A few months ago, my husband twisted his waist while playing.
Intermittent pain for more than a month, dragging has not been well, and finally went to the hospital to take a film.
Doctors are probably accustomed to this little thing, and they send out expressionless medical advice: bones are fine, avoid strenuous exercise.
The husband asked undeadly: "Can I swim?" ”
The doctor didn't even lift his eyes: "Yes." ”
As if he had been sealed, he threw himself into the pool with joy, fantasizing about the bravery of the white stripes in the waves.
After swimming a game, I found that it was over, and it was more serious.
Plastering, massage, hot compresses and moxibustion were all on the battlefield, and the results were minimal.
Recently, I couldn't stick to it, so I changed my hospital and did an MRI.
Doctor's diagnosis:
1. Psoas muscle strain
2. The intervertebral disc is slightly herniated
Conclusion: There is no good treatment, less effort, more nourishment.
Coming out of the hospital, I felt like I was listening to a joke:
Psoas muscle strain? Strain?
Excuse me, are you tired?
There is no physical work, no housework, what are you doing?
No labor, then what is the damage?
Intervertebral disc herniation, I can understand a little.
After all, a handful of age, the appearance is not prominent, the ability is not prominent, and the wallet is not prominent.
Other men, and hairlines protruding.
Your head is dark and thick and does not meet this condition.
That has to be the same thing that stands out, right? No, the discs make you stand out.
He was so angry that he was speechless: "I'm like this, you still talk about me!" ”
What happened?
Although the waist pain is not pretend, I see that most of the time, standing, sitting, lying down.
Only, bending over is not OK, hard work is not OK, taking things is not OK, moving heavy things is not OK.
That's blunt — anything else, just work!
I kind of understood: this is a rich disease.
When I got home, I turned on the "confinement mode".
Heated salt bags roasted at the waist, slices on the TV, tea boiled next to the coffee table.
What about me? To clean, clean, mop, suck dog hair.
Because of these jobs, you have to bend over. And the man's golden waist, bent over, hurts too much.
Don't talk about work, every day he is invited to move from the sofa to the table to eat, he has to help his back, step by step, and twitter.
I know that I have waist pain, I don't know, I think it is the pelvis that is full of eight fingers and is about to give birth.
Really, men are flirtatious, and there is nothing wrong with women.
Not only is it pretentious, but it is also not habitual.
Recently, it was cold and the whole family began to soak their feet.
Every night at about 9 p.m., I boil a large pot of water, soak the Chinese medicine bag, and bring the foot soaking basin to the sofa.
It lasted for a few days, the waist did not see good, and the mouth became sharp.
One will be too cold, one will be too hot, and one will question "what is the use of this Chinese medicine soup".
Until I threw the foot towel in his face and stopped.
Also added some stinky bugs.
Usually, in order to save time, every morning after breakfast, I will drive them both out of the house, and the mess on the table will be slowly cleaned up by myself after they leave.
As a result, one morning last week, he actually threw the snot-blown tissue into a pile of used tissues on the table and waited for me to clean up.
I caught a spot on the spot, and cleaned up fiercely——
Throw all the garbage on the table? Herniated discs compress the brain?
He smiled sarcastically and pulled himself into the trash.
Cut, but also really respond to that sentence: men are not used to it, the more habitual the more doomed.
The day before yesterday, the girlfriends group video chat, I complained to them about this paragraph.
One of the old girlfriends suffered a waist injury and suffered from a waist disease.
She lamented:
"You should also be considerate of others, you people who have no waist pain, I really don't know what it tastes like." Except for blinking, the whole body up and down, everywhere you move, you have to use your waist, who hurts who knows..."
When she said this, I felt a little pity again.
This year, who is easy.
Sitting in the office for many years, which ones did not sit out of a psoas muscle strain intervertebral disc herniation?
Think about a few meetings a day, answer nearly a hundred phone calls, I left this lifelong career for only a few years, can't be so quick to "why not eat meat" ah!
So I bought a new plaster, changed it to bruise oil, and planned to come back from work to give him a good massage.
As a result, when he returned in the evening, the straight man blinked his eyes very ignorantly and came to say:
"When our colleagues heard that I had back pain, they all thought they were tired of you."
Rub, this pot, the old lady does not back!
Plaster and massage oil were thrown at him and himself.
It is not used by Lao Tzu and is not responsible for maintenance.
I got up to mop the floor and made new demands on the confinement man on the couch: tell me jokes, make me happy, coax me to be happy.
Anyway, you just have a broken waist and a mouth that's not broken.
Use your mouth and brain, don't bother.
I can do the work, emotional value you always have to provide it.
Or else? I work, I earn money, I give birth to a baby, I run the house, what do you want you to do?
He cried and sighed: Men are really hard, their waists are like this, and they have to be forced to sing songs and tell jokes.
I sent out a blank eye: don't sell art, sell yourself, you choose?
To be honest, I understand that it is not easy for men to have men.
But in general, most of the Chinese men in marriage are not blessed in the blessing.
Just like my husband, going to work is really busy, and mental work is really tired.
But objectively speaking, most of his time, energy and physical strength are only used for work.
I've got everything done at home.
I also share the money-making.
In the matter of children, I have raised my baby to be self-reliant and self-disciplined.
There was not a large basin of dirty clothes smelly socks waiting for him to come back and wash them;
There was no chicken flying dog jumping mother-in-law war waiting for him to come back and calm down.
You just have to take care of your own stall work, and then drive home to wash your hands and eat, what else do you want?
Just like that, there is a large group of men who sigh online: they just want to smoke a cigarette in the car before entering the door.
Well, you smoke a cigarette in the car, your wife smokes fumes in the kitchen.
You look up at the lights in your kitchen, and if she hadn't been busy for half a day, you would have eaten a yarn after you entered the door.
And, like you, she worked all day.
Like you, you also have to deal with harsh leaders, brutal party A, stupid * customers.
In addition to these, she also carries invisible family KPIs:
Buy, dry, store, clean; children can not lack nutrition, cool down to change quilts and add clothes...
I think of Fu Seoul's golden sentence: Mom is Superman, Daddy is just a person.
In fact, we really don't want to oppose men and women.
It's just that this status quo is a fact in the vast majority of Chinese marriages.
So men, complain less, don't be in the blessing and not be blessed.
Living in this world is not easy for everyone.
Your wife says she's tired because she has to go to work, cook, wash clothes, and take care of the kids.
If you only need to finish going to work and you don't do any of this, then what makes you so tired?
Is it breathing?