Author: Number One Emotion
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Love itself makes no sense, it does not appear because of your efforts, it does not disappear because of your slackness, sometimes it brings surprises, and sometimes it appears with regrets.
In the world of feelings, everyone will have surprises or regrets, if you meet the loved one, the surprises will be more, but if you have not been able to meet, or can not guess the other party's thoughts, then face more regrets.
Love is a matter of two people after all, but as long as the person you love does not love you, then no matter how much you pay, it is empty talk, if two people love each other enough, you may be very happy without doing anything.
After falling in love with a person, you will give unconditionally, but if you are in love with a person, especially if you have identified the other party in your heart, it is not just as simple as paying, but also want to get some returns, such as marriage.
In fact, even if two people love each other again, if they do not go to the step of marriage, everything will lose their meaning.
In the relationship with a woman, her dependence is indeed a kind of like, but it is difficult to reach the point of deep love, because the real deep love is the desire to synchronize with the other party and want to marry him.
Therefore, once a woman identifies with you, she will not rely on you much, but will be "like this".
Will become a more self-reliant person
It is said that two people who love each other will be tired of being together all day long, which is a kind of dependence of women on men, and it is desperate to go.
It is true that what is said above is the best proof of loving someone, but this is not a woman's identification of men, because really wanting to be with you and wanting to have a future woman will make herself more self-reliant.
As we all know, marriage is about the door to the door, although the modern society has been very open, but the "door to door" here mainly depends on each other's personality and ability.
If a woman gives up her own growth for love, on the surface it seems to have made sacrifices for love, but in the end it is difficult for two people to synchronize the same frequency, and even if they are married, it is difficult to go so long.
And a woman who has identified you wants not only the warmth of the present, but also the poetry and the distance of the future, and she also knows that all this needs to be done by two people working together, so she will make herself more independent and better.
A sincere love, far more than the qingqing me in front of me, as well as the mutual support and help between husband and wife, if the woman is willing to fall behind, it will become a stumbling block to love, and eventually lose this happy love.
With you, it will become more understanding, but not humble
Like, is an endless effort, will make the other party feel very well-behaved, but it is difficult to exchange for the same respect and understanding, but will let themselves fall into a humble situation.
You won't be blind because you like it, and you won't lose yourself to be with you, but you will save yourself in empathetic contact.
Love is like wine in the alley, not that the closer you get, the more mellow it is, but that you are obviously far away, but you can still smell its sweetness and aroma.
Two people can go to the end, not the more you pay the better, nor the more understanding the woman is, the longer it is, but under the premise of not being humble, to understand the man's difficulty, so that he can feel your pay and love while cherishing you.
Perhaps, the degree of empathy is not easy to grasp, and occasionally I will lose myself, but I have never fallen into humility because of this, but trying to maintain this love is the wisest choice for women.
Will accompany you "at the lowest"
When it comes to love, it is always indispensable to say that "companionship is the longest confession of love".
Whether it is a man or a woman, as long as the other party recognizes you, it will not be far away because of your downfall, nor will it try to get closer because of your scenery, and the real love will not be abandoned between each other.
The best way to verify love is to let each other wait at the "lowest place", if she recognizes you, she will naturally accompany you here, but if there is no you in your heart, you may have left you long ago.
For example, when you are full of spirits, a woman comes to you from far and wide and puts all her love in front of you, but once you are down, she can't wait to leave you.
Most of this kind of love comes from material life, not for love. Of course, there are many people who can't escape the "big trouble is coming to fly separately", because this is human nature.
If you are truly identified, the love that a woman gives you is not just as simple as icing on the cake, but can do it in the snow, and she will accompany you as always and never give up.
Write at the end
I have heard people say: love is a romance that has nowhere to be placed, and love is the companionship of thin water and long streams.
The woman recognizes you, maybe she is not so dependent on you, not so understanding, but she will be able to give you the same company as always in the long and boring years.
No matter what life is, what she wants to get is not the sweetness in front of her, but the happiness and beauty of the future, so she will be committed to making herself more independent and excellent, will not fall into a humble situation, and will give you the company as always.
Love, sometimes it's that simple, but sometimes it's complicated. The simple point is to be able to hold hands with you for the rest of your life, and complexity is to work as hard as possible, to resist all the tests with you, and to feel this long road of life side by side.