Kids are not stupid 2

Just finished brushing the movie "Kids Are Not Stupid 2" with my mobile phone. I haven't seen a movie in its entirety in a long time, and when the kids are a little older, I think we can watch it together.

This is a film about children's education, perhaps seeing the shadow of their own life from it, and even resonating with themselves. Before watching this movie, I had just lectured about children.

The film is mainly about two families, but the problems of these two families seem to be really happening to us. In a family, the couple is very busy, rarely see the child, and the only time spent with the child is used to teach. The rebellion of junior high school children, the sensitivity of primary school, in their view of teaching, scolding is the education of children, and then while accusing children of fault, it seems that children are useless in their eyes, and they are always wrong. Originally excellent two children, one together with the little gangsters in society, learned to steal and rob, and one stole other people's money in order to spend money to buy his father's time to watch his own performances. When the father stolen money to buy a baby card and beat the child's palm with a rattan, he realized that the child was only trying to make up enough money to buy his time so that his parents could watch his performance, and even sold his favorite baby card for this purpose. Seeing this, I suddenly feel that there is too little companionship for children, we are with them, but how much time you are playing with your mobile phone, the so-called companionship is to do their own thing. The child of another family, the mother is no longer alive, and the father has not seen him since he was two years old because he was in prison, but after seeing him, he only scolded, because the father was also scolded from childhood to adulthood. Then the child also learns to fight, to beat the teacher, until he is expelled from school. Why does the child use violence to solve the problem, because he has a violent father. It is said that the child is a blank piece of paper, and the parents are the best teachers for the child. Later in the film, the parents finally discover their own problems and become friends with the child, while the other, the father finally gave his life for him, in exchange for the child's final talent, just like his name, the talent.

I can't say that I am like the parents in the film, but I still see my own shadow. It is always said that today's children are difficult to discipline and do not know how to teach, but have we tried to really understand them? Find the key that opens the door. I remember when the child was just born, I was sincerely happy in my heart, every little bit of her progress and a little change made people happy, and the failure comforted her, the progress appreciated her, and took her forward. But as we get older, our requirements are more and more, and comfort and appreciation are replaced by scolding, and we keep telling her: "What your mother told you is for your own good, why do you just not understand it, or don't listen to it..." "I became the mother who liked to preach constantly, only to vent her emotions, but did not consider the child's feelings at all, when our praise and encouragement turned into scolding, when they gradually covered their ears in the face of preaching, the child's door gradually closed to us." 」

It's not that children are difficult to teach, it's that we can't teach. In fact, there are no children in the world who cannot be taught, only parents who cannot be taught, and the way we appear in front of them is the way they are in front of us. The useless person is actually ourselves. Every child has his own strengths, but we often see only shortcomings. A good resource, placed in the wrong place, then it can only be garbage, and if garbage is placed in the right place, it will become a useful resource. An apple rots, you throw it away, and there's nothing left, but if you cut off the bad one, you can eat the good one. We are all parents who love our children, but we love too much to know how to love. Writing so much, it feels quite confusing, but I really recommend parents and children to take a look, maybe later you will find the key to open the door of the child's heart.