Why can Sister Tao, who has no children, spend a happy old age?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > First of all, Tao Jie is a person who is responsible for her work. </h1>
Since she was a teenager, Sister Tao has been working as a maid in the Liang family and has taken care of four generations. Whether it's cleaning, cooking, or taking care of a sick person, she does a great job.
Until one day, Tao Jie suddenly suffered a stroke and entered the hospital, because she did not want to become a burden on the Liang family, she moved to the old people's home.
Roger came to see her and took her out to dinner, but Sister Tao was always worried that he would not be able to take good care of himself, and promised to make him a lot of delicious food when he recovered.
Perhaps, even Sister Tao did not find out: from a long time ago, taking good care of the People of the Liang Family seemed to have become a kind of mission for her.
Later, when she realized that she could no longer take care of Roger, she helped him find new servants, interviewed many nannies, and asked them all kinds of "harsh" requirements, but could not find a satisfactory candidate.
Behind these behaviors of Sister Tao, it is also out of the attitude of being responsible for the work.
Sister Tao, who has worked hard all her life, is happy. Because, the sense of responsibility and sincerity that she has paid for most of her life in the past has long made her a member of the Liang family and is regarded as a family member by Roger.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Secondly, Tao Jie is an independent woman who does not like to pin her hopes on others. </h1>
Sister Tao was afraid of troublesome others, so she took the initiative to move to the nursing home, and stressed that she could pay this fee alone, and did not want Roger to spend money for herself.
And the trait of not wanting to trouble others is not out of embarrassment, but she knows very well that she wants independence that can live without anyone.
In the movie, Roger asks Sister Tao why she is not married, and Sister Tao's answer is "fishy", which is her least favorite.
When she was young, Tao Jie was also a beautiful woman, and there were many suitors, but she did not meet anyone who was impressed, and she did not want to get married in order to get married.
In what do you like, and like your own? She chose the former and stayed at the Liang family to continue working.
In the nursing home, Sister Tao is also an old man who does not need to bother with nurses.
In stark contrast to Sister Tao, there is an old lady with both children and daughters. But the old lady favored sons over daughters, and the relationship with her daughter was very stiff, but her doting son never came to see her in the nursing home.
It was the same generation that made a different choice with Sister Tao, but the old man with both children could not wait for the care of his son, and Sister Tao, who was not married and had children, had Roger, a dry son, to come to see her and take care of her.
Therefore, if a person wants to be respected and loved, he must first love himself. Only an independent person can get the respect of others. And dignity needs to be fought for by oneself and not given by others.
Be an independent woman and maintain a positive and brave mindset in order to feel truly happy.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > in the end, Tao Jie met a very human family. </h1>
"The sweetest joys of life are the fruits of sorrow; the purest things of life are all obtained from suffering." We have to experience the hardships first-hand before we know how to comfort others. ”
This is a passage that Sister Tao shook hands with Roger and the priest before undergoing surgery, and silently recited it.
After Sister Tao fell ill, Roger would often come to see her, take her out to dinner, and take her to the premiere of the movie, like a family member who accompanied each other.
However, what is different is that in the past, Sister Tao was the one who took care of him, but now he has learned to take care of Sister Tao.
Being sick is not a good thing, and we can see a lot of things in it.
Knowing that Sister Tao was ill, the Liang family who were abroad also returned, made various arrangements for her, and gave her a house to spend her old age.
Sister Tao, who has no relatives, finally appeared in the C position of the Liang family photo.
Encountering the Liang family with human touch is the luck of Sister Tao; and the appearance of Sister Tao is also the luck of the Liang family.
The English name of this movie is A Simple Life, which is very plain, and some important things in life may be so bland.
Because the secret of happiness is not to live the same life as others, but to find what you love and work hard for it in an ordinary life.
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