Take my daughter out shopping, when we passed a Hanfu shop, my daughter pulled me and said I wanted to go in to see it, so I took my daughter into the Hanfu store, my daughter took a fancy to a Hanfu, after trying it on, it was really beautiful, so I planned to buy this Hanfu, my daughter suddenly came and asked my mother if this Hanfu is very expensive, if it is expensive I don't want it.
After listening to it, I was surprised why he asked me this, and then I thought about it, it turned out that I often said something about money in front of her, tuition fees, dance classes, and family expenses need money, we don't have a lot of money.
Unexpectedly, my daughter remembered it all, and it was no wonder that I hadn't been allowed to take her to an amusement park or buy toys recently.
I originally said these words with the intention of letting children understand that it is not easy to make money, and that there must be a plan for spending money, but I did not expect that children began to suppress their own thoughts.
This made me suddenly think that it is the most painful thing for parents to cry poor and let their children understand things.
I have seen such a video before, in which some children are interviewed and asked if their parents have ever cried to themselves, and many children's answers are tacit.
Another girl said that her things were shared with her brother, and once told her mother that she wanted to have a thing of her own, and her mother told her that there was no extra money in the family.
Another girl said that every time her mother paid her tuition, she would hold her and cry falsely saying that her mother's money had paid for your tuition, and you must study well.
Such crying poverty, for children, in fact, is not much use, and invisibly put shackles on the child, so that the child becomes inferior.
Tsinghua professor Peng Kaiping once said:
If you often instill the concept of "poverty" in your children, after a long time, your child's thinking mode will fall into this kind of poor thinking, then even if you have money in the future, your subconscious will not get rid of the shackles of the poor.
Thinking of this, I first bought this dress for my child and told her:
"Baby" Although our family is not so rich, Mom and Dad will try to make money
When you grow up, you can also achieve some of the things you want through your own efforts.
Although crying poor can speed up the child's understanding, it will cultivate a poor child.
The correct way is that we should tell the child a correct view of money, let her know that it is not easy to make money, how to distribute and apply money reasonably, so that we can cultivate a positive, sunny, confident, and rich heart of the child.
I suggest that parents read more of the "Financial And Business Enlightenment for Children", which is very suitable for children with kindergarten and primary school stages.
There are many interesting stories in the book, in reading books, let children know how to make money, save money, spend money, such as "Where does the money come from" how to make money?
Mom and Dad go to work, and in a certain amount of time, they can get a salary.
For example, in "Learn to Make Money, Borrow money and Repay Money", children understand what it means to make money, repay money, and borrow money.
Do things to be reputable, borrow other money, be sure to return to others on time, the next time you have difficulties, others will continue to help you.
At the same time, when someone else wants to borrow your money, you also have the right to say "no".
"Spending money and so much learning" allows children to learn to consume rationally.
The Secret Behind the Fortune Tycoon
By telling about celebrity wealth, children know how to save and manage money.
There are many interesting little stories in the book, and with illustrations, it is easy for children to understand, and there is also an immersive feeling,
There will also be a series of questions in the book, so that children can learn and use them to deepen their memories.
Many parents have highly praised this book after reading it:
In fact, the child's development is all-round, in the education of money is also indispensable, if you also want your child to develop in all directions, then this set of books can cultivate children's correct values and outlook on life, must let children read a read ~