preface
When Tengger was at his peak, life gave him a huge blow.
At that time, because of a "Paradise" fire, he was appointed as the deputy director of the Central National Song and Dance Troupe, and held performances throughout the country in a year, and the literary and artistic evenings of tv stations, as many as more than 150 performances.
Well-known TV series such as "Detective Di Renjie" and "Gada Merlin" have invited him to sing the theme song.
And he already had a daughter, and he had a second child, a boy.
Children and daughters are complete, careers are thriving, Tengger should be more proud of himself.
Unexpectedly, in this year, the 3-year-old daughter was diagnosed with a serious congenital disease that was difficult to cure.
Tengger had to suspend his career and take his daughter everywhere for medical treatment, but in the end he was unable to save his child's life.
Gagill died at the age of 6.
Tengger had a white head overnight, his hair and beard were white, and he had been a completely different person ever since.
The way he treats his son has also changed completely.
Once, because of his drunkenness, he scattered his family wealth and squandered millions of dollars on drinking.
Even in order to be able to get drunk, he went directly to sell blood for wine, which was simply crazy.
His daughter's death changed him completely.
01
In 1960, Tengger was born in Otoke Banner, Ordos, Inner Mongolia, with 5 brothers and sisters in a family, and the family was particularly poor.
Even lighting a candle is a luxury that can only be enjoyed during the New Year, and usually only kerosene lamps and firewood sticks can be lit.
But this is a sea of folk songs, and my parents are local singers who are slightly famous.
Therefore, Tengger has loved music since he was a child, and as soon as he hears Mongolian songs, he will jump randomly with the music, but he dances like a decent, self-taught.
Because there are too many children in the family, the parents have no time to control, so they have to send Tengger to live in his grandmother's house, and in the long run, Tengger was infected with a bad disease at a young age.
When he was in elementary school, he fought and skipped class and did not obey discipline, and was often beaten by his parents with a whip, and when he was in junior high school, he once ran into a catastrophe because he did not choose his words, which led to him leaving a suicide note and almost jumping off the building to commit suicide.
Later, the squad leader found the suicide note and quickly handed it to Tengger's brother, which avoided an accident.
Since then, his parents have also lost confidence in him, allowing him to do not dare to take care of him anymore, thinking that this child's life may be over.
Unexpectedly, Heaven did not give up on him.
In the summer of the year when he was 15 years old, the teachers of the Inner Mongolia Art School came to Otok Banner to enroll, and Tengger's eldest sister learned of this news and mobilized Tengger to take the exam.
Because she had heard that the art school did not have such a high score in the culture class, and her brother naturally liked to dance, maybe he could take this road to make a living in the future.
The eldest sister did this to solve a heart disease of her parents.
Tengger went to the interview in a big way, and the other children carefully prepared the program and dance, and went to the interview with accompaniment.
Only Tengger didn't bring anything, not even music, hummed a Mongolian song himself, danced freely in the interview tent, completely out of order.
Unexpectedly, such a unique dance aroused the interest of the interview teacher, and he tried his best to arrange Tengger into the dance class, hoping that he would shine after systematic training.
Tengger was happy to go, but he didn't expect to be unable to do it without holding out for a few months.
Dance classes had to get up at 5 o'clock every morning to practice, which was too painful for the lazy Tengger.
So he used his brain again and went directly to the Academic Affairs Office to "ask for help."
He said that he really couldn't learn to dance, it was too painful, and he had to learn an instrument instead.
Unexpectedly, the school really approved his request and let him learn the three strings.
02
Although he also played three strings for three days to fish and two days to dry the net, Tengger did have a talent in music.
The teacher soon found that the child's perception of music was very good, and the listening was particularly accurate.
Press a button at random, and Tengger can sing it without any mistake after listening to it.
So in addition to pulling the three strings, the school also entrusted him with the work of command.
Although Tengger later said that "at that time, it was just a blind stroke, and I didn't understand what a command was."
But his accurate sense of rhythm and super pitch are indeed very rare, so that he can command well without effort.
He became the focus of the school.
At the age of 19, the school sent him to the China Conservatory of Music to study conducting.
At that time, there was no one in the school who could really direct, and I hoped that after he returned from his studies, he could stay in the school as a command teacher.
Unexpectedly, as soon as the eagle was released, he saw the vast world outside and never wanted to come back.
After going to the real university, Tengger realized how small he was, and he was as deflated as a leather ball.
He heard more pop music, he heard Teresa Teng and fell in love with it at once, it turned out that music can be so soft.
At this time, he knew what real music was.
So he made up his mind to go to college and study music.
But this idea was opposed by the whole family.
The parents think that this child is too capable, it is difficult to stay in school as a teacher, and they have to go to the music academy that they have never heard, where is the money for him to go to school?
But Tengger, who is born with an opinion, does not care about their opinions.
03
After studying at the China Conservatory of Music for half a year, he gave up his work at the school and was admitted to the Composition Department of the Tianjin Conservatory of Music.
Fortunately, there was a subsidy in the school, and Tengger could have lived well, but because he was drunk, loved to drink and eat meat, every time he got the subsidy, he had to buy a second pot and eat shabu lamb.
Every month, there is always more than half of the time to eat and drink everywhere.
Once the teacher asked him to help buy a roast chicken, but when he came back, he found that he was missing a chicken leg.
It turned out that Tengger did not hold back on the road, and ate one on the halfway point with a second pot.
The teacher also knew that the children were hungry and could not bear to blame him.
After graduation, Tengger was assigned to the Central National Song and Dance Troupe, and still worked as a three-string player.
But the folk orchestra performed very little, and relying on the little allowance every month was not enough for him to drink and eat meat, and his life was particularly embarrassing in those years.
But no matter how difficult it was, he could not stop his love of wine, and once because he had no money to buy wine, he even went to sell blood to buy wine.
In 1986, Tengger finally waited for the opportunity to compose and sing a song "Mongols" in the troupe, and became famous in the troupe.
He suddenly found that singing was more suitable for him, so in those years, he went everywhere to participate in singing competitions, hoping to win some awards and become famous.
Maybe you can get some bonuses and a few big drinks, and that would be great.
It was then that he met his first wife, Haskova.
At this time, Haskova was not something that Tengger could climb high.
She graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy and was assigned to the Drama Team of the Inner Mongolia National Theater Troupe after graduation.
At its most popular, the main role of all major films in Inner Mongolia was once known as the first actress in Inner Mongolia after Sichen gaowa.
At this time, Tengger only had a performance fee of 60 yuan, two people one in the sky and one on the ground.
But love is the fairest thing in the world, and two people like this still fall in love at first sight.
Later, the two found that they were still classmates in the same school as the primary school, and the relationship was one step closer.
With the help of classmates, the two young people soon got married.
At that time, Haskova felt that although Tengger had no money, he was very talented, idealistic, and responsible, and he could definitely give himself a happy life.
04
After marriage, in order to take care of the family and let Tengger chase her dreams with peace of mind, Haskova resolutely stopped filming and washed her hands for Tengger in the 20-square-meter house of the unit.
But Tengger slowly let her down more and more.
Although he has become famous and has formed the Wolf Band, his income is getting higher and higher, and the performance fee has risen from 60 yuan to 1,000 yuan.
But Tengger's vices were exposed, he loved to drink too much, and after getting the performance fee, he always beckoned his brothers to go out and squander it at the first time, and went home drunk every day.
1,000 yuan was drunk in less than half a month, and not a single cent could be taken back.
Because he loved to drink, he also set up a "beer association", which he served as its president, and held a drinking contest to see who could drink the most, and he was proud of it.
In the long run, the feelings of the two people have a deep rift, and every time Tengger returns drunk, the two people must have a big fight.
Later, in order to clean up, Tengger simply lived in the studio, which did not matter, haskova was angry and directly filed for divorce.
No matter how Tengger pleaded, Haskova did not look back.
She despaired of Tengger, an alcoholic man who could not be held accountable to anyone.
After the divorce, Tengger finally woke up and found that after 7 years of marriage, he had passed the age of confusion, and finally had nothing, because of drinking, so many hundreds of thousands of points earned for so many years did not save, no car and no house.
But talented men are sought-after everywhere, even if they are divorced.
Two years after the divorce, Tengger met his second wife, Honger Zhula, while returning to Inner Mongolia to perform.
Jura is not as famous as Haskova, she is just a small accompaniment to the local song and dance troupe, and she is 18 years younger than Tengger.
But she was deeply in love with this bold man, even if he loved to drink, she also felt that this was the embodiment of the true temperament of the Inner Mongolian people.
Her admiration also made Tengger deeply involved, but Tengger was not in a hurry to get married this time, because he wanted to give Jura a perfect wedding.
It was also something that his first marriage had taught him, and he had finally learned to plan for the future.
05
In 2000, Tengger, who had been silent for 5 years, became a hit with "Heaven" and won many awards.
Tengger can finally marry Jura in a decent way.
In the Spring Festival of 2003, they held a grand wedding in Inner Mongolia.
The bride's family's relatives and friends all rushed to see the style of the big star, and Tengger also hosted everyone proudly, so that everyone drank his "Tengger wine" and smoked his "wolf smoke", which he produced himself.
And because he loves to drink, Tengger has also opened four restaurants, but because he is too arrogant, friends come all in vain, and finally lost millions.
The second year after marriage, Jura gave birth to a lovely daughter, and Tengel, who was 44 years old and had a daughter, was ecstatic and named her "Gagill", which means "earth".
In order to express his love for his daughter, Tengger also wrote a special poem "Heaven and Earth".
Whenever I go on the show, I always generously share my relationship with my daughter, which is particularly warm.
With the lesson of a failed marriage, this time Tengger focused more on accompanying the family, although the wine was still drunk a lot, but for the sake of his daughter, he would also restrain himself.
The family had a happy 3 years, and the son Zaban was born, but with joy came a huge bad news.
The daughter was diagnosed with a congenital disease and had little time.
Tengger immediately stopped all work, took his daughter everywhere to seek medical treatment, Chinese medicine and Western medicine, burning incense and praying, really exhausted all kinds of methods, but failed to save her daughter.
The daughter seems to know that she is seriously ill, and since the diagnosis, there has been no smile on her small face.
When I was 6 years old, one day my daughter suddenly said, "Daddy, I want to see dandelions." ”
The sad Tengger picked a handful of dandelions for her and walked with her to the courtyard, and the daughters blew them apart one by one, and a long-lost smile appeared on their faces.
Soon after, he went to heaven.
06
Tengger and his wife were deeply saddened, especially Tengger, who loved his daughter deeply, and his hair and beard were completely white overnight, and he was still unwilling to accept this fact.
A friend recalled: "Tengger used to be a very real person, he drank two cups and you drank one and he was definitely not dry." ”
"But then he saw a lot of things, and he didn't care about many things."
Fortunately, there is a son who can soothe their wounded hearts.
Because of his debt to his daughter, Tengger became particularly doting on his son, and he had always advocated filial piety under the stick.
But now he is reluctant to watch which cartoon his son likes to watch, and he will learn that animated character to make his son happy.
At home, he was never willing to kill his son, so his son was never afraid of him or listened to him.
As soon as his mother left, his son lay down on the ground, and Tengger told him to get up, and he lay there motionless, and no matter how many times Tengger called him, he didn't seem to hear him.
Tengger will not care, he will not teach him, because he feels that he is still so young, it is useless for you to reason with him, and when he grows up, he will naturally understand.
Later, Tengger's style changed greatly, and he began to cover various network divine songs.
From "The Sun Never Sets" to "Love Buy and Sell" to "Love 105 Degrees of You", he sang a new feeling with his unique voice.
And on the stage, he shook his head and tail, like a cute strange old man.
Maybe it would ease his pain and make himself a little more relaxed.
Tengger's life is also fate, and loss is also fate.
He could have been very popular, but he was divorced because of alcoholism, stopped his career several times, and the happiness of the second marriage was hard to get, but it gave him a headache.
Many people say that their daughter has a congenital disease, which is also related to his alcoholism, and I don't know if this is the reason why he is so miserable.
It was a pity that such a big blow did not really make him sober.
More than 10 years after her daughter's death, Tengger still has not quit drinking, often hosting various banquets at home.
When his son was a child, he would tell him, "Daddy, you should drink less."
Now I have given up and don't care about him anymore.
People who indulge themselves and are addicted to alcohol will not be too happy in their emotional marriages. Such a person is too arbitrary, generous to others, and has little affection for his wife and children, and he does not live to understand.
No matter how lively you drink with others, there are also times when you are out, only your wife and children are the people who really love you.