399. What do you want, don't be in a hurry, don't make trouble.
Do it.
Create all the conditions to get closer to your goal.
The key is to be persistent and unwavering.
Time is unpredictable.
Resources, connections, opportunities, outlets, strategies, all factors are changing.
When the opportunity is in your favor, seize it, and you can take a big step;
When there is no opportunity, focus on being yourself wholeheartedly.
Those who are too anxious will make trouble if they can't get it;
If you can't ask for it, it's easy to get frustrated;
Self-doubt, not waiting for the right time, and ultimately failing.
400. Create energy, and opportunities will naturally come.
Opportunities, coming or not coming,
The way out, open or not,
It's not in the outside world, it's you.
When you're ready, the opportunity will come,
If you're not ready, you'll never come.
Ready, refers to the abundance of energy.
When a pot of water is boiled, steam will naturally erupt;
When one thing is full of energy, the results will naturally appear.
How to get full of energy?
One is firmness that comes from single-mindedness.
The energy that comes with your faith is limitless.
The second is self-proclaimed action.
Things are done by people, things are done by people, you need to continue to do it, update and iterate, step by step, and work will come naturally.
The fist does not leave the hand, the song does not leave the mouth, if you want to do one thing, you must do it every day.
401. Keep people with noble morals, sincerity and kindness by your side.
I pondered a question: in social interactions, why do people wear masks, hide themselves, and hide?
For self-preservation. Avoid the outside environment, people and things, and negative interference with yourself.
If, the external factors, are kind and good to themselves, then no one will hide themselves.
People will only open themselves up if they feel safe and are 100% accepted.
I'm open by nature and open to everyone.
After coming out of society, I dealt with human nature and endured all the hardships before I gradually learned to hide myself and protect myself.
It's stupid to be open.
Blindly hidden, is afraid.
Therefore, it is best to strike a balance, and never dare to be yourself and release your nature because you are afraid.
Previously, I was a passive social.
When someone else comes to make friends with me, I play with someone else.
Now, I'm actively socializing.
Usually, I like to be alone, enjoy my own time, someone comes to make friends, I will take it first, and then, in the interaction, examine the other party's conduct, if it does not meet my standards, I will also block and delete the other party, unsympathetic.
I make friends, I don't look at my appearance, I don't look at my education, I don't look at my family background, I only look at my character.
I only keep people with high moral character, sincerity and kindness, and become a long-term and close social relationship.
402. The more you meditate inward, the more you can discover the wonder of yin and yang.
When you have in-depth experience, you will find:
The more ruthless the person, the softer it looks;
The darker the belly, the more polite they look;
The more powerful the person, the more modest he looks;
……
This is not a deliberate camouflage, but a yin and a yang as a whole, and you can only use a yin as a carrier to pry the rise of a yang.
403. Hold one, one can be the world.
First, it is the harmony of the two sides of yin and yang, which originally had differences and formed a whole.
From the perspective of personality, holding oneness is not a split personality and a distraction of consciousness, but the same heart, thoughts, words, and deeds.
This means that yin and yang are both in one.
Accept the yang side, but also accept the yin side, don't criticize your own bad side, you can cultivate, you can change, but don't self-criticize, criticism produces differences, differences produce internal friction, unity does not exist.
A person who has attained enlightenment is not necessarily a saint, not necessarily a good person, but must be a person with a balance of yin and yang.
I got the way, but I didn't get anything.
You just understand the heaven and the earth, everyone has cause and effect, there are changes from time to time, everything has a cause, and things have gaps.
In this way, or wandering the world and making contributions, or living in the rivers and lakes, being at ease, and destroying the heart are all up to themselves.