Shangguan True Snow Autumn Wind Unknown Spring Pavilion 2021-10-31 13:54
"Wandering Son"
Tang Dynasty. Mengjiao
The mother's hand is threaded, and the wanderer's body is clothed.
The seams are tightly sewn, and I am afraid that I will be late.
Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui.
The Book of Filial Piety keeps the Chinese filial piety
As the saying goes: many children are blessed. Many elderly people believe that having more children can ensure the happiness of their later life. However, in real life, some children are unwilling to take on the responsibility of old-age care due to conflicts of interest, which will also make parents live an old and helpless life after they are old.
If you are not filial to your children, no matter how many children you have, your parents cannot enjoy your old age in peace, but if your children are filial piety, even if you have only one child, your parents can also enjoy the happiness they deserve.
Uncle Jiang is 83 years old this year, and it is reasonable to say that an old man like Uncle Jiang who is over eighty years old should enjoy the careful care of his children, but for Uncle Jiang, all kinds of things in the past have made him completely disappointed in his two sons.
In the early years, Uncle Jiang adhered to the idea of having more children and more blessings, and gave birth to two sons with his wife. Although there was already a family planning policy at that time, for the happiness of his later life, Uncle Jiang was willing to pay a corresponding price.
Although the economic conditions of Uncle Jiang's family are not very good, in the process of raising two sons, Uncle Jiang and his wife have done their best to provide a better education and life for their two children.
It is reasonable to say that Uncle Jiang's two sons should be grateful for the parenting grace of their parents, but because of the doting of the two children by Uncle Jiang and his wife, the two children gradually developed a selfish personality and were unwilling to pay for others.
After their two sons were admitted to college one after another, the life of Uncle Jiang and his wife became more and more lonely. In this case, Uncle Jiang often proposed to his two sons that they could go home more and not drift outside all the time.
However, in daily life, in addition to looking for Uncle Jiang for living expenses, the two sons are reluctant to have too much contact with their father, which also makes Uncle Jiang chill. Near retirement, Uncle Jiang's wife died of illness, and since then, Uncle Jiang has lived a solitary life.
During this time, instead of accompanying their father, Uncle Jiang's two sons officially settled in other cities, and even during the New Year's Festival, they were reluctant to return to their hometown.
For Uncle Jiang, the lonely life after retirement made him feel overwhelmed. Later, after Uncle Jiang's nephew learned of his situation, he would often accompany Uncle Jiang to the door and regularly take Uncle Jiang to the hospital for physical examination.
Based on the help of his nephew, Uncle Jiang's later life has been effectively improved, which also makes Uncle Jiang deeply moved by his nephew's efforts. At first, Uncle Jiang still had a certain nostalgia for his two sons, but then something happened that made Uncle Jiang no longer want to get in touch with his son.
When Uncle Jiang was 83 years old, he needed to be hospitalized for treatment due to cardiovascular disease. During the hospitalization, Uncle Jiang's nephew has been by his side.
Logically, after Uncle Jiang was hospitalized, his two sons should have come to the hospital to take care of him, but after Uncle Jiang's nephew sent a message to the two cousins, the two cousins did not respond, and pretended not to know about the father's hospitalization with a cold attitude.
At this point, Uncle Jiang was completely disappointed and decided to leave all his savings to his nephew. However, when Uncle Jiang's two sons learned of their father's decision, they were furious and rushed directly from other cities to ask their father to divide the property between their brothers.
Seeing his two sons with such an attitude, Uncle Jiang on the hospital bed was even more sad, he did not expect that his son, who was once proud of himself, would actually do such an unfilial act. No matter how much the two sons coerced and seduced Uncle Jiang, Uncle Jiang was unwilling to change his decision.
Faced with this situation, Uncle Jiang's two sons still did not realize their mistakes, but accused their father of being too desperate. For Uncle Jiang, although he has two sons, he is unwilling to bear the responsibility of old-age care, which also leads to Uncle Jiang's failure to have the happy old age life he deserves.
It can be seen that in the process of educating children, it is far from enough to provide children with life and material protection, and if they cannot carry out appropriate filial piety education for their children, it will cause problems in their children's three views, and then they will make many immoral actions.
Many tragic stories in life caused by the filial piety of their children are full of emotions, and everyone will condemn those who are not filial piety. After all, filial piety culture is an important part of traditional Chinese virtues, and if you do not filial piety, you will become a person who has lost morality in the eyes of the world.
There is an old saying in China called "a hundred good filial piety first", "filial piety" is the first of the hundred goodness, filial piety is opened up, filial piety is the foundation of man, for people can not forget the original, to drink water and think of the source; at the same time, filial piety is also the basis of virtue, "thick virtue carries things, virtue is highly respected" This virtue originates from filial piety.
Therefore, filial piety is the foundation of people and virtue, filial piety exists in many lives and even the universe and the long history of the development of human civilization, filial piety is the biggest thing in the whole life; it is the core of traditional Chinese culture; it is a natural and righteous truth.
Our ancestors are very wise, the upper part is the upper part of the "old", the lower is a "son", seeing this "filial piety" word, I think that the old and the son are one, the old man above cares for the children below, and the children below care for the old man above, there is no beginning before, and there is no end after.
At the same time, we see that the "teaching" of education is "filial piety" + "攵", the elderly must teach children, and at the same time, children must be filial to the elderly, in order to count filial piety. Educating the next generation on how to fulfill filial piety is the main and primary content of education, and it is the responsibility of the elders to the next generation.
Mencius once said, "Filial piety is greater than three without a queen." Modern people understand that there are three things that are extremely unfilial, and not marrying and not having children is the most unfilial thing in life. In fact, this is only a superficial interpretation of Mencius's original meaning.
Mencius's original meaning is not to say that not marrying and not having children is not filial piety, but that children are born, and the elders do not fulfill their responsibilities to the next generation, do not educate the next generation well, and do not pass on filial piety is the greatest filial piety in life.
If you only get married and have children, but the children are not well educated, the children are not filial to their parents, they are unfaithful to the country, and they violate the law and discipline in society, this is the real filial piety, so this filial piety must be passed on from generation to generation.
The upper and lower parts of the word filial piety are connected with a large apostrophe, indicating that "filial piety" is a chain at the junction of life and life, and once broken, there is no connection. Only when people do a good job of filial piety from the top to the next, can life be smooth.
Supporting parents, giving them food and drink, living in a constant way, the karma has not changed, not just throwing away two money and doing filial piety. What does it mean to be too busy at work? A "heart" plus a dead "death", the heart is busy! There is no greater grief than death of the heart, and filial piety to the elderly is not only filial piety, but also filial piety and filial piety.
Parents all hope that their children can have a career, "stand on the path, make a name for themselves in the hereafter, and show the end of their parents' filial piety", which is the proudest and most gratifying thing for parents. We must glorify our parents, and we must not have bad habits or do things that are shameful for our parents, which are not filial piety.
People often suffer from gains and losses when they are old, some old people often compare, others have grandchildren, why I don't; others live in villas, why do I live in bungalows... Filial piety children will strive to get rid of their parents' troubles and let the elderly be content and happy, so that filial piety can be done perfectly!
Sons and daughters of the world, filial piety needs to wait for the absence of relatives as soon as possible. There are some things that we can't understand when we're young. When we understand, we are no longer young. There are things in the world that can be made up, and some things that never make up. True filial piety is not to annoy your parents and not to do things that are in the right place.