Text/Moran
In this lifetime, we will meet many people, and what kind of people we are with is actually no accident.
The people we meet in our lives are meaningful, and most of us will only be with people who are comfortable with each other, so that they will feel meaningful.
People will experience a lot of things in this life, meet a lot of people, and eventually stay with us, are people who really understand you and care about you.
And in the end, you will find that the person who really accompanies you to the end is always the person who is sincere to you and comfortable with you.
So, the best relationship between adults: getting along comfortably.
Get along comfortably, you don't have to pander to each other, you don't have to please each other
In fact, our group of people are all people who are accustomed to themselves, and they all want to be themselves, and they are not willing to please others.
Because when you try your best to please a person, you have lost yourself, and a person who has lost himself, no one will love.
Getting along with people is not blindly giving, humble flattery, but based on mutual foundation.
Operate together and maintain a balanced state, so that the relationship will get better and better, and the relationship will become more and more harmonious.
Tiptoeing to love someone, the end result is that you are injured.
Feelings are never a matter for one person, nor are you pleasing them. Any good relationship should be comfortable to get along with, so that the relationship will last.
But any person and thing that you need to work hard to please has lost its original meaning.
Get along comfortably, be intimate with each other, and be familiar with each other
For each of us, there will be our own space and boundaries in our hearts, and we don't want others to spy too much on our hearts.
When a person's heart is seen through, in fact, he will feel a lot of pressure, as if he has been seen.
People should still have some of their own secrets and things, too transparent will be insecure.
Know that no matter how close people are, they will have their own secrets, and they must learn to respect each other at any time and not to spy too much on the privacy of others.
No matter how good the relationship is, it should be intimate, so that we will get along comfortably and each other will not feel pressure.
Getting along with each other and maintaining a certain distance is the best state, otherwise getting too close to each other will have a sense of oppression.
The best feelings are never entangled, but at the same time intimate, maintain a certain degree, will get along tacitly, will also feel comfortable.
Get along comfortably, understand each other, understand your sorrows and joys
In this world, the most rare thing is to meet a person who really understands himself and understands himself.
It is a very happy thing that someone can see through your heart, understand your unspoken meaning, and understand your desire to stop talking.
We will meet many people in this life, but not everyone will understand you.
Only people who understand you will truly know your needs and will try to satisfy your wishes. It is a blessing for two people to be able to understand each other.
And the best relationship between people may be like this, mutual understanding, understanding your sorrows and joys.
Although the world does not have so much empathy, it is also a kind of happiness that someone can understand and understand you. Life comes and goes, and what is missing is a person who really understands you.
If you don't say it, he understands that this is the most comfortable mode of getting along, and when you meet such a person, you must cherish it.
summary:
The rare thing in life is actually to be yourself, how to be comfortable, how to come, no need to please, do not have to please, you just have to be yourself.
If in front of a person, you can maintain a real state, you can be a real self, then such a relationship can be operated for a long time.
May we all meet someone who is comfortable with and live happily ever after.