Zhang Guimei said that the opportunity to change the fate has always been there, do not be afraid, the "cold winter" of life with inevitable hope.
In the face of ordinary life, how to find your own extraordinary?
The conditions at home are average, can reading change your destiny?
Zhang Guimei, principal of Huaping Girls' Senior High School in Lijiang, Yunnan Province, answered these questions with a sincere letter.
"I write you this letter, hoping that from the experience I have told you, you will feel a little warmth, a little strength."
Check the full letter
Article source: Xinhua News Agency
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Parenting motto today
Education five is not responsible
1. Do not be responsible for the public
In public, do not rebuke the child, but give the child dignity in front of everyone. Children who are often blamed in the public eye not only cannot reflect on their mistakes, but their personalities are also prone to becoming timid and cowardly, lack of trust in people, and have inferiority or excessive self-esteem.
2. Remorse and irresponsibility
If the child is already ashamed and regrets his mistake, the adult should not blame the child.
The purpose of criticism is to hope that children can reflect on mistakes, excessive accusations will make it difficult for children to forgive themselves, and if it is serious, the child's personality will become heavy and the ability to resist setbacks will be weakened.
3, twilight is not responsible
Don't blame your child before going to bed at night. At this time, he was blamed, and the child went to bed with a depressed and lost mood, either not sleeping at night or having nightmares.
The quality of sleep directly affects the child's physical health and mental state, which will be harmful to the body and mind in the long run.
4. Diet is not responsible
Don't blame your child while you're eating. At this time, blaming the child can easily lead to the child's spleen and stomach weakness.
5. Celebrate without responsibility
Don't blame your child when he's particularly happy. When people are happy, the meridians are in a unimpeded state, and if the child is suddenly reprimanded, the meridians will immediately hold back, which will cause great harm to the child's body.
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