The middle-class Brothers Tom and Jerry live in excellent conditions, but they have many troubles. Dad (Leung Chi-keung) is an employee of a mobile phone development company, Mom (Xiang Yun) is the editor of a famous magazine, the couple is busy with work all day, and there is no time to take care of the children's feelings. In the eyes of this pair of parents, the children are mischievous and mischievous, and their shortcomings simply make them their hearts. Tom's best friend Cheng Cai (Hong Cijian) was born into a single-parent family, and his father (Huang Yiliang) was not highly educated, and he was lame in a fight when he was young. In order to prevent his son from repeating the mistakes of the past, he took a rough approach to education. Parents do the same, and so do the teachers at the school. Teacher Fu, who teaches Chinese, is distressed by the students' studies, but in the process of education, the relationship with the students is becoming more and more tense. The principal blindly follows the school rules and even publicly punishes them for the purpose of achieving this goal.
Schools, teachers, and parents, who should have played the role of caring for the growth of seedlings, have become the murderers who promote and stifle their nature. When they discover their mistake, the child's heart is full of scars...
1. The parents of Tom and Jerry are busy with work all day and have no time to take care of their children's feelings. In their eyes, children are always mischievous, causing trouble, and letting them their hearts. But for Tom, his hobbies did not receive the slightest recognition and support from his parents. He repaired his father's computer in exchange for misunderstandings and scolding. For Jerry, his invitation to perform was repeatedly ignored and postponed by his parents. He stole the money just to buy an hour of dad's company. Children need not only material satisfaction, but also the love and appreciation of their parents. Parents and children need effective communication, emotional communication, praise for each other's strengths, and trust, patience and understanding.
2. Chengcai has no mother, but his father has adopted a rough education method based on scolding because of his low level of education, short temper and lack of patience. The son did something wrong, did not ask the reason, it was a severe beating, never gave him a chance to explain. Over time, the child becomes more resistant and rebellious, and the contradiction between father and son becomes more and more intense. "There are no children under the heavens who can't teach, only parents who can't teach." Stick education is not "filial piety", but "contrarian son". Equal communication between hearts and minds is the best way to communicate. Many family misfortunes are due to "not not loving, just not loving".
1. Teacher Fu, who teaches Chinese, is sad about the students' studies, but in the process of education, they cannot do anything about it. Students with poor grades and inability to improve themselves call them "rotten apples" in front of everyone and label them as "poor students". There is no enlightenment and encouragement, just angry scolding and inefficient tuition after comparison. "Teachers, so preachers are also enlightened by karma", and at the same time, teachers are also the cultivators of the students' minds, the engineers of the human soul. Students have poor grades and are not motivated, and teachers are also to blame. A teacher's teaching style affects not only himself, but also his students. Therefore, teachers should keep pace with the times, constantly reflect on and improve teaching methods, teach according to their aptitudes, teach heuristically, encourage mainly, and punish as a supplement.
2. In the school, Tom and Chengcai fight with others, no matter how they plead, the principal just blindly follows the school rules, expels Chengcai, and even publicly punishes Tom in front of all the teachers and students of the school. Although "there are no rules, no squares", schools do not have the right to publicly violate students' right to personal dignity. This will only leave a psychological shadow on the students involved, have fears about the school, and some even have the idea of taking their own lives, resulting in tragedy. For "problem" students, schools should explore and cultivate their strengths and make them a person who contributes to society. "A bad apple can be eaten if it is cut off, but if it is thrown away, there is nothing."
Every child will go through a period of rebellion, and if at this time, parents and teachers do not give proper instruction, but instead condemn them one by one, believing that they are rotten wood and cannot be carved, perhaps, society will really have one more scum. Don't harm your child because of our negligence or ignorance. In fact, as long as teachers, parents and children have a healthy way of communication, more appreciation, more tolerance, more affirmation, equal treatment, children are not stupid, they are cute, and they will be "good apples".