When a self-motivated man meets a woman who is willing to support and accompany him wholeheartedly, his career will definitely soar.
Ren Zhengfei, a business tycoon, is such a man, and he is also lucky to meet a woman who suffers with him. As the founder of Huawei, one of the world-class technology giants, Ren Zhengfei has well deduced the modern version of the "cold door out of the noble son" this allusion. From being heavily indebted to becoming China's top richest man, it is difficult to describe Ren Zhengfei's past with only two words of inspiration.
Yao Ling
Ren Zhengfei has also said many times that he can achieve today's achievements, thanks to his second wife Yao Ling. Once as Ren Zhengfei's secretary, what ability did Yao Ling have to make Ren Zhengfei favored? What kind of coincidence brought these two single men and women who were thirty years apart come together? Today, let's review Ren Zhengfei's past and the story after knowing Yao Ling.
In 1944, Ren Zhengfei was born in Zhenning County, Anshun City, Guizhou Province. For the arrival of Ren Zhengfei, the young couple was very happy. Although the Ren family is not a wealthy family, it is more than enough to solve the problem of food and clothing.
Ren Zheng is not a brother and sister of seven
However, with the birth of younger siblings, the life pressure of a family of nine was instantly much heavier. Fortunately, as a teacher, Ren's father knows the importance of education to children, so even if life is difficult, he still tries his best to send his children to study.
I have to say that Ren Zhengfei is indeed a contentious child, during his school years, he studied hard and worked hard, and his grades have always been among the best in the class. In this way, Ren Zhengfei was admitted to chongqing institute of civil engineering and architecture with the expectations of his whole family.
Although he was admitted to the university, Ren Zhengfei still did not dare to slack off at all. He knows the difficulty of "cold door out of takako", and the only way to succeed is through his own efforts. Sometimes students will feel that Ren Zhengfei is a "different" because he seems to be learning all the time. When someone else is in love, he is learning. When others are playing, he is also learning.
Ren Zhengfei when he was young
In this way, Ren Zhengfei not only completed his studies in this major, but also taught himself to complete a number of other courses and three Chinese outside the door.
After graduating from university, Ren Zhengfei abandoned his pen and entered the army to become an engineer. Ren Zhengfei, who was professional and willing to bear hardships and stand hard work, was soon appreciated by the leaders and began to gradually emerge in the army. Seeing the age of marriage, many people began to introduce ren Zhengfei to the object. That is, in the introduction of others, Ren Zhengfei met Meng Jun.
As for why Meng Jun would look at the matter of taking office, many people said that it was difficult to understand, because the two family situations were really too different. As the vice governor of Sichuan Province, Meng Father was naturally resolutely opposed to the exchanges between the two. However, Meng Jun is iron-hearted to be with Ren Zhengfei, or perhaps Meng Father saw the shining point on Ren Zhengfei's body, and the two finally got married as they wished.
Meng Jun
Perhaps there is really a fate in the dark, in fact, Meng Jun's choice of Ren Zhengfei is not accidental. Meng Jun, as Ren Zhengfei's college sister, had already developed admiration for Ren Zhengfei as early as college, so when he heard that someone wanted to match himself and Ren Zhengfei, Meng Jun agreed without saying a word.
After marriage, Meng Jun gave birth to a daughter and a son for Ren Zhengfei. It is worth mentioning that at this time, Ren Zhengfei and Meng Jun were both working in the South China Sea Petroleum Group, and strictly speaking, Meng Jun was still the leader of Ren Zhengfei.
With both children and daughters, a father-in-law giving strength, and working with his wife, Ren Zhengfei has undoubtedly become the envy of many people. However, the difficulty behind it is only known to Ren Zhengfei alone, because of the gap between the families, Ren Zhengfei is quite a bit of a "door-to-door son-in-law", and almost all the big and small things in the family are meng jun's decision.
Ren
The other two were busy with work, so they lacked time to run the marriage. As the two spent more and more time together, the contradictions began to gradually increase. Marriage has become a thin film paper that maintains the relationship between the two people, just to see who will break it first.
In 1984, Ren Zhengfei lost 2 million yuan to the company due to his own mistakes. This matter attracted the great attention of the senior leaders, and finally decided to dismiss Ren Zhengfei after consultation.
For Ren Zhengfei's dismissal, Meng Jun also felt powerless. However, it is also this matter that makes Ren Zhengfei and Meng Jun have a mustard, which can be said to be the fuse for the divorce between the two. The marriage of the two finally came to an end in the midst of endless quarrels and cold wars, and Ren Zhengfei began a new life with a pair of children.
After the divorce, Ren Zhengfei once had a moment of confusion, where should people go when they reach middle age, and it is obviously not a good idea to work for others. After breaking through the confusion, Ren Zhengfei decided to create a company on his own.
However, it takes a lot of money to create a company, but ren Zhengfei, who is poor and white, searches his whole body and does not find too much money. Forced to do so, Ren Zhengfei had to look around for friends to raise funds. In the end, Ren Zhengfei took the 20,000 yuan raised and went to Shenzhen alone.
Twenty thousand yuan to rent a high-end office building in Shenzhen is simply whimsical, helpless, Ren Zhengfei can only rent a small office that can no longer be small, which is the predecessor of Huawei.
The image comes from the Internet
The road to entrepreneurship is undoubtedly difficult, with the office is the recruitment link, for this newly established small company, many candidates are not optimistic, and finally after a lot of hard work to finally recruit four or five employees.
It was also at this time that Ren Zhengfei knew Yao Ling. As a girl who has just graduated from college, Yao Ling's whole body is full of a youthful atmosphere, although she does not have a proud beauty and figure, but she has a sense of intimacy that people cannot refuse.
For Yao Ling, being Ren Zhengfei's secretary is not simple at all. Don't look at the company is too small, but there are too many things to do. Because of the lack of manpower, Yao Ling also had to do a lot of things beyond the secretary's own work. To put it mildly, Yao Ling is like a brick, moving wherever it is needed.
Ren Zhengfei, Yao Ling and their daughter
If the other party is a girl with poor endurance, she may have chosen to resign long ago. Not to mention that there is not much money, there are still busy jobs every day, which is even if no one wants to stay. However, Yao Ling persevered and gradually grew into Ren Zhengfei's right and left arm in the process of repeated tempering.
Perhaps it was also at this time that Ren Zhengfei began to really pay attention to this girl who was willing to bear hardships and stand hard work and had hard work. Ren Zhengfei's eyes looking at Yao Ling were also full of some feelings that were difficult for outsiders to detect, but Ren Zhengfei also knew that now was not the time to talk about love, so this love could only be buried in his heart.
I have to say that Ren Zhengfei is indeed a business wizard, and under his leadership, Huawei began to grow gradually. Of course, the reason why Huawei can develop so rapidly is inseparable from the help of Ren Zhengfei's ex-wife Meng Jun and his former father-in-law. The two gave Ren Zhengfei a great help and helped Ren Zhengfei introduce a lot of business.
With ren Zhengfei attending more and more occasions, Yao Ling also began to become stronger rapidly, handling affairs more easily, as if she had changed from a little girl to a strong woman in the workplace.
When the time was ripe, Ren Zhengfei proposed to Yao Ling, and the two officially entered the palace of marriage. It is worth mentioning that the person who issued the marriage certificate to Ren Zhengfei and Yao Ling was his ex-wife Meng Jun.
With the blessing of his ex-wife and the wife in his arms, Ren Zhengfei can be said to be a winner in life. On the other hand, Yao Ling can be affirmed by Meng Jun, which also shows that Yao Ling is a rare and good woman.
If the emergence of Meng Jun is a noble person who pushed Ren Zhengfei into success. The appearance of Yao Ling was undoubtedly a ray of sunshine in Ren Zhengfei's gray days.
Ren Zhengfei is the first on the right
After getting married, the gentle Yao Ling thought twice and decided to quit her original job. At this time, Ren Zhengfei's career has become bigger and stronger, and yao Ling's help in his career has become smaller and smaller. Considering this, Yao Ling felt that she should still play the role of Ren Zhengfei's wife more.
Although Yao Ling and Ren Zhengfei are thirty years apart, there is no generation gap in their lives and feelings. Yao Ling would prepare a delicious dinner for Ren Zhengfei, who had been busy for a busy day, and would patiently listen to her husband's complaints at work. And Ren Zhengfei will also give Yao Ling what he thinks is the best, and tell her interesting things about what he encountered. The mode of getting along between old husbands and young wives is simple, warm and beautiful.
When he learned that Yao Ling was pregnant, Ren Zhengfei, who was in his fifties, was as happy as a child. After the birth of his daughter, Ren Zhengfei did not think about it and let her take her mother's surname. From the point of letting his daughter follow Yao Ling's surname, it can also be seen that Ren Zhengfei's love for Yao Ling is deep.
Anna Yao
After having a daughter, Yao Anna, the gentle Yao Ling put all her thoughts on her daughter and husband. While taking care of her daughter, she also takes care of the trivialities of the family, handling everything in the family in an orderly manner, so that Ren Zhengfei can devote himself to the commercial battlefield.
Ren Zhengfei said before: His success is inseparable from the Meng family. Now, Ren Zhengfei's success also has a help from Yao Ling.
If Meng Jun is the cinnabar mole in Ren Zhengfei's eyes, then Yao Ling is definitely the white moonlight. Gently and softly emitting brilliance, but can illuminate ren Zhengfei's way forward.
Sun Yafang
It's just that even if Yao Ling is good, in the end, he still can't accompany Ren Zhengfei for the rest of his life. Because Ren Zhengfei met the third woman in his life, Sun Yafang, Sun Yafang is indeed a woman with great ability. Perhaps because the hero cherished the hero, in the end, Ren Zhengfei chose Sun Yafang and left Yao Ling.
Now Yao Ling no longer has the dazzling aura of Ren Zhengfei's wife, but is just a low-key optimistic and content with the status quo. She can finally put all her energy into her daughter's body, and every time she sees her daughter's figure appear on TV, she will always smile and watch her daughter's every move lovingly.
From being heavily indebted to being worth over 100 million, climbing from the trough of life to the top. Ren Zhengfei's road to success is inseparable from Yao Ling's help and encouragement, although the two eventually divorced, but the days when Yao Ling accompanied must be the most unforgettable time in Ren Zhengfei's life. Ren Zhengfei was undoubtedly lucky, because he knew Yao Ling. Yao Ling is also happy, because she has appeared in Ren Zhengfei in her life.