The world is disturbed, making people unable to guess the minds of others. Some people can't buy a house when they try their best in a rented house, some people have a home but don't go back to wandering all day, these people have their own lives, each has their own ideas.
But in any case, you should not involve others, especially your own children, because of your own selfishness. On December 29, a homeless woman holding a child and not returning home but choosing to live in a park was exposed to the Internet by netizens and caused heated discussion.
According to insiders, this homeless woman once gave birth to a daughter in a public toilet, and now her daughter has been four or five months old, but she is carrying her child outside all day. I don't know what she went through, why she chose to have a baby in the public toilet, where did her husband go?
Some netizens saw her holding the child and sleeping in the park felt that she was very pitiful, so they went forward to talk to her, and through the conversation, they knew that she was not without a husband, but because of the bad relationship with the in-laws, they chose to leave the in-laws' family and took the children outside to wander.
It can be seen that she is still a responsible person, and she has fallen to the point of wandering and has not given up her children, perhaps this is the power of maternal love. Everyone thought she had no home, but through understanding, she knew that she had a home, a three-story house, but she did not want to go back.
In the beginning, I wandered outside during the day and went home with my children at night. Now that she has been reduced to having to live outside even at night, it really feels very pitiful to hold such a small child outside in such cold weather, but that is her choice, others can not evaluate, can only respect.
She currently lives with her children in a park with simple quilts on the floor, which are dirty beyond recognition. The well-wisher asks her if she has been living in this place, and the tramp tells the well-wisher that the bunks she slept on were robbed of someone else's, driving the other homeless woman away so that she and the children could sleep.
Another homeless girl was driven to sleep under the overpass by her, and she and her child slept in the park and attracted the attention of many people, so the small child was really pitiful in her arms. Normal people's children are hiding at home in this weather, afraid that their children will freeze, but she sleeps in the park with her children, which is too selfish.
This matter was exposed to the Internet by netizens after triggering heated discussion among netizens, some netizens said: This is self-pleading, obviously they have a house but do not go home to live, but choose to wander outside, such a person is not worthy of sympathy at all.
Some netizens also said that she would rather carry her child and wander outside than go home to show that home is a place that makes her feel very horrible, and she does not know what happened to her to become what she is today, and why her family does not come to her.
I think girls still have to love themselves, parents are not a retreat, marriage is not a retreat, only themselves are their own retreat. Since the relationship with the in-laws is not good, they have lived with their children, and now women can raise children when their status is improved.
But raising children should pay attention to methods, should let children live comfortably, rather than being hurt by the in-laws and choosing to wander outside. Such cold weather a woman holding a child outside really has a lot of potential crises, I hope that the woman can want to drive home early as soon as possible.
In this world, loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance, and if you don't love your children, how can anyone else come to see you? The comfort that women want to live should be opened from the heart, rather than being hurt by men to die and live, they are their own backers, and they should be good to themselves.
When there is no child, you can do whatever you want, but with a child, you should take responsibility and be a qualified parent, so that the child will respect you when he grows up, it is really not a way to wander outside, you need to go home, and I hope that the homeless girl will go home as soon as possible to live a stable life instead of being displaced outside.