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Love is likely to be vigorous in the beginning, but the more a relationship comes to an end, the quieter it becomes.
Most of the people who are clamoring to break up can't be separated in the back, because they still love each other deeply.
The reason why it is so noisy is often because I still love, so I will make a lot of calculations and show my anger.
Most of the lovers who talk about breaking up every day just want to use the breakup to win more love and care from each other.
Qiqi and daytime are a pair of joyful enemies, the two people often quarrel, and even the two will often hang up the breakup.
Every time Qiqi quarrels with the day, Qiqi will gamble to "run away from home".
The friends around them always feel that the two of them are definitely not far away, because they feel that Qiqi and Dayday must not love each other enough.
But in fact, it was the two of them who had been separated and merged so many times that they finally stepped into the palace of marriage.
After the two got married, they changed the quarrel state when they were in love, and their lives were full of taste.
Qiqi said: "I and The day are always able to realize the problems of both sides through quarrels, so there are few contradictions after marriage. Not all couples who break up are really wanting to break up. ”
Indeed, the quarrel is because it is still love, and no matter how many stones are thrown, it cannot stir up a little splash.
In real life, there are always many men who think that women frequently quarrel with men, and frequently mention breaking up with men is not love.
But in fact, when a woman doesn't love a man anymore, it becomes abnormally "quiet".
01、
A woman complains and blames a man because she still has expectations for that man and hopes that the man will correct it in this way.
Loving someone will expect something from each other.
Because women expect men, she will calculate a series of behaviors of men.
She would argue with men because they wouldn't come home all night. She would tip over the vinegar jar because the man got too close to the other woman, using the breakup as a means of "blackmailing" the man.
Calculation is a woman's performance of caring about a man.
Also, a lot of times women are hysterical about all kinds of attacks, complaining, accusing, and ridiculing men because the man has given her too much hurt.
But because she is still in love, she can only use that "shrew-like" outburst to express her dissatisfaction, intending to allow men to give her some warmth and love.
I have seen such a story fragment: in the eyes of the husband, the wife is an unreasonable woman, often picking his faults and dissatisfied with him, so he is full of disgust with his wife.
But in fact, the reason why the wife will frequently make unreasonable trouble and lose all kinds of tempers with her husband is because the husband is too indifferent to her.
She lost her temper just hoping that her husband could give her more love, but what she didn't expect was that her husband didn't understand.
Once the wife was also a gentle and considerate woman, but because of her husband's indifference again and again, she could only use the tantrum to attract her husband's attention.
Later, because the wife was completely discouraged by her husband, she became unusually quiet and sensible, and would no longer mess with her husband.
The wife's change made the husband happy, but the next second the husband waited for the divorce agreement from the wife.
A woman's calculation is because she loves that man. But if one day she stopped being noisy and became unusually quiet, it was not because she understood things, but because she was dead-hearted.
02、
A woman who is dead set on a man will behave "quietly" in these few things.
（1）
When a woman loves a man, she talks a lot and is willing to share everything with that man.
She would explode with the man's neglect and say aggressive things.
But once a woman is dead to a man, she will become very quiet, unwilling to give her heartfelt words to men, and even unwilling to take the initiative to talk to men.
（2）
Quiet means not caring, she will no longer care about all the states of men, will not express opinions on men's things, and will not cause any emotions because of men's things.
Even if the man does not return overnight, she will not have any cross-examination, but will rest quietly at the point, will not keep a vigil in the living room to wait for him to return, and will not call to ask the man where he is.
Afterwards, the man explained to her that he would also reply politely and would not raise a trace of emotion for the man.
She will no longer be anxious because of the cold alienation of men, nor will she be filled with joy because men meet good things.
She would only treat the man she once loved like a stranger.
（3）
When a woman doesn't love a man anymore, she puts all her energy into herself.
In the past, she probably didn't want to buy expensive cosmetics for herself in order to save money for men.
When she is dead set on men, she will love herself a little more and dress herself up as her ideal.
In the past, she would ignore her own light because she loved a man, but when she was dead to men, she would try to regain her self-confidence and please herself.
Love to the point of not loving is not all at once, women do not love, completely dead to men, will not cry hysterical, but will become unusually quiet.
A woman's quietness often means indifference, how active and enthusiastic she is when she loves a man in the first place, and how sensible and quiet she can appear when she does not love.
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