In recent years, the pregnancy incidents of college students have been frequently exposed, whether it is the impact of social progress or the increasingly low level of people's moral level, which is a question worthy of our deep consideration.
Words such as "accidental pregnancy, college student toilet childbirth, campus mother" also have a deep impact on our lives, think about it, these things are on the cusp of the storm, the most prominent reason is the child's education problems.
Recently, a high school girl in Harbin, Heilongjiang province, gave birth in the toilet, the party locked himself in the toilet, gave birth alone, no matter how the teacher and classmates persuaded not to open the door, the teacher had to force the door open, the girl and the baby sent to the hospital.
Imagine what the girl's parents would do if an accident occurred. How should the man's parents and the man's client take a stand? How should girls live in the future?
In fact, it seems that there are so many such things happening every year. Every time I want to ask, such a big thing, girls carry alone, is it really good? Ever wondered about the people who love you deeply? Have you ever been held responsible for your life? We should face up to such problems, and when such a thing happens, where should we go?
Parents are role models for their children and learn to love their children at the right time.
Endless quarrels must be avoided, which is really important, and its impact on children is incomparable.
I was born into a small, patriarchal rural family, and my parents seemed to argue every time over small things that I couldn't understand, and I didn't understand why a boy was so important to them. Later, when I had a younger brother, my parents still didn't treat me very well, threw tantrums at me, and quarreled in front of me.
There was a time when I became very depressed, and I wished that my parents could love all children the same, be gentle and kind to all children, but fortunately there was a light in my life that accompanied me to grow up.
Now that I have grown up, even though I was once very embarrassed, I am still as warm as the warm sun.
So parents are the light in the child's life, please be kind to every young soul who has not yet seen the world, even if you are difficult, do not hurt a child who is proud of you. Happiness is really the starting point of a child's growth, if a person's family is happy and happy, then she is the same for all the beauty in the world, not resisting, not yearning.
Please think about all parents, if your children are very happy and have received enough warm and timely love in your place, then how can they touch the bottom line of being a child, how they can face it alone after doing the wrong time, and how they can bear the pain that they should not bear at this age alone.
(for all parents)
Parents should be friends of their children, not teachers.
Psychology tells us, "Don't bet on Providence, don't guess the human heart, Providence you can't afford to gamble, you can't guess the human heart." "Ivor. In his book The Art of Love, Lohm says that there is no more positive impact on a child than a self-loving mother experiencing the direction of love, joy, and happiness.
Therefore, parents are the best guides for children, and from an early age, they must tell children the importance of self-love and how to prepare them for self-love. Strangle things like pregnancy in the cradle and prevent tragedies from happening. If the girl is already well aware of the dangers, if she tells her parents in time, if she goes to find a friend she can trust... It's all going to be different.
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Girls, must be self-respecting and self-loving.
A girl's best state should be "eyes full of stories, but no wind and frost on her face." Put on a light makeup every day, put on your favorite clothes, don't laugh at anyone, don't envy anyone, don't rely on anyone, just quietly work hard, swallow grievances, expand the pattern, and strive to live as you like. "In the world of feelings, girls are more attentive and more emotional than boys, but tell all girls to respect and love themselves, your life is not yours alone." We ourselves must also be brave, do not pay for immature love, learn to respect ourselves and love ourselves, learn to fight back, and learn to stay away. In view of the pregnancy of the girl, I still want to say that the body is their own, life is also their own, do not do anything wrong when you do not understand love, the mind is simple.
A boy's sense of responsibility.
"Peter Pan Syndrome" written by American writer Kelly explains the problems encountered by boys in many ways. Analyzed the problem of boys to men who did not grow up. The problems of "irresponsibility, machismo, lack of initiative, etc." are really common. "Immature, impulsive, not able to control emotions, lack of responsibility" is the label of boys, especially in the face of the problem of female pregnancy, which is more prominent.
Here, if you want to tell all boys that having children means that you have to take responsibility, a father has a long way to go. It also tells you that you need to have the ability to make money, and a husband is worth a thousand words. If you just want to be happy for a while, then please take good measures, be responsible for the girl, and also be responsible for yourself.
Having a child is really a gamble for a girl.
The pain of childbirth is really supported by your words that you love her to the death, then all your clouds are light and light, and it is also the last straw that crushes them. Boys, be kind to this gentle age, and be kind to the girl who once loved you more than you loved herself.
(for all boys)
What do you think about the boyfriend of this girl who is on the cusp of a knife. But if you have a little sense of responsibility, how can you be willing to let your whole world bear severe pain in the toilet to give birth; but if you have a little conscience, how can you be so irresponsible to her; but if you use snacks, things will not reach this kind of field. I hope that all boys will learn to grow up and learn to take responsibility.
Having said all this, the root cause of the problem is insufficient education and lack of comprehensive understanding of these things. The influence of the original family on children, the lack of timely love and lack of education by parents, the low quality of the girls themselves, the irresponsibility of the boys, and so on are all reasons. Social progress Children's thinking has not progressed, and their ideological quality cannot keep up with the trend of the times, resulting in low morality.
It was a wake-up call, but also a turning point. Admonish all of us at this age to let go of what we should not touch, learn what we should learn, let our thoughts keep up with the quality, and our behaviors deserve ourselves.
Qian Zhongshu once said that the best state of life is quiet and abundant when one person is alone, and warm and steady when two people are. The rest of life is short and there is no time to waste. When you are alone, learn to accept yourself, meet a person with similar interests, cherish it, laugh more, love deeply and rationally.
This life is hurried, everything is beautiful, and Er is in the center.
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