It is not that there is no beauty in life, but that there is a lack of eyes to find beauty - the French sculptor Rodin
"Kids Aren't Stupid 2" is a Singaporean children's comedy film with a Douban rating of 8.3. The various family education problems that appear in the film drama are also common in our daily lives, whether as children or as parents, we can more or less find some shadows of ourselves. Therefore, many netizens rated it as a must-see movie for parents and children.
The whole film has profound educational significance, and as a mother of two children, I have watched it three times and benefited a lot. The most profound thing is that as a parent, you must always look at your child with an appreciative eye.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > look at children with an appreciative eye and are good at finding children's shining points</h1>
Just as no leaf in the world is the same, every child has its own unique place.
In the plot, Tom's blog writing won an award, he was beautiful in his heart, but he did not expect to be ridiculed by his mother: writing something messy is called great? Usually your composition is not so powerful? In the face of his mother's ridicule, Tom bowed his head and was speechless.
Mom thinks that good academic performance is the best, but she doesn't realize that Tom is good at blogging, which is his uniqueness, a shining point.
Younger brother Jerry takes the first class every time he takes the exam, but his parents rarely praise him and often scold him: Can't you get a higher score?
On Father's Day, Tom carefully prepared gifts that were considered a waste of money by his parents. Tom stayed up late to fix the computer for his father, and instead of praising him, he accused him of messing with the adult computer.
In the eyes of children, everything they do is wrong, they cannot get the affirmation of their parents, and their self-confidence is deeply damaged. Gradually, the children became silent, and the gap between them and their parents grew.
Tom's classmate Chengcai also suffered the same experience. The father of the talent hopes that he can study seriously and get good grades. However, Chengcai does not like to learn at all, and likes to fight the most. Dad hated him the most for fighting, because he himself was lame when he was young because he loved to fight.
Once a child's rebelliousness occurs, it is very terrible, and the more you stop him, the more he does that, and even intensifies. ChengCai was eventually expelled from school for beating his teacher.
On the contrary, the friends of the successful father are very good at finding the shining points of the child.
Chengcai's dad chatted with friends. Friends said that the teacher told her to go to school and discuss her children's talents. Chengcai's father asked: What talent does your child have? She replied casually: Fat! Chengcai dad is very unexpected, fat is also called talent? The friend said triumphantly: Great, he lost the shot put, the farthest in the country. When I was a child, he especially liked to throw my things from downstairs to upstairs. Unexpectedly, throwing things away is also a talent. Then she inspired the talented dad: Doesn't your son like to fight? Fighting is also a talent. You train him, maybe he can play from Singapore to the whole world.
Throwing things away is a talent, fighting can also become a talent, what a wise mother, she looks at the child with appreciation and love, faces the characteristics of the child, and taps the child's potential from another angle.
In daily life, many parents think that good academic performance is the most powerful, but they do not know that children themselves have many shining points, such as understanding politeness, diligent housework, and being helpful. Smart parents are good at appreciating and loving their children from small things.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > The power of appreciation is enormous and can make a child's life</h1>
Parents' appreciation of their children is a kind of love, and the power of this love is huge, which can help children establish self-confidence, overcome various difficulties and setbacks in the river of human growth, be down-to-earth, and enter the temple of success.
Edison, whom we know well, was super curious as a child, loved to ask strange questions and do incredible things. Neighbors around him said he had a problem, the teacher thought he was a stupid student, and his mother Nancy found Edison to be a smart person. Nancy seized on the shining point of Edison's strong curiosity and carefully cultivated it, and Edison eventually became a great inventor.
In every little child, there is a good child and a bad child. Just wake up their good kids and they'll take the best out of them. There is a saying that "resources, misplaced is garbage, and garbage placed in the right place, is resources."
Napoleon Hill, the great American success scientist, was considered a bad boy from an early age. No matter what happened, people around him would think he did it. Napoleon Hill Jr. began to give up on himself, bent on behaving worse than others had described. It was not until his mother died and his stepmother appeared that Napoleon Hill Jr.'s life began to take a turn, because the stepmother discovered his strengths.
When her stepmother first arrived, her father told her that Napoleon was the worst of the Hill brothers. After listening to it, the stepmother said something that changed Napoleon's life: Is this the worst child? Not at all. He happened to be the smartest of these children. And all we have to do is to help him bring out the good qualities he has.
His stepmother encouraged him to make bold plans on his own. It was with the appreciation and encouragement of his stepmother that Napoleon discovered his own strengths and strengths. He regained his confidence, forged ahead, and eventually achieved the success of his career.
Every child has a lot of shining points, which requires parents to be good at discovering and appreciating. Fully display the child's shining point, it is possible to become a specialty, and the child will create miracles. On the contrary, parents just look at their children according to their own expectations, and many of the child's valuable qualities are buried.
Smart parents, children are not stupid, please use the power of appreciation to achieve a child's life.