Gently I went, as I came softly; I beckoned softly, as the clouds of the western sky. - "Farewell to Kangqiao" Xu Zhimo?. When many people are unique to Xu Zhimo's poetry, they are all overwhelmed by his talent. This song "Farewell to Kangqiao" has long been popular and has become a representative work of Crescent Poetry. Xu Zhimo's talent is questioned, but his character is not flattering.
The most heard by everyone should be the love story of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman, one of the four beauties of the Republic of China, and the talented and beautiful people are naturally respected. However, Xu Zhimo's original wife's name was Zhang Youyi. Zhang Youyi was born in 1900, three years older than Xu Zhimo. At the age of 15, he married Xu Zhimo under the arrangement of the family.
In 1918, the eldest son, Xu Jikai, was born. However, not long after, Xu Zhimo stayed in Yangyang, leaving Zhang Youyi and his young son at home, and it was not until 1920 that Xu Zhimo impatiently took Zhang Youyi to his side at the urging of Zhang Youyi's family. However, even if he took over, he did not treat Zhang Youyi well, and he had a cold face all day.
In fact, all this is because Xu Zhimo already knows another woman, this person is the famous talented woman Lin Huiyin. Lin Huiyin was born into a famous family, and it was precisely under the influence of his father that he gradually embarked on the road of literature. Later, in 1920, he traveled with his father to Europe, and it can be said that at a young age, he saw the world's big and prosperous world.
It was during this period that Lin Huiyin met Xu Zhimo, a great talent. At that time, Zhang Youyi was pregnant with her second child, and Xu Zhimo, in order to pursue Lin Huiyin, actually pulled Zhang Youyi to have an abortion. Moreover, she also wanted to divorce Zhang Youyi, and Zhang Youyi agreed to the divorce in frustration. But the child was innocent, and she was determined to give birth to the child.
However, this child died at the age of 4, which caused a great blow to Zhang Youyi. Later, she returned to China with her eldest son Xu Jikai, and Zhang Youyi ran her own business with the help of her family after returning to China, while busy with her career, she pulled Xu Jikai to grow up, and later sent her children out of study abroad.
On November 19, 1931, Xu Zhimo was killed in a plane crash. What is touching is that Zhang Youyi also helps Xu Zhimo take care of his parents. Although Zhang Youyi at this time was no longer the daughter-in-law of the Xu family. But they never forgot their kindness to themselves. And the unhappiness of marriage is only because of the two of themselves.
The first half of Zhang Youyi's life, starting from the arranged marriage arranged by the family, has since been stained with tragic colors. The marriage was unfortunate, the second son died early, and after returning to China, he struggled alone in the mall for his son, and remained single until the age of 49, until he met a doctor named Su Jizhi.
Su Jizhi is a dentist and, like Zhang Youyi, has had an unhappy marriage. After a period of interaction, it was found that the two even had very similar personalities. Love developed one after another, and soon it was time to talk about marriage. Before that, Zhang Youyi wrote a letter to her son who wanted to hear his opinion: "Er in the United States, I am in Hong Kong, thousands of miles apart, who serves in the morning and dusk?" The mother intends to get married, what is the child's intention? ”
Soon after, Xu Jikai also returned a letter: "Mother and widow live in the festival, more than thirty years, give birth to me to caress me, bow me to nurture me... The life of the mother, the little joy, the mother's duty has been exhausted, the mother's heart should be comforted, who comforts the mother's family? Who accompanies the mother? If the mother is a man, the son asks the father to do things. ”
The general meaning of this letter is that my mother has been widowed for my father for more than 30 years, raised me alone, and my mother's duties have been fulfilled. At this time, my mother needed a partner, and if my mother married Su Jizhi, I would regard him as my biological father.
There is no doubt that Xu Jikai is very much in favor of this family affair, and said that if his mother Zhang Youyi decides to marry Su Jizhi, he will also treat this person as a father. Xu Jikai's reply letter can be said to be the best irony of his father Xu Zhimo. In fact, Zhang Youyi should have understood the reason why you should not hang yourself on a tree.