A few days ago, "Lu Yu has about a day trip" into the studio of the famous artist Han Meilin, while talking about art, Han Meilin also said with great interest that the son born in Los Angeles last year is now more than one year old, and the child began to take a paintbrush at 10 months, and the children's children's paintings made the family very happy. Han Lao was 82 years old and happy to have a noble son, and his 28-year-old wife Zhou Jianping was indispensable. Who is Zhou Jianping, and what kind of love story does she have with Master Han?
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Not long ago, "Lu Yu you have a date" walked into the studio of the great painter Han Meilin, and when talking about art, the painter's marriage and family life also entered the public's vision.
The lady dressed in purple is Han Meilin's wife, Zhou Jianping. Zhou Jianping's origin is not small, she graduated from the first writer class of the Department of Chinese of Zhejiang University, and has been cultivating in the field of literature for many years, creating more than 1 million words such as movies, TV series, novels, and reportage, which have been published in major publications across the country.
The film script she created, "Daughter Valley", was put on the screen by the famous director Xie Jin, starring Zhao Wei and others.
The film won the Special Honor Award of the 4th Beijing University Student Film Festival, and participated in the Fourth World Conference on Women of the United Nations, the Shanghai International Film Festival and the China Film Week of the Tokyo International Film Festival in Japan.
The main creators of "Daughter Valley" were at the award ceremony
Since 2001, Zhou Jianping has served as the chief planner of the award ceremony of the China Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Film Festival for 12 consecutive years, writing articles with one hand and planning activities with the other.
After becoming Han Meilin's wife, she successively prepared the Han Meilin Art Museum in Hangzhou, Beijing and Yinchuan, presided over the work of the Han Meilin Art Foundation, donated funds to build nine Hope Primary Schools, and also planned the "Han Meilin Global Tour exhibition" to express Chinese culture and art to the world through the form of exhibitions.
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Zhou Jianping was born in Hangzhou in 1964 to parents who were public officials. When she was a child, she looked loved by everyone. She and Ma Yun, Zhong Shuishui (chairman of Nongfu Shanquan) and so on are like-minded fa xiao, the relationship is very good.
Later, when Ma Yun and his wife Zhang Ying went to Zhou Jianping's house together as a guest, they talked about which intersection had wontons sold in their childhood, which place sold fried buns with green onions, and which breakfast stall was the best.
This is a typical Sagittarius girl who advocates freedom, is adventurous, and helpful. At the age of 19, she fell in love with a young talent who was 9 years older than her, so she took it upon herself to steal the family's household registration book and registered her marriage with it.
Zhou Jianping recalled: "Premature love and marriage, I did not get admitted to college in the first year, and then because I had a family and a son, I paid a tragic price in my studies, which was the biggest shame in my life, so that I spent ten years from the University of Electricity and Technology to the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University to the writers' class of the Chinese Department of Zhejiang University to make up for this deficiency." ”
At that time, in order to make up for her studies, every morning, Zhou Jianping sent her son, who was only a few months old, to the nursery, handed the teacher an egg and a bottle of milk, and then hurried to class.
After class, I rushed to the nursery to see my son, and when I got home, I bathed and nursed my son who was full of and pee, and after putting him to sleep, he reviewed his homework.
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When submitting the graduation thesis topic in the writers' class of Zhejiang University, Zhou Jianping chose the theme of "women inside the big wall" and went deep into a women's labor camp in Zhejiang for many times to collect first-hand information.
After the publication of the long documentary novel "Looking Back at the Daughter Valley", it was favored by director Xie Jin, and Zhou Jianping changed his draft eight times and created a script that Xie was satisfied with.
In May 1994, filming of "Daughter Valley" officially began. Zhou Jianping and director Xie Jin formed a deep friendship, and through Xie Director, Zhou Jianping met Han Meilin.
At that time, Han Meilin was making a giant sculpture for director Xie Jin's hometown, and Director Xie was busy with film shooting and had no time to accompany Han Meilin, so he gave this task to the capable Zhou Jianping.
Han Meilin painting appreciation
It was during these days that Zhou Jianping found that the Han Meilin in front of her was different from the legendary master of some mythology, he was more like an ordinary person, easy-going, casual, and sometimes like a naughty child, naughty and funny.
During that time, the feelings of the two people were very close, and they became good friends who talked about everything.
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If it weren't for Han Meilin's sudden illness later, they might have been friends all the time.
One day, Han Meilin suddenly suffered a heart attack and was admitted to the hospital. During the operation, an arterial blood vessel suddenly burst, and the condition was very critical!
Zhou Jianping, who heard the news, was very anxious, and it was hard to wait until the evening, sneaking into the ward secretly put on the nurse's coat and hat, saw Han Meilin on the hospital bed, and couldn't help but cry...
Han Meilin later recalled: "I heard her crying, and there was only one thought at that time - to live! ”
In the two and a half months that Han Meilin was hospitalized, Zhou Jianping stayed at home, accompanied by the bedside, and when he was sleepy, he lay on the side of the bed and took a nap, Han Meilin was moved to mutter: How can I be so preferential!
After a life-and-death test, Han Meilin expressed his love for the divorced Zhou Jianping, and he said in a letter to Zhou Jianping's parents:
"Everything, please rest assured that the second elder is that I know the cold and warm of the world, and I know that true feelings are rare, and it is enough to look at Jianping from head to toe with only one 'pure' word." I think that men shed tears like cowards, I am a person who has lived and died several times, and I don't shed tears in my eyes, but I don't believe that there will be such a person as Jianping in reality, every time I see her, I 'cry a little', and I don't want to give up such a friend again..."
In 2016, Zhou Jianping wrote the book "Never Wither", writing about her feelings about her fifteen years of marriage, family, career and life with Han Meilin.
Zhou Jianping believes that a good marriage should be mutual achievement, two people who grow up in different environments and come together, both to tolerate each other, but also not to give up on themselves.
Happiness is a practice, and practice is always a process, and only the process will never wither.
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