Synopsis:
My mother put aside her work, did her best to arrange my wedding, and took care of me, and my mother-in-law also came to the door from time to time to bring me some fresh food and come to see the state of my pregnancy.
My dad still flies around every day and doesn't see a shadow. Because the father-in-law is focused on the country, he flew back after the last meeting, but the phone remote control mother-in-law handled this side of the matter.
I'm pregnant, but I don't know if I should have this baby? My mother-in-law gave me 800,000 yuan and asked me to marry her son
Soon it was May 26, and the traditional two families, through fortune tellers, repeatedly determined the most recent good day.
1
Li Gang knew that I liked italian style, and as I wished, we held our wedding at Santa Maria's Church in Agana Bay, Guam. I especially like the stained glass in the church, through which the sun shines on everyone's face like a dream.
I never expected me to get married at the age of 21, standing in the church, I felt that everything was particularly unreal, if it was a dream, let me wake up later!
The moment I put on the white veil and stood next to my father, I thought maybe this was true, I was getting married, a girl less than 22 years old was getting married, before this, I really never thought about it, I think my parents certainly did not think about it.
Looking at my mother, standing on the side and talking about the expression of happiness, from time to time she secretly turned her head to wipe away tears. If I hadn't wanted to cry, I would have wanted to tease her.
My father's whole person also exudes an aura of unapproachable people, and the whole person is a little anxious, looking at his watch from time to time. By the way, he got off the plane last night, and today's wedding, if it wasn't for my father, I thought it was a guest who came to the wedding banquet.
Li Gang's family of three happily greeted the guests, and Li Gang was even more like a fool, laughing so hard that he couldn't see it. Chimpanzee grins at you and smiles at you, I'm disgusted, but this chimpanzee is the father of the child in the belly.
I may have to change my dog's temperament in the future, well, aren't chimpanzees also quite secure? The two of us are together, everyone must think that he has money, the gold chain does not have to hang anything, the low-key connotation is not.
In a flash, my dad reminded me to go forward, and I took my dad's arm and stepped on the lawn, step by step.
Shakespeare in England said that marriage is the end of youth, the beginning of life.
Am I stepping away from my youth and stepping into my life? My youth was really short.
The wedding hadn't been completely over yet, and after I saw my dad and my mom fight briefly in the corner, my dad left without looking back.
My mom wiped her tears behind my back, put on her makeup, and came over to tell us that there was something wrong with my dad's unit and needed him to go back and deal with it first.
Li Gang's parents, starting today, are my in-laws, quite critical, but because of today's scene, I didn't say much. I had the heart to ask my mom what they were arguing about and hadn't found the right opportunity.
My mother looked at me, patted my hand comfortingly, reassured me, and then adjusted her mood and went to receive the guests.
Just when the little sisters came to me, I left them behind.
2
After the wedding was a one-month honeymoon period, in the case of the two of us, there was no honeymoon. After staying at Li Gang's house for three days, I was ready to prepare gifts to go back to my house to see.
My mother-in-law had returned to China the day before, and my mother-in-law was going to stay and take care of me, but Li Gang knew that I was wild and afraid that I would not adapt, so she let her fly back together.
I remember my mom, who drove to my house early in the morning with Lee. As soon as I entered the door, I saw that the house was in chaos, and Sister-in-law Zhang was still cleaning up, and if she didn't pay attention, she thought she had been robbed.
I asked my mother where she had gone, and Sister-in-law Zhang pointed upstairs to me and said that she had just had a fight with my father.
I asked Li Gang to wait downstairs, so I went up to find my mother, pushed open the door, my mother was wiping away tears, my mother saw that I was a little surprised, did not expect me to come back so early.
Ask my mother what happened, my mother just said lightly with my father mixed two sentences, but mixed two mouths at home like a thief? I've been here for more than twenty years, and I've never seen them talk like this.
To make it clear, my mother didn't want to say it, so I didn't continue to ask. On that day, my mother did not let us stay long, and after eating, she let us go back.
Later, a friend asked me if something was wrong at home, saying that I saw my father holding a 2-year-old boy and a young woman, walking in the mall in the North End, and the relationship between the three of them seemed to be close.
I asked her to take a picture of me and send it over, and she said while sending it back that she didn't get excited, maybe she was wrong, I'm pregnant now, and the child is more important.
After I saw the photo, I had to drive back to my house at night, li Gang did not let me, felt that I was emotionally unstable, afraid that I would encounter danger in driving at night, and asked me to go tomorrow.
I can't wait for tomorrow, I want to know the result today, what the relationship between the boy and the woman and my father is.
3
I rushed out without hesitation, my coat was not worn, my shoes were not changed, and in the end, Li Gang was grinded and could not do anything. He took me into the house and put on my coat, changed my shoes, and he drove me home.
Along the way, I was cold and couldn't stop thinking about who the boy really was, why hadn't I seen it, did my mother know? Did my dad just cheat? When, did my mother know, was the boy his?
Thinking is like a wild horse that is out of control, once it is out of the fence, it cannot be stopped.
The thought that my dad might betray me and my mom made me feel like I had fallen into an ice cellar.
As Li Gang drove, he clapped my hand to comfort me, telling me not to get emotional, no matter what I encountered, he would accompany me.
At this time, I found that my whole body was trembling, my teeth were also trembling, and I wanted to tell Li Gang that I was fine, but I couldn't say anything, maybe when I was in a hurry.
Li Gang knew that I was in a hurry, did not dare to stop, and could only drive with one hand, and the other hand kept comforting me.
Along the way I imagined a lot, how to ask my dad if my mom knew. Maybe my friend was wrong, but we grew up together, and she met my dad countless times.
In a flash of thought, I arrived at my doorstep. I fixed my mind, pushed the door to get out of the car, walked home, and when I got home, I found that my dad was not at home, the time from the North District was not short, he did not know that I had discovered his secret, how could I rush back immediately?
The moment I met my mother, I didn't know whether to tell her whether she knew or didn't know? What was her plan?
My heart was like a cat's claw, but I was cowardly and didn't know how to open my mouth, but my mother seemed to know that there was such a day, pulled us into the door, sat on the sofa, closed the door, poured me a cup of hot water and said let me slow down first.
4
"Are you trying to ask your dad about it?" My mom saw that I drank a glass of water and eased it down, and after no longer trembling, she opened her mouth.
During this time, Li Gang has been holding me and comforting me. Maybe it's because the hot water warms my cold heart, maybe it's because Li Gang's embrace is too safe, or maybe I'm about to become a mother, and I can naturally take responsibility.
"Is this my dad?" I showed my mom the picture on my phone and listened expectantly to my mom say no.
"Yes." Never felt like a word weighed like a thousand pounds.
My mom told me that my dad had already cheated on me. Yes, she knew, but she wasn't divorced. That's because my mom didn't give birth to a boy for my dad, I feel very sorry for my dad, although my mom is in country M, but still a traditional person, she thinks that she and my dad have a child, and it is not easy to be in a foreign country. My dad was fresh for a while and would always come home.
Unexpectedly, my father even got the child out this time. This time, my mother originally wanted to give me two facades, but my father wanted to keep one for his son, so he only gave me one.
The last time I came back, my dad was going to divorce my mom, and my mom didn't agree, so he smashed the house.
Knowing the truth, I lost my mind in an instant. The happy family I am proud of is such a terrible thing. Unconsciously, tears flowed all over my face.
I suddenly remembered that when I was a child, I accidentally saw a scene where my father and my grandmother quarreled, because I was a girl, because my mother had a heavy bleeding after childbirth, and I had no choice but to remove the uterus. And Grandma said that my father was the eldest son and eldest grandson, and he couldn't break the roots here.
"Is it because you want a son?" I looked up and looked straight at my mom.
My mother was very helpless on her face, "I have no womb, I can't have children." ”
"Didn't he say he didn't want it, didn't he say he wanted me one?" Liar, he's a liar. "I can't accept it, my dad, who loves me so much, how firmly he used to tell grandma that he would be content with me in this life.
My mother hugged me and kept reassuring, "Cheng Cheng, you are calm and calm, people will change, but he will always be your father!" ”
"No, he's a liar, a liar at all." I was so excited, but I didn't think about it, but it was my mother who really felt bad.
5
Shakespeare in England said that an unsatisfactory marriage is like a hell of a lifetime of chickens and geese fighting, not allowed to live in peace, on the contrary, choosing a satisfactory spouse can be harmonious for a hundred years, and happiness is endless.
After calming down, Li Gang and I both believe that my mother has been too wronged for me and for the sake of the consummation of the family over the years, and it is better to let go than to keep a fictitious marriage all her life and not be able to live in peace.
We contacted a lawyer for her and helped her fight for the rights she deserved. During the lawsuit, I was afraid that she would be harassed unnecessarily, and it was also for her to relax. He took her to live with us, and took care of himself in the name of convenience.
I was raised by my mother since I was a child, and I never thought that I could live with my mother when I got married. Li Gang is indeed very concerned about me.
My mother also said that she did not expect the chimpanzee to be so responsible, he was like a wall, blocking the wind, frost, snow and rain, protecting my peace.
Qin Mu's words the defect of outward beauty can be compensated for by inner beauty, while the humility of the soul is not offset by external beauty.
Looking at my father and Li Gang, we can know that some people, who look like a table of talents on the outside, actually betray their wives and have a family outside of marriage.
Although Li Gang is not proud of his appearance, he is kind at heart, has a sense of responsibility, and can also treat my family kindly. I didn't expect to act inadvertently, but it made me gain a happy family.
I once asked why Li Gang was so firm in identifying me? He looked at me and said it was a secret, and would tell me when we were both old.
In fact, I accidentally turned over Li Gang's diary, only to find that he liked me for many years, watching the people around me, but still silently guarding me.
It is said that Li Gang was born in his previous life to marry me. Actually, I am.
And my dad, although my mom and Li Gang have been advising me, no matter what my dad did wrong, he was always my dad, and he always loved me.
I don't know what to do? But for the time being, I didn't want to contact him, and I never knew why the contrast between a person was so great.
Am I doing it right?