As the saying goes, "there is no filial piety before the bed for a long time", the experience summed up by the ancients is quite cruel, but it is an indisputable fact. In the face of filial piety and patience, human beings tend to choose the latter. The reason for this is mainly because humans evolved from wild ape-men, and in the era before civilization, humans who survived in the wild had to abandon the elderly individuals in the group if they wanted to survive for a long time.
Of course, this doesn't apply to everyone. Traditional moral ideas are no less influential than instincts in guiding people's behavior. Therefore, there are still a considerable number of people who will fulfill their filial piety to the last moment of their parents. The story I want to tell today is related to the latter.
The protagonist of the story is called Fu Sinian, a famous historian and archaeologist in modern China, who led the excavation of the first ancient tomb of the Shang Dynasty in China. He and Hu Shi are close friends, and together they have promoted the "prosperous world" of Peking University. It can be said that after the Northern Expedition, the reason why Peking University was able to revive again was precisely because of their fame.
Fu Sinian was born in 1896 in Liaocheng, Shandong Province, his ancestor was Shuxiang Mendi, and his ancestor Fu Yi was still the leader of the Shunzhi period. However, when the family business was passed down to Fu Si Nian's generation, it had gradually declined, and Fu Si Nian's childhood was not colorful, all relying on his mother's hard work to pull him up.
Although Fu Sinian is a new type of intellectual, his wife is arranged, Fu Sinian is really unbearable, and the relationship between the two is getting worse and worse. In order to dissolve this feudal marriage, Fu Si Nian saved a sum of money for the original match, and the marriage was completely over.
After that, Fu Sinian went to Beiping alone to study and work. Within a few years, he also married Yu Daqiao, a big girl who was also a new-style youth. Not long after the marriage, Yu Daqi gave birth to a son to Fu Sinian, and the two were also very affectionate and respectful. Later, after Fu Sinian's career was stable, he thought of taking his old mother to live in Beiping.
However, her mother was resentful of Fu Sinian and Yu Dashao, mainly because Fu Sinian forcibly married his arranged wife despite the opposition of his family. After coming to the new home, Fu Mu did not give Yu Daqiao a good look, and often made it difficult for her in life. However, Yu Daqi did not complain, and still maintained the image of a good daughter-in-law in front of Fu Mother.
After living in Beiping for a while, Fu Mu always felt that her chest was tight and she couldn't breathe. Fu Sinian took her to the hospital for examination, and after the results came out, Fu's mother was diagnosed with high blood pressure. To this end, the doctor also deliberately repeatedly explained to Fu Sinian that in the future, Fu's mother should not eat greasy when eating, and must not eat meat.
Fu Mu was a person who was used to a hard life before, and after entering the city, she naturally longed for big fish and big meat. But after leaving the hospital this time, the Fu family's food was only light tofu cabbage. Due to the long-term vegetarian diet, Fu Mu's temper is getting worse and worse, and Yu Daqi's temper is no matter how good it is, there is a limit. She originally meant to be good for Fu Mother, but she was counted down, and for a long time, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was once very tense.
Faced with this situation where the palms of his hands and the backs of his hands are all meat, Fu Si Nian's handling method is also quite clever. One day, when Yu Daqiao and Fu's mother were arguing, Fu Sinian quietly pulled Yu Dashian aside and said, "Although the doctor told her not to eat meat, but her mother is older, her emotions are more important than diet, and quarreling every day is not a solution." In the future, you will occasionally cook some meat dishes for your mother, so that everyone can be happy! ”
According to Fu Sinian's instructions, Yu Daqi later quietly brought meat to Fu Mu. Unexpectedly, Fu's mother was very happy after eating, praised her daughter-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also officially broke the ice. While Fu Mu was happy, she did not forget to ask Yu Daqi why she brought meat to herself. Yu Daqi also answered truthfully, "It is your son's meaning." ”
It can be seen that in addition to being quite accomplished in the field of history, Fu Sinian is also a good hand at handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In those days, it was quite rare. And Fu Sinian has also been filial piety to his mother until the last moment, even if the Anti-Japanese War broke out later, Fu Si Nian's first thought was to transfer his mother first, and truly achieved "filial piety in front of the bed for a long time".
Well, that's the story of Fossian. Some people say that Fu Si Nian is filial piety, after all, he supported his sick mother until the last moment. Some people also say that he is not filial, obviously can not eat meat, but also have to let his wife make meat for his mother. Dear readers, what do you think of Fosnian's behavior? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section.