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Psychologist: People who like to talk big things don't have high emotional intelligence
In interpersonal interactions, we often meet people who like to tell big truths, who always seem to dictate the lives and choices of others, forcibly persuading others when they think they are right, and forcefully reprimanding them for wrong opinions. However, psychological research has shown that this behavior tends to reflect lower emotional intelligence in these people. Let's take a closer look at the causes of this phenomenon and the psychological mechanisms behind it.
First of all, people who like to speak big things often lack sensitivity and understanding of other people's emotions. They often only see the superficial phenomena and lack the understanding and care for the inner feelings of others. For example, when someone is struggling, they will directly give a set of so-called "right things" instead of listening to the other person's voice and emotional needs first. This behavior reflects their lack of emotional communication and their inability to truly understand and empathize with the feelings of others.
Second, people who speak big things tend to be self-conscious and inflexible and intolerant. They tend to be centered on their own perspectives and lack openness and acceptance of different views and ideas. This kind of opinionated behavior will not only lead to contradictions and conflicts with others, but also limit one's own growth and development. People with high emotional intelligence are often able to respond flexibly to a variety of situations and accommodate different opinions and perspectives, which leads to better interpersonal relationships and problem-solving.
In addition, people who like to talk big often don't know enough about their emotions and inner feelings. They may ignore their own emotional needs and focus too much on the actions and choices of others, which can lead to emotional imbalances and communication barriers. People with high emotional intelligence are usually self-aware, understand their emotional responses, and are able to effectively express and process their emotional needs.
In addition, people who speak big things may lack the ability to build good relationships with others. Their words and actions often make people feel uncomfortable and stressed, making it difficult to build close and trusting relationships. People with high emotional intelligence are good at communicating with others and are able to build good interpersonal relationships, which leads to more support and help.
In conclusion, people who like to speak big things often reflect their lower emotional intelligence, including a lack of sensitivity to the emotions of others, a strong sense of self, a lack of awareness of their own emotions, and a lack of ability to build good relationships with others. Therefore, we should focus on improving our emotional intelligence in our daily life, including improving our sensitivity to other people's emotions, enhancing self-awareness and emotional cognition, and learning the skills to build good relationships with others, so as to better handle interpersonal relationships and improve quality of life.