Text: Flipping through the books in his spare time
"In the world of Baba, there are not so many princes, and even if there are, they may not end from one." Marriage is a thorny road, and a couple does not come to the end and does not know the end. ”
——Lin Caiyi, "Pretend Thinking"
Everything allows people to add good wishes, even if the truth often backfires.
For example, people who buy lottery tickets must be able to win the jackpot, and they are willing to let go of investment with the psychology of small and broad.
The marriage is not as long as the odds of winning the lottery, but it is not like the ring exchanged for the wedding ceremony, the ring is still there, and the marriage may no longer be there.
If we take a look at our marriage apart from people's good wishes for things, we will probably come to the following conclusion: marriage is a companion relationship. As for how long this relationship will last, will it last until the end of our lives, do we need to consider it?
Impulsive feelings, let people have no time to think about these, can not think about the future, the present feels that the right person, long-term together, only in the blessing is real.
But if you don't think about the outcome, it should be a fairly long time together. The romance of marriage is actually created by ourselves, and the relationship between people and people is the truth of life.
If it is appropriate, it is necessary to live in harmony and beauty; if it is not appropriate, why bother to maintain the superficial family harmony?
For marriage, divorce is another outlet for life. Even if no one blesses this exit, why not be a way to answer a question?
Of course, no one expects to redeem themselves through divorce in the first place, but fortunately, couples who have been dependent on each other from beginning to end are also everywhere.
"A good life, a happy marriage" is our expectation of life, and we should indeed work hard in this direction. But as with every relationship, marriage is a matter for two people.
Two people's things, one person said does not count.