Psychologist: If someone around you has these three characteristics, it means that he is starting to be decadent

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In the journey of life, we often encounter people around us in various states, some of which may suggest that they are going through a stage of decadence. As a psychologist, I have observed in many years of clinical practice some common traits that can help us better understand the changes and dilemmas in people's hearts. If the people around you have the following three characteristics, then it is likely that they have begun to decline.

First of all, decadent people often show a loss of interest and enthusiasm for life. They may have been positive, energetic people at one time, but with the passage of time or some kind of setback, they gradually lose their love and pursuit of life. They may become lazy, unwilling to work hard or pursue new goals, and lose pride in their past accomplishments.

Secondly, decadent people often exhibit negative emotions and attitudes. They may often feel depressed, anxious, or helpless, filled with negative expectations and worries about the future. This negativity can affect their lifestyle and relationships, making them more withdrawn and depressed, making it difficult to make positive connections and interactions with others.

Finally, decadent people often lack self-discipline and goal-orientedness. They may become lazy, distracted, and lack planning and pursuit for the future. They may indulge in recreation and entertainment at the expense of their own growth and development. People who lack self-discipline are often unable to adhere to a healthy lifestyle and good work habits, leading to a gradual deterioration in physical and mental health.

These characteristics of decadence are not absolute, nor do they necessarily mean that a person has been completely decadent. People can experience decadent emotions and states at different stages, and it is important to be aware of them in time and take positive steps to adjust and change. Here are some suggestions to follow:

1. Rekindle your inner passion and enthusiasm: Encourage those around you to re-examine their interests and goals, find things that spark their passions, and develop specific plans and goals to achieve them.
2. Positive Negative Emotions: Help them learn to deal with negative emotions effectively, through psychological counseling or self-regulation to relieve stress and anxiety and rebuild a positive attitude.
3. Establish self-discipline and planning: Guide them to establish healthy living habits and work plans, cultivate self-discipline and goal orientation, and help them regain a sense of control and self-confidence in their lives.

Decadence is not a state that a person can never recover, through timely awareness and positive adjustment, we can help those around us to find themselves again, get out of the shadow of decadence, and welcome a more fulfilling and meaningful life.