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The melons in the entertainment industry are indeed not empty!
I thought that the Taiwan media broke the news that "Wang Lihong's divorce" was just nonsense, but when Wang Lihong's agent denied it, Wang Lihong himself responded on Weibo:
"Lianglei and my private life is very simple and simple, so I will no longer respond to any media. I have done too much in these years of marriage, and I regret it. Now we have different ideas and plans for the future way of life so we decided to live separately. Although the application has been made, we will always be a family. Implore the outside world to give privacy and space and not to disturb the family. Thank you all for your concern. ”
In short, Lianglei and I are going to divorce as rumored.
As for the reason for the divorce? Wang Lihong was also quite calm, because he had done too much.
Wang Lihong's divorce from Li Lianglei makes me feel quite sorry, and it may be because I am also a mother, I am more distressed about Li Lianglei. Since Wang Lihong announced his registered marriage to Li Lianglei on November 27, 2013, their marriage has been eight years. During this period, Li Lianglei gave birth to two daughters and a son for Wang Lihong. Their youngest son was born on August 4, 2018, at the age of three.
14 years to give birth to the eldest daughter, 16 years to give birth to the second daughter, 18 years to give birth to the younger son, according to the time of giving birth to the child, these years their marriage should be happy, otherwise who will have three children? But having three children and still not escaping the seven-year itch, is it very regrettable?
For a long time, the couple interacted frequently on Weibo, netizens did not accept Li Lianglei at first, but later with the extension of their marriage time limit, netizens affectionately called Li Lianglei "second sister-in-law", and more and more people accepted Li Lianglei. When people believe that their marriage is a beautiful fairy tale, but they let us see the reality. The prince and the princess live happily together, but even if they can successfully enter the palace of marriage, they may not be able to survive marriage.
Writing this, I am suddenly quite sentimental.
Why is it so difficult to get married, and how come so many couples who say they want to be happy for a lifetime end up parting ways?
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Wang Lihong officially announced his divorce: There are no fairy tales in marriage, only reality.
I like Wang Lihong very much because he fulfills all my fantasies about idols: handsome, talented, good singing, good family, still a bully, still quite clean and self-righteous, and there is no scandal in his debut for so many years.
As a fan of him, at first I was still thinking, what kind of woman would a man as good as him marry? Whoever could become his wife would have saved the galaxy. Later, Li Lianglei appeared, and she became the woman who made Wang Lihong's fans envious.
Li Lianglei, who is very well matched with Wang Lihong, not only looks beautiful, but also a school bully.
Li Lianglei was 10 years younger than Wang Lihong, and the two of them had originally known each other, but they had only been together later. Wang Lihong is also very good at concealing, when the girlfriend was directly announced, the two of them were already married, and the wedding registration day of the two of them was also the wedding anniversary of Wang Lihong's parents, which shows that Wang Lihong is serious about Li Lianglei, their union is because of love, is with a beautiful vision of marriage, and wants to grow old.
After getting married, Wang Lihong continued to run and busy with his career and strive for his musical dreams.
But Li Lianglei is different, Li Lianglei put more time into the family. After five years of hugging, Li Lianglei had no time to take care of her career, and like many ordinary women, after getting married and having children, she had to become a good wife and mother.
I like to read Li Lianglei's Weibo, because I can always see her life with Wang Lihong's happy family of five.
Li Lianglei will post the daily life of her two daughters, as well as photos of her later pregnant brother Wang Lihong accompanying her. Later, the younger brother was born, and their family had a new member. What a good married life, there are children and daughters, fathers have talent, mothers are talented, parents are very beautiful, several children are also very beautiful, their family is the kind we envy.
However, since 2020, the interaction between Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei has been less, and it is no wonder that some netizens suspect that they are divorced. In the past, Li Lianglei often showed affection, but later the frequency of posting was not only less, even Weibo did not send much.
After Li Lianglei retired to the family, she was proud of her marriage and children, but when the marriage failed, there was nothing to show.
They celebrate the holidays together, they have so many loving daily lives, but why can't the marriage go on? What contradiction can there be? Both of them have three children, or separated, it is really quite sentimental.
Is it that hard to get married from a bald head to an old age?
Weibo big V "author Hailing" mentioned a point of view I still quite agree with: for excellent men, the girl he wants to marry loves or not, whether it is deep love is not important, the core is parental approval. If a man marries only to satisfy the parents' liking, the woman will feel that she has not received attention and love after marriage with the man for a long time, even if they have 3 children. The biggest fear in marriage is not only that there is no money, but also that it makes another chill.
Recalling that Wang Lihong officially announced that he and Li Lianglei were married, he also said that "her parents like her very much", but according to the news from the Taiwan media, the reason for the breakdown of their marriage is likely to be the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. At first, I got married because my parents were very satisfied, and then I divorced because my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were contradictory, which was ironic and helpless.
You see, even if it is a prince and a princess, there will still be a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage?
Is marriage a matter of two people? If it is only a matter of two people, but the problem is that marriage is a matter of two families in many cases, even if it is successfully married, your parents may also mix your married life, and sometimes it is too difficult to deal with the problem.
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The philosopher Zhou Guoping once said: "A good marriage is heaven, a bad marriage is hell, you don't want to find heaven in marriage." ”
Also, where is the fairy tale in marriage?
In marriage, there are chickens and dogs in a chicken feather, and even if your pre-marriage love is sweet, you will still quarrel after entering the marriage. It is not enough to have love in marriage, but also to be responsible, tolerant, understanding, accommodation, you have to continue to grow and run in, you also have to ensure that you have been married for many years to each other without change, to have loyalty and trust. Therefore, it is too difficult to maintain a long-term marriage.
After Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei officially announced the divorce, some people in the circle of friends sighed and said: Is the end of the marriage a divorce?
This also made me feel very touched, the other day I had an argument with my husband over the child, and for a moment I also wanted to divorce. But in the end, considering the two children, the idea of divorce is just a flash in the mind. divorce? If one day we really don't love, or if there is betrayal in the marriage, maybe we will come to the step of divorce. But it's better not to get to that point.
I know marriage is hard, but I still hope that you can stick to it, and don't end your marriage until you have to.
There is no fairy tale in marriage, only reality, and the barrier of reality has crossed over, and two people can grow old; the barrier of reality cannot cross, and the two people can only disperse. In the future life, I hope that Li Lianglei and the three children are well, anyway, Wang Lihong often travels on business, the two people get together less and leave more, with or without this marriage, it does not make much sense.
Today's topic: What do you think of Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei's divorce? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.