Love is exclusive, we hope that the partner has only one person in mind, but the relationship pays attention to fate, the probability of us meeting the person we like is 0.00487, if you want to like each other, the probability will be reduced.
Moreover, you can't meet him at the beginning, so when you meet someone you like, there is a high probability that he will have a relationship or even a few.
Some feelings may just be passers-by, meet only, when you leave, do not take away a cloud, the heart will not have any ripples, and some feelings may be unforgettable, unforgettable.
If after marriage you find that your husband has someone else in mind, and he used to love someone, it may be difficult to let go, what should you do at this time?
Although it seems that there are people who have been deeply loved in men's hearts, you will find that the direction of marriage and the choice of your relationship are actually in your hands.
First, whether you are willing to work hard to get his love
It is difficult for a person to love only one person in his life, and as long as he has loved nature, he has feelings, and we cannot erase his past feelings.
But since he chose to be with you, whether he wants to or not in his heart, he has chosen you, and if you are willing to continue to marry him, then you can go on with ease, if you feel that you can't stand to leave.
You may say that there is a thorn in your heart that cannot be put down, what to do?
Love has exclusivity, naturally he is not willing to have others in his heart, but also love others, but love can not be forcibly erased, if you want him to forget that person, gradually you are the most loved in his heart, then you can try to resolve.
Remember Lady Shen in "Know It or Not"? Although the little grandfather was married to her, he didn't think about Minglan all the time at the beginning.
She knew that Grandpa Xiao's heart was in Minglan and said, "If it is elsewhere, then get it back."
Shen Shi pretended to go to Fan Lou to deceive the county lord's mother-in-law, and when he went out, he changed his way to Chengyuan, And Shen Da's heart was everywhere for the little grandfather's good, and the little grandfather took the initiative to reach out to help his wife, and The Shen family looked incredulous, cast me with a papaya, repaid it with Qiongju, and the bandits also reported it, and always thought it was good.
Later, he actively gave advice to Minglan, Qi Heng was very appreciative in his heart, the two people's hearts got closer and closer, and finally went to Chengyuan to fight the fire and saw the moment when the second uncle and Minglan embraced, Qi Heng had an epiphany about the definition of love.
I finally opened my heart and said to my mother: You are my world.
At first, Xiao Gongye's enthusiasm for Shen Shi was rejected, and Shen Shi was also angry and annoyed, but in the end he used his wit to win the love of Xiao Gong Ye.
Maybe you will say that it is TV, but as long as the person around you is not so ruthless and knows to be grateful and cherished, he will definitely understand your goodness.
If you are not willing to wronged yourself, there can only be two situations, or let your marriage develop, he does not love you enough, you love yourself, and when and when the future can go.
Or if you don't even want to maintain it, then you can only choose to leave.
In fact, after marriage, the other half has other people in their hearts, which is a matter that needs to be moved according to the degree.
If he used to love, but now just keeps it in his heart, doesn't have any illusions, and doesn't contact the other person, then give up.
In fact, think about it, since they were not together at the beginning, as long as both people are responsible, the possibility of rekindling feelings in the future is relatively small, and you don't need to worry too much.
After all, that is part of the memory of young love, married and choose another person to accompany you for the rest of your life, then you are a community of interests, and your heart must go to one place to love and maintain the small family together.
As long as you don't betray each other, don't break the connection with each other, and have a corner in your heart for others, you can only meet too late, let each other take too many detours to meet each other, and you can't blame him for loving others before you met.
If he keeps mentioning it himself and comparing you to "other people", then there is a need to think again about the marriage.
Everyone has a past, and maybe there will be a place in the heart, and a memory will be sealed. But after all, life still has to move forward, and there are nows and every tomorrow.
There is still a long way to go, and there will be more and more things to experience, so ask yourself and ask each other if you want to go down together.
If so, try together, and if not, be free.
Maybe by that time, you'll be his ex, and he'll never forget about you, and it's hard to be his current.
Love is unique, exclusive, and it is worth it to be firmly chosen, and hopefully we can all be firmly chosen because we are all worthy.
So whether to get his heart back, or his heart is not worth your search, think clearly, and leave it in your hands.
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Interpret emotional confusion, pay attention to marriage problems, and be willing to listen to your sorrow and happiness, along the way