The 7-year-old daughter was "ugly" by the Internet storm, and William announced his retirement, and the child's beauty and ugliness were not on the face

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Every child is a treasure in the palm of their parents' hands, and all their cute and tiny shining points are a huge light in the eyes of parents, and parents will not allow anyone to hurt their children.

In his personal social account, the star Li William wrote a long article saying that he would no longer share the news because he wanted to protect his daughter.

Here's the thing, Li William accidentally saw an article titled "There is a regret called Li William's daughter, ugly and miserable, the princess dress can't be saved", which completely angered him.

Li William believes that as a public figure, he inevitably has to accept criticism from fans and netizens, but his seven-year-old daughter is innocent.

A self-media account used "miserable" to describe the appearance of her daughter, which is not to share, nor to express opinions, but to attack nakedly, which also touches the bottom line of William as a father.

As a mother of two children, I can fully understand William's feelings, even more angry than William himself, no parent can accept the harm of others to their children.

Not to mention the depiction of not respecting the facts out of nothing or even for the sake of traffic, has anyone ever thought about what kind of torture and pain they will suffer from children who are ugly and attacked?

The daughter was ridiculed as "ugly", and Tao Hong's education was very meaningful

The appearance of celebrities and their children has always been a topic that has been put in the spotlight, in the face of external voices, let's see how Tao Hong educates her daughter.

In a talk show, Tao Hong talked about her daughter, who was ridiculed by her classmates at school when she was very young and ugly, which was very harmful to a little girl who was in the growing stage.

The daughter who was crying home told Tao Hong the ins and outs of the matter, and Tao Hong asked her daughter how she thought she looked, and her daughter thought she didn't look ugly.

Then Tao Hong told her daughter that she was indeed not ugly, but she was not the most beautiful, but the best thing was that she was unique in the world, and no one looked like her.

Hearing that she was unique, the daughter seemed to forget the ridicule of her classmates and instead rejoiced that she was irreproducible.

Everyone likes beauty, but no one can say the standard of beauty, because beauty has no limits, and everyone's uniqueness is the most beautiful.

Whether it is William's daughter or Tao Hong's daughter, there are children who have been talked about their appearance, and even many children have become inferior, introverted, sensitive, and even deny themselves.

But only adults who have experienced it know that no matter how beautiful the face, it will be eclipsed by the passage of time, and what can really stay and be remembered in the end is not a beautiful face, but an irreplaceable value.

What can parents do when a child is talked about because of his appearance?

Parents are the vane of the establishment of children's three views, the basis for children to make judgments about right and wrong, and the attitude and answers of parents are the most important for children.

Tell your child what is really beautiful

When it comes to beauty, many people think of beautiful faces, but beauty is more than that. Tao Hong said that not being able to copy is beauty, Gu Ailing said that five kilometers can not run, the sun has not been sunburned, this is not beauty...

Beauty is never the definition of appearance, reading more books and having a cultural temperament is also beauty, participating in sports, sweating in the arena is also beauty, these beauty has nothing to do with how you look.

What parents have to do is to let their children know that there are many kinds of beauty, and the beauty of appearance is important, but it is difficult to have great help for realizing the value of life, so that children can accept diversified beauty.

Build your child's own confidence

Every leaf is different, every child also has its own shining point, find the child's shining point to encourage him to develop and learn, let the child in addition to the appearance, have a higher and farther pursuit, so as to find their own position in a certain field, become confident.

Encouraging children is not touting, not only to let children see their own strengths, but also to recognize their own shortcomings, and have an accurate understanding of their own abilities.

Discover beauty with your kids

Growing up in the north, I thought that the snow was beautiful, until I went to college in the south and saw the green trees and clear lakes in winter, I knew that beauty is not the only one.

Parents should take their children to understand the outside world, read more books, walk more, let children form their own correct aesthetics in this process, the more they have seen, the more inclusive they are, and the easier it is to discover and accept the beauty in life.

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