Today I read "How Big the Parent's Pattern Is, How Far Can The Child Go", and my takeaway is as follows: Self-control is an ability that every child should have.
As a parent, let your child get rid of the bad habit of being half-hearted and inattentive. Teach your child to focus on doing this one thing at a time. When that's done, do another thing. In this way, we can do things well one by one, so as to improve the efficiency of doing things.
As parents, we should educate our children to work hard from now on and let ourselves gain something every day. Even if it is a small progress, as long as you work hard and make progress, then you can harvest achievements and growth.
As parents, you should teach your children to work harder than others. Because only by working harder than others, doing what others can't do, and eating the suffering that others can't eat, can children exchange for a good future and future in the future. The so-called eating bitterness, the party is a superior person, this is the meaning.
As a parent, you should also teach your child to do things in a planned way, so that children can learn and live in an orderly manner, so that children will receive more surprises in the future. Helping and guiding children to do things in a planned way can not only help children to deal with things in an orderly manner, but also improve their ability to freely dispose of and manage their time.
Almost every child has the habit of procrastination, which not only makes a mess of children's lives, but also makes children's learning inefficient and grades become a mess. So as parents, we should help children completely change procrastination, then we need to carefully observe some of their children's daily behaviors, find the reasons why children are accustomed to procrastination, and also work with children to formulate a "deadline" to make children have a sense of urgency. Tomorrow after tomorrow, tomorrow is so much, once the child develops the bad habit of procrastination, then he will not only achieve nothing in the future, but his whole life will be a mess.
Many times, the child's rubbing is urged by the parents, so get rid of the bad habit of "urging", let go appropriately, and let the child learn to manage time. This is the easiest and most effective way to educate!