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In recent years, variety shows have involved more and more content, but the most popular parent-child programs have gradually disappeared. One of the main reasons is that many children who leave the country have been targeted because of their appearance problems.
Remember that in "Where Did Daddy Go", Xiao Shenyang's daughter was complained about by netizens as "ugly", so Xiao Shenyang never let her daughter appear in public, which shows that the child's appearance is targeted, which is the most difficult for parents to accept.
Recently, Li William is also because of the same problem, directly chose not to update the social platform in the near future.
The 7-year-old daughter was attacked for being "too ugly", and William Li angrily announced his withdrawal from the net
Li William is an idol male that everyone is familiar with, who has acted in many youth idol dramas, and although he has appeared in few scenes in recent years, he still shares his married life on social platforms.
However, recently Li William said that he will not update the social platform again, because he found that there is an article about his daughter, the words are very hurtful, and even use "tragic" to describe the daughter's appearance, Li William is very angry after seeing it, and even directly put the original text of the article up, naming the public author.
The article began to take a positive attitude towards William's evaluation, praising William's handsome appearance, but when it came to his daughter, the painting style came to a 180° turn, in the article, describing William's daughter as "not satisfactory", the title in order to attract gimmicks, but also directly said that the little girl was ugly "miserable".
The use of such words on his own children is simply intolerable to his father, Li William, after all, no father can tolerate his daughter receiving such verbal violence. Moreover, Li William has always been very concerned about his family, and he also pays attention to the protection of family members, afraid that his family members will be harassed by the outside media because of their relationship with public figures.
But unexpectedly, the outside world still has bad remarks about his daughter, and the words are still so vicious, so Li William, while feeling angry, also announced that he would cut off more social platforms in the near future to protect his family.
Li William, who is of mixed nationality, has a daughter's appearance that is naturally not bad
In fact, Li William's daughter is not as "ugly" as written in the marketing article, and the little girl looks very cute.
William's grandfather is British, his grandmother is of mixed Japanese and German descent, and his mother is Singaporean Chinese, so it is calculated that William is a multinational mixed-race, plus a wife who looks like "Jin Xishan", and the daughter's appearance is needless to say.
In fact, from the photos that Li William posts every day, it can be seen that the little girl and the grandmother look very similar, the two eyes are very energetic, the looks are also very cute, and the long eyelashes of the father are inherited, which is a very beautiful little girl, which is not at all like what is said in the marketing article.
And the appearance of children when they are young, can not represent the future appearance, with the growth of age, the child's facial features will also grow, "female eldest eighteen changes", there are such good genes, after growing up will naturally become a lot more beautiful.
What happened to the kids who were called "ugly"?
In the hearts of parents, children are the most important. As a parent, no matter what their children look like, in their eyes, they will think that their children are beautiful and cute, and if they are told about their children's appearance, they will definitely feel very uncomfortable.
The phenomenon of "children being said to be ugly" actually often occurs around us, just a few days ago, when a group of grandmothers in our community were playing cards, they were discussing whose children did not look good, black and fat, and said that they could not find an object in the future.
There is a question on the Internet: "What is it like to be commented on by others to look ugly all the time"? One of the answers at the bottom is heart-wrenching.
"Because I was said to be ugly since I was a child, I have not dared to take pictures, walk with my head down, fear the opposite sex, feel inferior and conceited, and dare not sing." Growing up so big, I don't dare to wear too fashionable clothes, for fear of being said to be ugly and weird."
The daughter of the classical-looking actress Zhang Ting, who once had a malicious appearance attacked by netizens, when attending the event, she did not dare to face the camera, afraid that someone would say that she looked ugly. It can be seen that a malicious appearance evaluation, for many children with fragile hearts, the lethality is comparable to a shot in the heart.
Beauty and ugliness have never been standard, this is a very subjective thing, a good face can give a good first impression, but is not a good face a good person? Beauty is the beauty of life, it is not defined by others, it does not pass with the passage of time, history is new, lasting and determined.
Every child is unique, no one can copy it, no one can define it, no matter what the child looks like, there is no need to care about the conclusions of those who are not related.
As parents, we can't follow the public's vision to affect the aesthetics of children, the most important thing is to let children accept their own appearance from the inside, without inferiority, they are not worse than anyone.