I've been on blind dates many times, and the longest talk has been with my first blind date.
After a month of talking, I once asked him, "What do you think of me?" ”
He couldn't say anything.
He asked me to take a picture of him and he showed it to other people.
The other person was his sister, not his sister.
Then when I asked him again, he said: My sister said, just like that, the appearance is not particularly stunning, it looks more cute, try to talk about it.
I can't remember exactly what was said, but the meaning of that sentence made me feel uncomfortable.
I wonder if I'm too sensitive?
Within two weeks, he said to me, "The matchmaker said that you were in a hurry to go to my house to see the house, didn't you say that you were talking first?" Why are you in such a hurry? If you want to see it, you can. ”
When he said this, his tone was very gentle.
Later, the matchmaker sent us a message and said the same thing, but said that the man wanted me to see it.
As a result, the man blamed me for being too anxious.
This is a bit of a duck on the shelves, I am very unhappy, I am only 22 years old, what is the hurry?
And the man is not in a hurry, I am in a hurry, it seems that I am in a hurry.
People complain about me, and I don't like this situation the most.
So, the man had asked me to visit his house that day, but I broke up with him for that reason.
Forget it, no one should rush to anyone.
But later, I felt that I was too impulsive, and the man also listened to the matchmaker's flickering, thinking that I was in a hurry to go to his house to see, and he didn't seem to do anything to be sorry for me.
Later, I took the initiative to add him back.
We talked for two more weeks, we had dinner together, we had movies, he had bought me shoes, he had bought handbags, he had bought gloves, he had bought hats, and we had fed each other.
I also thought about buying something for him, but I didn't know what to buy, and before I could act on it, he gave me up.
He may think that if I don't go to see his sister, I just don't want to talk to him.
But seriously, I'm a naturally sensitive person.
His sister was not his own sister, and he often hung up on his sister and said how good his sister was.
About thirty years old, he went abroad, bought his own house and bought a car, did not need to rely on men to raise, was an unmarried, very independent.
He also told me that he was going to help his sister change the light bulbs, or that his sister had asked him to help with something, and so on.
So, later when I asked him again: What do you think of me? When we don't want to officially become boyfriend and girlfriend.
He said he wasn't sure either and wanted to take me to see his sister.
I asked him very bluntly: Is it because his sister thinks I am not suitable, we will not talk, he said no, just go to see my sister, let my sister see how you are.
I was extremely uncomfortable.
scold! I don't want others to judge, why should I give his sister a reference, that is not his sister.
I didn't even ask my friends to refer to him. (My friend persuaded me to go and said I could bring my man over to show them.) But I think, I don't like to let others refer to, how can I ask my friends to refer to each other? I can't understand my own mind, so how can I get along with it? ）
In fact, from the moment he hesitated and tangled, it was doomed that we could not be together.
And I can't like such a boy with a sister.
I didn't go to the appointment, and after a few days of coldness, he finally made up his mind to say goodbye to me.
In this way, the first blind date failed.
Forgot to introduce the basic situation of this boy: about one meter and eight tall, secondary vocational education, auto repair, his own family opened a shop, has a mother, has an older brother (married, has children. ）