After reading this title, parents may feel a little strange, children have "ADHD", how can parents also have "ADHD"?
Parental "hyperactivity" is a "psychological disease" that many parents show to varying degrees in family education, and its "symptoms" are:
First, use your brain a lot. Replace the child with the parent's thinking to determine a certain development direction; second, there are many words. Parents ignore the behavior training of their children, nagging all day, from getting up in the morning to going to bed at night, when the children go to school, school, eat, and move, parents do ding, ten thousand instructions, stipulating "few no", "a few careful", "this can't be", "that is not OK": the child occasionally has a mistake, then loudly reprimanded, but also repeatedly nagged. Excessive and inappropriate language stimulation by parents will make children resentful, leading to the emergence of "reverse psychology" and affecting the formation of children's independent personality.
Second, move your legs more. Replace the child's leg with the parent's leg, and the parent would rather run more than let the child run half a step. Parents pick up and drop off their children every day, do not send them to the door of the classroom, do not leave without setting up learning tools for their children. Sometimes the school assigns labor tasks to the children, and the parents run faster than the students; sometimes the school organizes outings, and the parents follow closely.
Third, do more hands. Parents spoil their children too much and implement "all-inclusive" access to their children's clothing, food, shelter and transportation. Dressing, folding quilts, washing faces, washing clothes, wearing shoes, washing feet, not asking whether children can do it, all implement package substitution, and even more, help children do math, write essays, help to clean up at school, can be described as a gang to the end. The result of this is that the child's initiative is limited. "ADHD" in parents is a very noteworthy tendency.