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There are many things in the world that can be hidden, but true love cannot hide them.
Sensuality and emotion have never been a woman's patent, and when a man has a true feeling for a woman and identifies her as a lifelong lover, there will also be some performance that is different from usual.
A man's true love for a woman is often deep, responsible, sincere, and for the purpose of marriage.
From the heartbeat to the vows, the process is heartfelt, not just lip service, but just a matter of actions.
A lot of facts have proved that once a man identifies you, he will not necessarily be sweet to you, nor will he necessarily spoil you so exaggeratedly, but will do this to you.
1. Take you to see relatives and friends
It is said that men spend their hearts, and many times men treat feelings more seriously than women.
The biggest recognition of a man for his girlfriend is to take her to see all his relatives and friends, which is his greatest affirmation and show off of this love.
If a man is unsure about his current relationship with his girlfriend, he will hesitate, ask his friends for advice, and will temporarily not disclose his relationship.
However, once he has identified you, he will no longer listen to the advice of any of you, let alone listen to the persuasion of anyone, even if his family opposes, he will be with you.
As we all know, men love face the most, and they are most afraid of being denied and criticized when they bring their girlfriends to relatives and friends, and they are worried about others pointing fingers.
If he doesn't care about other people's evaluations, but directly introduces you to the people around him, he is showing his attitude and determination, and he will not give up when he encounters any obstacles.
Once a man identifies you, he will not secretly associate with you, but will announce your relationship to everyone.
From a psychological point of view, men do this not only to show their attitude and determination, but also to give a notice to the people around you who have a crush on you and him, but also a commitment to this feeling.
2. Share his secrets and growth experiences
Most men are not naturally willing to express themselves, especially not to tell their secrets, but they are different for the women they like.
Once a man identifies you, he will tell you his more private things, even if it is some troubles that he usually finds difficult to talk about.
This is a manifestation of a man's openness to people, and in doing so, he no longer treats you as an outsider, and he shares everything he has with you, including his own upbringing.
He wants you to know more about him and trust you in your heart.
If there is still a distance in the heart, or if there is no future with you, he can't tell you his story because there is no need.
Men are good at disguise, and always want to show their strongest side on the outside, always like living with a mask.
However, when he meets the woman he loves, he will be unusual, taking off the mask in front of you, revealing the truest and most essential appearance.
From a psychological point of view, the reason why men disguise is because the other party does not have the opportunity to see their true face, and for those who intend to get along in the future, they will naturally treat each other with sincerity.
So, when a man hides nothing from you and doesn't treat you like an outsider, he really identifies you.
3, give yourself everything to you, and plan the future with you
Someone once said: The best love is not that you look at me and I look at you, but that two people look at the future together.
Love without commitment is like a leaf of duckweed, without roots, and there will be no results.
If a man identifies with you, he will give a commitment in the form of marriage and will plan his future life with you.
He will hope that in the days to come, with your participation, it will no longer be his life alone.
Just like the actor Xiao Shenyang and his wife Shen Chunyang: they were once the partners of the two, and in the process of getting along, Xiao Shenyang fell in love with the kind and lovely Shen Chunyang and confessed to her.
However, he was rejected by Shen Chunyang, and while he was sad, Xiao Shenyang decided to leave, out of sight, not upset, and no longer partnered with him.
After all, they have known each other for many years, the two have a certain relationship, and before parting, the two decided to cooperate in one more performance.
It was during this parting performance that both of them burst into tears, and it was at this time that they realized how important the other person's place in their hearts was.
Maybe they were too young, maybe they didn't understand love before, and they didn't realize that the feelings between them were already very deep and deep, and it was difficult to give up.
In this regard, the two established a relationship, and Xiao Shenyang immediately handed over his wallet to Shen Chunyang for safekeeping, and told her that all his future income would be hers.
Although Xiao Shenyang did not have much income at that time, and only had more than a hundred yuan in his wallet, his move impressed Shen Chunyang.
In this way, Xiao Shenyang, who is not good at words, expresses his unswerving love for Shen Chunyang, which is a promise and a vow.
To see whether a man is true or false to you, whether you are the person he really identifies, you can refer to the above three aspects to distinguish, if he is sincerely in love with you, he will definitely do so.
Men who only move their mouths and do not walk their hearts, leave as soon as possible, if you meet such a man, you must not miss it.
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