Can you think of:
A serious scum of the subject, one day can actually study abroad, after five levels and six will get a scholarship?
Has a girl who was bullied in school become a strong, confident, open-minded person today?
Can a person who lies in a hospital bed and needs to wear diapers stand in front of you today and smile at life and become an emotional knowledge blogger with nearly ten million fans?
Zhao Han is such a counterattack girl.
She is a well-known reading promoter, who studied international relations at the University of Melbourne in Australia, and has worked for Phoenix TV and Australia's Top 500 companies.
In the book "Han Xie: Fearless Truth", she tells us: In the challenging reality, we must not love the past, the present is not complicated, the future is not welcomed, in ordinary days, face all the opportunities of life with an atmospheric pattern!
01, say no to bullying.
School bullying has always existed and is severe.
The clip in the movie "Young You" is still vividly remembered, and the girl who jumped off the building could not bear to bully and gave up her life, which made people regret.
Recently, a video was circulated on the Internet, several girls punched and kicked a girl, and a girl with a cigarette, shouting and crazy.
The bullied girl curled up on the ground, begging for forgiveness, but in exchange for the intensification of bullying.
In the face of bullying, we must be brave enough to say no.
Teacher Zhao Han mentioned in "Han Xie: Fearless Truth" that he was also bullied in middle school, and once tolerated it did not exchange for calm and calm, but intensified and unscrupulous.
Later, she locked in a few people who often bullied her, and adopted the method of treating them in the same way, throwing all their toiletries into the trash can and cutting their underwear with scissors.
I like Teacher Zhao's approach.
After the rebellion, what was exchanged for the years was quiet, and the wind and waves were calm.
The famous writer Yu Hua said: "When we treat the world fiercely, the world suddenly becomes gentle and elegant. ”
Now some parents always let their children learn to be tolerant, and sometimes forbearance will only make the other party more arrogant.
"No one offends me, I do not offend, and if a man offends me, the Jedi strikes back."
The weaker you are, the more vulnerable you are to be bullied; the stronger you are, surrounded by people who have shown favor to you.
Hopefully, we are all "soft and selective at heart, and warm in armor." ”
02, a life of love and affection is the most beautiful yearning in life.
Sister-brother love has always been unpopular.
The beauty of love makes people yearn, and real love makes people desperate.
There are always people who want to look at each other's mobile phones to see if there are any little secrets hidden from them.
Instead of finding answers about whether you are loved or not, you should spend your mind on your work and improve your business. Excellent, people who love you will cherish you even more!
After all, when in love, two people appreciate each other and exchange emotions. Some people say: Recognition of a person begins with appearance, talent, character, kindness, and loyalty to character.
The love of walking into marriage is not a grave, but a pity for each other. Two people in a marriage have needs for each other, complete each other, and are evenly matched, in order to go far and go long.
Teacher Zhao Han's marriage is sister-brother love, they understand the spirit of marriage contract, learn to cooperate.
They understand each other, they are perfected, they are independent of each other, and neither of them is attached to anyone.
Even if Teacher Zhao Han lies in a hospital bed, even with diapers, her husband takes care of her step by step, taking care of everything, no abandonment, no complaints, only heartache and warmth.
There is no right or wrong in love, as long as you respect each other in marriage, understand each other, do not ask each other too much, do not overly attach to each other, do not blindly please, two people work together, face everything in life together, you will reap happiness and happiness!
03, accept your own imperfections and be true to yourself.
Once I was inferior because I was fat and not pretty, I always thought that everyone liked to play with beautiful girls, and I was always alone and silently watched others talk and laugh, wanton life.
Later, I read Teacher Zhao Han's "Han Xie: Fearless Truth" and learned that Teacher Zhao was once a little fat man, but she said that if we can't accept ourselves bravely, how can we expect others to like ourselves and accept ourselves?
So accept your own imperfections and recognize yourself. Spend self-pity time reading and learning, improving yourself, and arming yourself so that you can not be looked down upon by others.
Feng Tang said: "If you want to make waves in this world with an elegant posture, be independent in the world, and have a quiet time, women must bear hardships and stand hard work and strive for self-improvement." ”
An independent woman stands tall and straight at all times. They have the confidence of life, the sense of security brought about by hard work, and they will not be sad and waste their energy for being fat; they will not be entangled and distressed by not being beautiful, so that they have no intention of working and reading.
One of my literary friends was once a stay-at-home mother who was too fat after giving birth and was disliked by her husband.
The mother-in-law said that she was eating idle meals, and her husband said that she knew to reach out for money. When her father was ill and hospitalized, she was helpless, unable to come up with money, and squatted at the base of the wall crying.
Later, she began to write, the more she earned the fee, the more spirited, and she would no longer humbly reach out to her husband for money and be disliked by her mother-in-law.
People live, they must work harder to improve, less temperament, the ability to make money must be there, only the balance of assets that reassures themselves is the source of women's confidence and security against life.
Zhao Han told us in the book "Han Xie: Fearless Truth" that the majority of women: be a confident woman, fearless and true, be the best of yourself, in an imperfect world, dashing life!