That sentence the world is too bitter, the next life does not come really have the same feeling, the pain at the bottom is that there are old and young, want to provide them with everything good, but struggle to the end of the humble found that in addition to the guilt of the elderly, sorry for the children! I don't dare to have any expectations for life, I only hope to slowly survive. If I go back in time, I wish I were alone, only filial piety to my parents, and the child would not have to be born to suffer.
If people live in the present, if they are always compared with people in history, what is the meaning of the current environment in which everyone is in, and what is distressed is the current life, compared with history? How much happier can it be than coming out? Just like people have different troubles and pressures at different stages of their lives, compared with history, can they solve the current dilemma? Everyone experiences differently, so the expectations of life are different, the feelings are naturally different, so the understanding is more different. I'm talking about my experiences and feelings, maybe your height is different, your life feedback is different, so the attitude is different, so I read history again, and I don't think I'm too happy now.
I think that middle-aged people in their forties now, for a child who goes to school (non-aristocratic school), even if it is a university, should not reach this point, unless the family has had a major accident before, there is a lot of foreign debt, otherwise it is not so for a child to go to school, each family situation is different, there are indeed many places that we do not recognize.
So I don't understand why many people say that if they don't have the ability, they should get married, and people who don't have the ability can't get married. You can't even feed yourself? Can you afford to make one more person to eat and one more person to eat? Other parents may only have enough to have one child, but have several. It is said that children do not feel sorry for parents, obviously parents themselves do not have the ability or give birth to so much. I will not be responsible for my own life and push everything on the child's head, isn't the child miserable? He couldn't choose whether he was born or not.
The last thing to do is: it shouldn't be compared! Nothing is too big to do! Education must be taught according to aptitude, individuals must be implemented according to aptitude; what can be done, and it is not difficult to compare with others, living your own life, you are you, a grain of red dust in the world... The question is not that you can't afford to read, is it useful to read, how many people can find a job after graduation, and how many people can work from an early age because they can't afford to pay tuition, they can still live, it is not important to read or not, what is important is to have a self-reliant heart. How many college graduates can find the right professional job, all for free.
Now many children hate their parents because their parents have no money, and hate why they are not rich second generations. Therefore, marriage is risky, and you need to be cautious about having a baby! Now it is more difficult to educate children than in the past, caused by the environment, children learn to compare at a very young age! If the classmate is richer than him/her, such as wearing a brand name, using a high-end mobile phone, and sending in the circle of friends is not eating food in high-end restaurants or traveling all over the world, he/she will be unbalanced!
Big sister is not easy, adults are not sad, but the children of the big sister are also very pitiful, many children's hearts are actually quite sensitive, you think about if you go to school during the whole class have paid the tuition, you did not pay, maybe the teacher reminded you in person, how many of us at this age can withstand the eyes of the surrounding classmates. There's inquiry and even sarcasm. This child is not a luxury to show off the brand, if so we can blame him, the child wants tuition, can only say that adults at this age will find that if you have a child can not educate him well may really be better than not to have children, which is the reason for the low birth rate now, when we grow up, our world will have no light.
Adults, everyone has a little confusion; why bother with themselves? A drunk to relieve a thousand sorrows? Just a stupid way to escape for a while, the problem is still there, looking for sympathy and pity? Or forget it, in the world of thin affection, or live affectionately.
From the beginning of reading, let the children continue to study, the economic embarrassment will let the children learn a skill, and then do not go directly to work, want to open a little better, not so sad, the economic strength can not reach that level on the retreat to the second, life is just a few decades, no big deal, happy a little big sister.
Feeling that life is everyone's right, more often we should think, what makes such a big difference between people? The more time we think, the less we feel, and finally we will believe that everything in the world is inseparable from cause and effect. Everything we encounter today is self-inflicted by countless lifetimes, and none of them is innocent.