"There will be results in a hundred causes, and your retribution is me."
Remember the 2019 Han Meijuan who wore heavy makeup and became popular with strange costumes and strange pronunciation?
This time, he appeared on the stage of "Creation Camp 2021" as the spirit boy Han Peiquan.
Some people have said that he is sensationalizing, and some people say that he is willing to do anything to attract people's attention.
On the Internet, the three words "Han Meijuan" exist like a joke, but if you know in advance what he has experienced, I am afraid that you will change your mind about him.
On average, one in 600 to 1,000 babies suffers from cleft lip and palate.
Unfortunately, Han Peiquan is one in a thousand.
Usually, giving up is not the best way to solve the problem, but it is the fastest way to reduce your continued suffering.
Han Peiquan's mother felt that life was hopeless because of her family's poverty and Han Peiquan's cleft lips and palate, so she left her infant who was still in her infancy and ran away from home.
If a person is determined to disappear, no one will find her.
Han Peiquan's grandmother unsuccessfully searched for three months after the search notice, and the court ruled that Han Peiquan's parents were automatically divorced.
The departure of his mother made the Han Peiquan family even worse.
Grandma was old and had no income, and dad had to go to work in a foreign country in order to make money, and Han Peiquan became a left-behind child completely.
Because of birth defects and the lack of parental support, Han Peiquan was often bullied and abused by his classmates.
But later, when talking about his mother's cruel abandonment, Han Peiquan responded with "human common sense".
"From her point of view, the family conditions are not good, the children born are still like this, and it is common for people to leave."
Compared with some patients with cleft lip and palate, Han Peiquan is lucky. Because of the help of the Chinese Welfare Foundation, Han Peiquan was able to receive rescue and surgery.
On average, every 2 years, surgery is performed, and each time it is general anesthesia, which lasts until Han Peiquan is 16 years old.
If you look closely, even if you look across the screen, even if you are separated by thick makeup, you can actually find that Han Peiquan's nose and the corners of the mouth are different from others.
But Han Peiquan refused to undergo surgery since he was 16 years old, on the grounds that he felt that he was lucky enough and liked the way he was now.
But apparently, the god of luck only temporarily cared for Han Peiquan.
In 2013, Han Peiquan's father contracted cirrhosis of his liver from excessive drinking, which quickly turned into liver cancer.
"I was in pedi class that day in 2013 and the teacher told me that my father was hospitalized, and after I went to the hospital for two days, my father died and was gone."
The words used by Han Peiquan when recalling this passage are very concise and brushed over.
But after all, it was flesh and blood relatives, and I don't know how many dark nights Han Peiquan had survived before he could be as calm and calm as he is now.
18 years old is an adult, but it is also a turning point for Han Meijuan.
Because of the encounter with short videos and live broadcasts, Han Peiquan became an "Internet celebrity". Relying on exaggerated clothing and "golden sentences", Han Peiquan has more than 10 million fans.
Although a considerable number of people inside are just to facilitate insults and ridicule him, compared with the hard work in bars and odd jobs in the mall, being an Internet celebrity
He was laughed at and scolded, but at least solved his and his grandmother's financial difficulties.
"I don't need anyone's sympathy, I'm doing very well and well right now, that's the feeling that the old woman is rich."
Han Peiquan was very generous to tell fans about his experience, just to encourage those who have had the same unfortunate experience as him to live bravely, not to win sympathy.
When he was young, Han Peiquan was discriminated against and ridiculed by his classmates because of his cleft lip and palate.
After becoming popular, Han Peiquan, who was still studying at the Beijing Modern Music Training Institute, suffered from the exclusion and oppression of his roommates.
"They poured soot on my bed and deliberately made trouble while I was recording videos." There is a kind of person in this world who just can't see that others are better off than him.
Therefore, Han Peiquan simply moved out of the bedroom and rented a house at his own expense to concentrate on making videos.
In March 2020, Han Peiquan, with his unkempt hair and dirty face, blew himself up and was threatened.
Even so, Han Peiquan still did not say anything excessive.
I remember that Han Peiquan once said a very impressive sentence during the live broadcast.
"I don't have parents, but my grandmother taught me 3 points, filial piety, kindness and authenticity."
As for fans, Han Peiquan is even more sober: "If you want to become my fan, then I hope you love yourself more than you love me." ”
Suffering itself is not terrible, what is terrible is that suffering will wear away the light in one's eyes.
Fortunately, after experiencing so much suffering, Han Peiquan still maintains an optimistic and positive attitude towards life.