Education is first and foremost the education of human nature - watching "Children Are Not Stupid 2" has a feeling

More than 20 years ago, every day when I came home from school and approached the door, I would carefully probe my head into the door, look left, look right, and make sure that the house was normal, so that I could slowly put my heart back. Because I know there's no war at home.

Later, I went to high school in a neighboring town, and every month when I came home from vacation, I would carefully ask my mother if you were okay lately.

Later, when I went to college, although I never mentioned it in letters and phone calls, I would still carefully inquire about my parents' relationship when I returned home every six months. Although my father went out to work for me to go to school at that time, he could not come back several times a year.

Once, I had a time when I especially admired my own strength. When I went to college, I went out of town alone with my luggage and money on my back; once a doctor judged that I would not live to be 30 years old, I tried to die behind my parents; I had severe obsessive-compulsive disorder and depression for up to 8 years.

I thought I was a world by myself. Until I met my wife. In the seven years between our acquaintances and the time we got married and when we raised children together, the two of us often interjected with each other. Every quarrel, my unchanging, expressionless poker face for thousands of years, did not know that it would bring her so much harm. In fact, I am afraid of quarrels!

I grew up beaten up. Mischievous mischief broke things and was beaten; I was beaten if I didn't study well and didn't work hard; I was beaten when I was hungry and didn't have anything to eat at home; even if someone else hurt me, I gave it back and got beaten. I'd rather someone beat me than my mom beat me. The most brutal time, she used three tools on me, a steel burning stick, an aluminum water scoop, and a wooden bench. I was lame in my legs.

After adulthood, my mother once repented that the discord between husband and wife, the difficulties of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the hardships of life, the instigation of others... Various stresses often caused her emotions to get out of control. Yet I was expressionless because I didn't know how I should express it. But I've been at work and at home, like crazy people.

Unlike the talent and humility on TV, I have always known that my parents love me. It's just that this kind of love is too hard to bear. Like Chengcai and Xueqian, I don't like to stay at home and do everything I can to linger.

This psychological shadow does not automatically disappear as you grow up, it will always lurk in your heart, affecting your behavior all the time.

I've only been freed from my mother's control of my language for more than half a year; I've only been able to infect others with laughter; I've learned to cry even later; I've only been able to enjoy the warmth of home for three or two months; I've been moderately insistent on my son without being angry with him, and I'm still learning.

So I recommend you to watch the movie "Kids Are Not Stupid 2", so that we can feel the huge influence of the family on their children (more negative in the play). Learn to separate the child's shortcomings from the child himself, learn to praise the child, and learn to truly love the child.

I am a teacher and have witnessed thousands of family education products perform in school. Sometimes, it is very sad that the shining point of the child in the eyes of the teacher is not valued, recognized, or even denied by the parents. It is no wonder that in the eyes of some children, the words of teachers are better than those of parents; the friendship between teachers and students even exceeds the feelings of parents and children.

Parents, your sons and daughters, who you have worked so hard to cultivate, have been thrown out of the house by you for various reasons; is it not a sadness that your children's hearts cannot even tolerate a word of your nagging?

Now, right now, search the web for "Kids Aren't Stupid 2" to savor it.

You know, I'm a teacher, and I've hurt some students for my grades; even under the current education system, I'm still negatively hurting my children. Are you so sure that as long as his/her score is good, he or she represents success? What if his grades are not good? Don't you love ta?

Don't be stupid, I tell you, the growth of a child is first to become a person, if you want him/her to become an adult, let him/her have humanity, and as a parent, you must give your child human care. The five levels of love, acceptance, liking, adoration, gratitude, and belief, are the soil that breeds the child's humanity.

Family education is the most important education, human nature education is the fundamental education, in a meritocracy education system, how can you be so confident to entrust the education of human nature to the school? I was fortunate not to have the humiliation of being a talent and a humble student in school in my upbringing. Otherwise, with my anger at that time, I would have killed people.

Apologize for the harm I have done to my children in my schooling for so many years, thank you for your generosity and tolerance for me, apologize for the various harm I have done to my loved ones in my family life, and thank you for your love for me!

Then, invite you, bring a box of paper to smoke, and watch quietly, "Kids Are Not Stupid 2."