Hello everyone, I'm a big brother! Today, I would like to talk to you about what to do if there is a conflict in the parent-child relationship. In the process of accompanying children to grow up, even if the parents with the best attitude, they may be naughty or willful by their children, and even the children may deliberately throw and roll, at this time a conflict is inevitable. When the child is young, parents can always suppress the child by relying on their own authority, but the conflict is not fundamentally resolved, and it is not handled properly, but it will cause the child to have psychological shadows.
Then today, the big brother will introduce some methods to you to avoid these problems.
01 Communication to solve problems
When there is a conflict, parents often pay attention to the appearance, as long as the child does not cry, and does not pay attention to the child's heart, why is it crying.
At this time, communication is particularly important, first wait for the child to calm down, listen to the child's voice, and understand the child's true appeal. At the same time, let the child know the attitude of the parents and find the best solution through communication so that the parents and the child can reach a consensus.
02 Provide solutions
After clarifying the attitudes and demands of children and parents, it is how to balance and solve problems, as experienced parents naturally have to undertake the task of proposing solutions, but we must let children participate in the formulation of solutions, give full play to the subjective initiative of children, and jointly make ABC options for children to choose.
03 Execute the solution
When the child makes a choice, it is necessary for the child to start to execute, to clarify what the child needs to do, what the parent needs to do, if with reward and punishment measures, and to clarify the whole process. Children must be the most resolute executors, in this process, parents must encourage and assist, let the children successfully complete the task.
Finally, the big brother wants to say that education is a two-way street, and cultivating children is the improvement of parents' own abilities. Therefore, when there is a conflict, it is not the ignorant children who need to adjust, but the parents and parents. Only when parents adjust their mentality can they truly resolve contradictions.
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