching the teacher so hard, Xiao Hao finally couldn't help but cry out, he admitted to Bai Jian the fact of stealing money and called out "Daddy" to the man who had been taking care of him and accommodating him.

Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

This "father" made Bai Jian feel that there was a thousand gold weights, and gradually Bai Jian took on the responsibility of Xiao Hao's father, until he sent Xiao Hao to the university, probably under the influence of Bai Jian, and later Xiao Hao also became a glorious people's teacher.

Children without umbrellas, to run hard

Since Xiao Hao, Bai Jian has continued to adopt children, including Xiao Yong, who is poor and unable to complete his studies, Mei Ni, who has only an elderly grandmother in his fatherless and motherless family, and Xiao Yang, who is rebellious and has poor academic performance.

The children have their own conditions, each of them makes Bai Jian feel unable to give up, slowly their team has become more than a dozen people, the single dormitory can not put so many children, Bai Jian had to find a new house to provide better accommodation conditions for the children, and for these children, Bai Jian also took over his parents in the countryside to cook for the children.

These children grew up one after another, and when Bai Jian looked at them, he remembered himself who had studied hard, and he remembered himself who ran back and forth on the mountain, so he was more determined to send these suffering children to college.

In the day and night with children, more and more children regard Bai Jian as a father, although the children sleep in a small and crowded room, but they can have so many "family" to accompany, and the days of suffering are also flowing with joyful notes.

Slowly Bai Jian's children are more and more, some children's cultural class results are not ideal, it is difficult to get into college, Bai Jian suggested that children learn sports, because Bai Jian is a long-distance runner, he feels that children can choose the marathon project, marathon is bitter and tired, few people can stick to it, as long as enough effort to practice will definitely produce results.

Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

Therefore, in the streets of Anshan, Liaoning, people can often see that Before dawn, Bai Jian took the children to run around the city, this run is more than twenty years, many children have not seen the night of four o'clock in the morning, Bai Jian and his children have seen.

For more than twenty years, Bai Jian firmly believed that as long as he kept running, he could see the dawn of dawn.

Between getting along with the children day and night, Bai Jian brings them not only knowledge, materials, but also spiritual enlightenment, and some children have left irreparable scars on their hearts because they have been abandoned by their biological parents, they do not believe that there are still true feelings between people, and they also hate society.

It is Bai Jian's spring wind and rain education that makes them put down their anger and make them believe that there will be darkness in this world occasionally, but as long as there is light, it will illuminate everything, Bai Jian will let the children sit around, tell them the story of 918, and will also take them to the beach to play in their leisure time, and will also cook a hand-cooked meal for the children after work.

With such careful care and sincere treatment, the children who were once hated and extreme gradually let go of their hatred and slowly embraced and reconciled with the world.

Insufficient funding and hard work

Bai Jian has adopted more than 120 children before and after, in order to live for more than a hundred children, Bai Jian must find ways to make money, for more than twenty years, he has opened a stationery store, supported a barbecue stall, set up a stall, sold box lunches, and also participated in variety shows and sports competitions, as long as it is a way to make money he has tried one by one.

Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

Meet love around the corner and reap happiness

Just at this time, there are several children who need tuition fees to go to college, Bai Jian is impatient, he has always had a strong sense of self-esteem, in order to solve the problem of children's tuition fees, he first opened his mouth to borrow money from parents at the parents' meeting, Bai Jian promised that as long as he has him one day, he will repay this money, in fact, for The character of Teacher Bai Parents are particularly trusting.

It didn't take long for Bai Jian to raise the children's tuition, and the children were grateful for everything the teacher had done, and they knew that it took a lot of courage for a teacher to open his mouth to borrow money from his parents, but at that time, for Bai Jian, it was more important than the face tuition.

Hard work will always be rewarded, under the hard work of Bai Jian, the children have a bright future, some have been admitted to the sports college, some have gone to well-known universities, and some children have become craftsmen, no matter what line of work they do, they have not failed to live up to Bai Jian's good intentions.

Children who went to college will often come back to visit Bai Jian, like filial piety to their own father, Bai Jian to save difficult students is known to more and more people, the Olympic Games that year Bai Jian became a glorious torchbearer, more than a dozen children saved money to buy a pair of brand-name sneakers for Bai Jian.

Bai Jian wore such a pair of shoes and became more determined about everything in the future. He has always believed that what he does is meaningful. Being with and accompanying children is an indescribable happiness, everyone needs love to survive in this world, Bai Jian gave these children the love they longed for, and the same children returned the same love.

Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

Saving so many children, Bai Jian's father and mother, sister and brother-in-law, and brothers and sisters-in-law have all joined in, which can be described as a family mobilization, although the family has a tight life, but watching those children receive due education and get a bright future, all this hard work is not nothing.

So many years of time, there are children continue to go out, there are new members to join, in the blink of an eye Bai Jian has passed the marriageable age, Bai Jian knows that his conditions are average, but also with so many children, try to ask which girl is willing to marry over to become the "mother" of so many children, but also for their food, clothing, housing and travel.

Bai Jian had also tried to get along with several girls, and the process of getting along was pleasant, but as soon as the girls heard that there were so many children in Bai Jian's family, they turned around and left.

Some girls also proposed that "since the children have all been adopted, they can't be driven out, but don't recycle them in the future." Although the girl is very good, Bai Jian cannot agree to her request, and the pace of adopting a child cannot be stopped, so this relationship can only end in vain."

In 2008, the story of Bai Jian was reported in the central set of "Oriental Time and Space", just a few minutes of video made the eyes of the people in front of the TV set moist, as soon as the matter was reported, people began to use practical actions to help Bai Jian, some of them donated money, some donated money, some contributed manpower.

It is worth saying that there is a Hubei girl, because she is also a sports enthusiast, after seeing the report, she resolutely quit her job in Beijing, and met Bai Jian after coming to Liaoning, because the same interests and hobbies the two fell in love, and Bai Jian finally waited for his true love when he was in his forties.

Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

The girl did not feel that the children in Bai Jian's family were a burden, but she liked this group of children very much and volunteered to become the "mother" of more than a hundred children.

In 2019, the two registered their marriage, many media rushed to report, and the powerful "Bai Jiajun" also attended the wedding.

In 2020, the 47-year-old Bai Jian finally ushered in his own son and became a real father.

Bai Jian named his son Niu Niu, who said that he had been doing good all his life and hoped that after the birth of the child, he could enjoy the full love of the world. Niu Niu has more than a hundred brothers and sisters since birth, and will surely grow up happily in a loving environment in the future.

The lives of Bai Jian and the children continued, but they kept the clouds open and saw the moon, and the days were getting better and better, Bai Jian gained a happy family, and the older children also became families.

The children who have become a family have deeply realized the difficulty of Bai Jian, some of them are suffering children who have no money to study, some are rebellious teenagers who give up on themselves, if there is no Bai Jian's help, they may become out-of-school children and become a social tumor, fortunately they met a good teacher.

Anshan physical education teacher Bai Jian: There are 120 children, scared away blind dates, 46 years old finally met true love

Bai Jian lit up the children's lives and futures with sparks, interpreted the meaning of being a teacher with his own actions, as a physical education teacher Bai Jian not only did his job well, but also did a good job to impress students, everything he did was beyond the teacher himself, he not only gave the students the future but also gave them the affection they longed for.

Ten years of trees and a hundred years of tree people, educating people is far more difficult than simply teaching knowledge, an excellent teacher can turn decay into magic, the engineer of the human soul, Bai Jian deserves it.

Far more difficult than simply teaching knowledge, a good teacher can turn decay into magic, the engineer of the human soul, Bai Jian deserved it.

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