When many people are in elementary school and junior high school, they will learn a person's article, that is, Fu Lei's "Fu Lei Family Letter", which contains a writer's expectations for children and loyal and patriotic education, originally such a literary artist will definitely be respected by the people, but did not expect that Fu Lei finally committed suicide.
In September 1966, a nanny in Shanghai called the police, saying that the male and female owners of her family had committed suicide.
After the police arrived, they collected evidence and found that these two people were Fu Lei and his wife Zhu Meifu, who did not seek to be born on the same day in the same month of the same year, but died on the same day in the same month of the same year.
According to the nanny's account, last night the two hosts also explained some things to her, such as not buying too many dishes for tomorrow, and let her rest earlier, but when she got up the next day and told them to get up, she did...
Speaking of this, the nanny choked up several times, and she recalled: Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are very good people, and I don't know why I can't think about it.
In fact, there should always be an answer in the nanny's heart, because not long ago, Mr. Fu Lei returned home and was furious: the conservatory wants to smash, smash it, let them smash, can't hit two lives!
At the beginning of that year, Fu Lei was subjected to countless criticisms, and because of his status and status, coupled with his son Fu Cong, who was far away, those who thought they were righteous forced him to kneel on trumped-up charges, which was a fatal insult to a writer with a proud bone.
But today we will not talk about Fu Lei's death, we will focus on the relationship between Fu Lei and his son. Before fu lei died, he wrote a family letter to his son Fu Cong with great affection, but before committing suicide, he lamented that his son was a "traitor".
Fu Lei is one of the most famous writers and translators in modern China, and his works cover the classics of countless famous artists, Romain Rolland and Balzac are all passers-by in his life, it can be said that he brought the world's excellent works to China and brought to The youth of China.
In 1934, Fu Lei and his wife Zhu Meifu finally conceived the crystallization of love, and as he fell to the ground, Fu Cong came to this world and began his extraordinary life. Soon Fu Cong grew to four or five years old, and the attentive Fu Lei soon found that his child seemed to have a great interest in music, and he was very happy, because music can water a person's heart and help people grow up quickly and improve their personality.
At the age of seven, Fu Lei finally made a decision to let Fu Cong learn piano, and after a year Fu Lei took Fu Cong from school to his home and began his own education.
Piano is not the main thing for young Fu Cong to learn, but Fu Lei hates that the school education is too backward, so he lets the children go home and learn culture and art together.
Fu Lei assumed the role of a loving father and a language teacher, he took out the interesting allegories and aphorisms in the ancient Chinese tradition of the Four Books and Five Classics and some classic works, combined with life to explain to Fu Cong, cultivated his language skills, and then gave him appreciation for the outstanding poetic works of ancient poets, cultivating his poetic life.
Other English, mathematics and piano will go outside to spend a lot of money to ask teachers to teach him, it can be said that the education that Fu Cong received at that time was absolutely unique in the country, even his usual exams and homework were designed by Fu Lei himself, so Fu Cong, who grew up in this situation, must be an excellent child.
When he was young, Fu Cong was still tepid about music, and what really put him on the road of professional music was in 1953, when he was given a chance to be selected, and the selected children could represent China to Romania to participate in the piano competition of the "Gala Festival", and it was obvious that obedience was successful.
After a hit, Fu Cong was focused on training, in the next year he went to Poland to continue to participate in the competition, after a period of special preparation, Fu Cong won the third place in the "Fifth Chopin International Piano Competition", in order to better career development, Fu Cong began to stay in Poland to study, but this became a fuse that eventually killed Fu Lei.
Just when Fu Cong was studying in Poland, the domestic political situation underwent profound changes, ten years of turmoil were quietly occurring, and the revolution and criticism of the class were staged every day, which also led to Fu Lei's life in the depths of the water. To this end, many of Fu Lei's friends advised Fu Lei to quickly admit his mistakes and strive for leniency.
According to his merits, the country would certainly not embarrass him, but Fu Lei had a literati quality that was rare among ordinary people, and it was even more difficult to make him innocent and admit his mistakes than to kill him.
One day, Fu Lei was pulled out of the morning by a group of people wearing red armbands until he came back in the middle of the night, and when he came back, Fu Lei had a blue face, presumably suffering from an extremely humiliating thing, and he sighed and said to his wife Zhu Meifu: If there is no child abroad, I will commit suicide.
Shortly after this incident, Fu Cong received news from the country calling him back, Fu Mingbai's own father had suffered what kind of inhuman treatment, if he went back now, he would definitely face a scene where father and son wanted to mutilate and report each other, fu Cong simply could not accept this kind of thing happening.
To this end, Fu Cong made the most regrettable decision in his life. Despite the obstruction of the ambassador to Poland, he left Poland without authorization and went to Britain, knowing that Poland at that time was a friendly friendly country to our country, and Britain was a hostile country that had torn its face, and Fu Cong's practice was like defection!
The news was extremely powerful for China at that time, but Fu Lei did not know it. This matter was told to Fu Lei by Fu Lei's good friend Zhou Xuliang, and Fu Lei was still surprised that Zhou Xuliang did not tell him that day. But Zhou Xuliang could not say anything until Fu Lei asked about Fu Cong, and Zhou Xuliang handed Fu Lei a newspaper with the words "Fu Cong left Britain" printed on it.
Fu Lei was stunned after reading it, and it was obvious that he could not imagine that Fu Cong, who had spent countless energies and educated him to be patriotic and loyal, would actually choose to go to a hostile country, and fu Lei seemed to have countless sharp knives in his heart, which separated family affection and the country, and it was extremely stinging.
For two whole days and two nights, Fu Lei did not take a bite of food or a drop of water. There is no doubt that his proud child Fu Cong gave him a major blow.
To this end, the father and son did not contact each other for a whole year, and a year later Fu Lei wrote to Fu Cong for the first time, in which Fu Lei expressed his most sincere patriotic feelings and expectations for his children: You have not forgotten the motherland, and the motherland has not forgotten you... The motherland will always open the door for you... For the honor of the motherland, you can't leave a performance behind.
At this time, Fu Cong had already woken up several times a night.
In Fu Lei's approval, although art has no borders, there are artists, fu cong is a proud Chinese in any case, although the negative impact of Fu Cong's departure from Britain has made him physically and mentally exhausted, but he still teaches Fu Cong to love the country and his family with enthusiasm.
In 1964, in order to better stay in the Uk to study, Fu Cong announced his british citizenship. Long before this, Fu Lei had made three major vows to Fu Cong: not to become a British citizen; not to go to Taiwan; not to say anything unfavorable to the motherland, and not to do anything unfavorable to the motherland.
Fu Cong's approach gave Fu Lei a solid slap, and the second blow that Fu Lei suffered came from this.
After this, Fu Lei also had the only thought of supporting himself to live, and he became more and more pessimistic and severe in his letters to Fu Cong, and it was obvious that as a father and a Chinese's heart was deeply hurt, and this kind of damage could not be healed and lasted for a long time.
In 1966, the people of the Shanghai Conservatory of Music came to the door because of Fu Cong's affairs, and they searched for all the letters of Fu Lei and Fu Cong, but after opening them, they found that Fu Lei had been educating Fu Cong with a warm patriotic heart, but they did not care about these things at all, and forced Fu Lei to kneel down and confess his mistakes with false accusations.
This eventually led to the birth of tragedy, and Fu Lei and Zhu Meifu agreed to commit suicide both.
A month later, Fu Lei left the last page of the family letter, which stated the final distribution of his property, including the salary given to the nanny and the money she needed for the transition period, which shows how kind the Fu Lei couple is. In the end, Fu Lei finally admitted his mistake, he wrote: Just educating a traitor Fu Conglai has already died in front of the people!
In fact, this is not Fu Cong's fault, not to mention Fu Lei's fault, after the news of Fu Lei's suicide reached Britain, those media who had the intention of using this matter wanted fu Cong to make statements unfavorable to the motherland, but Fu Cong obeyed the teachings and did not smear the motherland from beginning to end, after Fu Lei and his wife were rehabilitated, Fu Cong was also invited by the state to help the motherland develop its music industry.
Fu Cong commented on his two teachers, friends, and relatives behind his parents' tombstones:
Fu Lei: The Heart of a Pure Son, Just and Righteous, Zhu Meifu: Generous and Benevolent, Virtuous and Virtuous.
Fu Cong's evaluation of his parents was incomparably full of affection, perhaps he had been accusing himself of countless nights, maybe he could come back to share a little for his parents at that time, then maybe they would still be alive, but in the final analysis, it was not their fault.
But it was too late, and all that was left now was Fu Lei's sincere feelings for his son in the "Fu Lei Family Letter".
"Fu Lei's Family Letter" involves parent-child relationship, education methods and personality development, etc., which is of great significance to our children and parents, perhaps reading through this book, we can more deeply understand Fu Lei's sincerity and understand family affection.
If you are interested, I recommend that you read this book.
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