In the war-torn years, countless families were torn apart, and tragedies of separation of flesh and bones were not uncommon. For the victory of the revolution, countless martyrs abandoned their homes and jobs, even paying the price of their lives.
They are respectable and lamentable heroes, but when the night is quiet and no one whispers, the thoughts of their loved ones in their hearts will also fill the atrium like spider silk.
Even the founders of the Anding Mountains and Rivers could not escape the torment of this world, some of them could not wait for the moment of reunion in their lives, and some of them spent half a lifetime to reunite.
When they meet again, they may not be able to find a familiar shadow from each other's appearance of being tormented by the years, but the connection of blood veins and the thoughts that have not stopped still make them tearful, as if they were in a different world.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > goodbye for several years is already two sideburns</h1>
In 1980, the founding father Lu Dingyi finally met his unmasked son. At this time, the son was nearly half a hundred years old, and he was already past the age of ancient rarity.
Although the father and son have never met, the closeness brought by blood and the endless thoughts and searches still make them tearful and emotional.
Lu Dingyi's heart, which had been wandering for many years, finally had a little peace of mind, and he also had an explanation for his deceased wife who had long been buried in the ground. But Lu Dingyi's heart could not be completely stable, because he still had a daughter who was wandering away, not knowing whether he was alive or dead.
For countless nights, he dreamed of sharing the world with his wife and daughter. When he separated from his daughter, she was three years old, muttering softly beside herself.
Lu Dingyi could not imagine how his daughter, who was taken by his pregnant wife after being separated from him, survived. Such a situation is extremely difficult in times of peace, not to mention that they are in such a war-torn environment.
After finding his son, Lu Dingyi did not stop looking for his daughter, he was looking forward to her news, and he was afraid to get her news.
This iron-boned warrior who has broken through the rain of bullets and bullets also has the timidity and fear of ordinary people. He was afraid that one day more than forty years ago, waiting for his wife to have already died in his heart, and the bad news of the loss of his children would make him despair and lose sleep for half a month.
The heavens live up to those who have a heart. Seven years after reuniting with his son, Lu Dingyi found his daughter through the joint efforts of the Jiangxi Provincial Party Committee and many parties. At the age of nearly eighty, he ignored his physical weakness and long distance, and immediately set off for Nanchang to meet his daughter.
It was difficult for Lu Dingyi to find the shadow of his three-year-old daughter from the 56-year-old woman in front of him. He missed her childhood and all the important stages of his development and decided he was not a competent father. He could not properly organize the language, and half a century of waiting and thinking did not know how to tell.
In the end, it was the daughter Ye Ping who took the lead in stepping forward, and she took her father's old hand and called out to her father kindly. This "Daddy" dissolved all the worries and drew a satisfactory end to this wait that spanned half a century.
Although life is difficult to complete, it is not so desolate to hide in your heart. In his daughter's call, Lu Dingyi was already in tears, he said: I lost you for 53 years, and now I am finally back!
Lu Dingyi's thoughts went up against the long river of longing, stopping at the moment of separation in 1937. Lu Dingyi's eyes were fixed on his pregnant wife and daughter, that glance was long and unwilling to leave, he knew that this parting might be forever, and he could only remember their last appearance with all his strength.
This is the warmth he hides in his heart, when he can't hold on, he always has to take it out and wipe it, telling himself that he must go back, even if he is killed, he will be reunited.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" > the revolutionary years</h1>
On a sunny day in 1987, Lu Dingyi and his long-lost relatives gathered in a hostel in Nanchang.
On that day, Lu Dingyi's granddaughter put on a red velvet cheongsam to meet her grandfather. At that moment, time seemed to flow backwards, and Lu Ding once again saw the youthful and lively Tang Yizhen, and the tears had already blurred his eyes.
It was a memory that had spanned half a century, and it should have been mottled and yellow, but Lu Dingyi always remembered her appearance when they first met, her shy and beautiful appearance when they were married, her not abandoning her when she was in difficulty, and sending herself away from her who was reluctant but never said a word.
Tang Yizhen was born in Jinkou Town, Wuchang, Hubei Province, to a family of traditional Chinese medicine, and attended the Hubei Provincial Girls' Normal School at the age of 14. In the wave of the New Culture Movement, she was deeply infected, abandoning her original stable life and resolutely becoming a warrior for her ideals.
At the age of 18, she was sent to the Soviet Union for further study, where she met Lu Dingyi. People who share a common goal don't need too many words, and fate makes them a couple.
After marriage, the two did not indulge in the love of their children but actively campaigned for the revolution, although they gathered less and were more neglectful of communication, their hearts were always closely linked. Tang Yizhen seemed to be weak but incomparably strong, and such a trait naturally made Lu Dingyi love it deeper.
Lu Dingyi's career at that time was not smooth, and under the guidance of some erroneous ideas, he experienced many dismissals and investigations, for which Tang Yizhen was neither annoyed nor blamed, and she knew in her heart how sincere her husband was a revolutionary fighter.
Later, they settled in an abandoned temple near Yeping, where they welcomed the birth of their daughter and named her "Yeping".
It was a difficult but incomparably happy time, and even if it was more than half a century apart, It could make Lu Dingyi feel incomparably warm.
In October 1934, under the guidance of the erroneous ideas of the Left, the Central Red Army was forced into a state of great strategic shift. The road ahead was unknown and full of dangers, and Tang Yizhen was pregnant and about to give birth a month later, so he had to stay after several thoughts.
As soon as Lu Ding settled his wife down, he withdrew with the large army, and even if he did not want to, he could only slash it with a sword.
He did not know how much suffering his wife had encountered later, but no matter what she experienced, she could not change her determination to revolution, and she still did her best to arrange their children in the midst of the enemy's pursuit and blockade. She was still so young but she faded from a bright flower to a tall tree.
During the years of the flames, the connection between them had long been severed, and it was not until one day in November 1943 that Lu Dingyi learned that Tang Yizhen had died heroically shortly after their separation.
Since then, he has been insomnia for more than half a month, and on sleepless nights, he misses his dead wife and misses his children whose whereabouts are unknown.
Later, Lu Dingyi recalled: Since then, whether he is happy or sad, he can't shed tears, because the worst has happened.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > has vowed never to abandon forever</h1>
"If I sacrifice and someone finds you in the future, please tell him: My husband's name is Lu Dingyi." I gave birth to a boy named Xiaoding in Guitian and gave it to Fan Qibiao and Cong Xiumei in Guitian Township to raise. "
In the enemy's encirclement and blockade, Tang Yizhen felt an unprecedented crisis, and she gave a pair of silver bracelets to Chen Liumao, the propaganda officer of the Fujian Provincial Cpc Committee of the Young Communist Party, and entrusted her posthumous affairs.
Later, Tang Yizhen's unit was trapped in the mountains of Wujiaotang and was eventually captured by the enemy. In the early morning of January 31, 1935, Tang Yizhen, who had been tortured and refused to reveal a single message, fell under the gun of the enemy, and she was not yet 26 years old in the year of her death.
And Lu Ding did not know this news until 8 years later, not that he did not inquire and search, but after the split between the Kuomintang and the Communist Party, China fell into the War of Resistance Against Japan.
Lu Dingyi also entrusted his brother to find his child, but his brother died unexpectedly. In the turbulent years, he could not be thorough.
After the founding of New China, Lu Dingyi originally planned to go to Jiangxi immediately to find his two lost children, but because of public and private reasons at that time, this plan was not implemented. So this became an obsession of Lu Dingyi, which became more and more fiery with time.
Dying of old age, he asked the relevant government departments in Jiangxi and Fujian provinces, hoping to find his children. Faced with the earnest demands of the old revolutionary comrades, the governments of the two sides did not dare to slacken off and immediately began to look for old people and old things about Tang Yizhen.
Blessed by the heavens, Chen Liumao was still alive, so he quickly found his son Xiaoding, who grew up in Fan Qibiao's family. A few years later, under the efforts of the local government, Lu Dingyi's daughter was also found in a county in Gannan, Jiangxi.
Seeing that his children had already established a family, Lu Ding was doubly relieved and felt that he owed them too much.
He can never forget how beautiful Tang Yizhen, wearing a red velvet cheongsam, was at the wedding that year, and they held each other's hands tightly and promised: Husband and wife are one heart and never separated. He reneged on his word, whether it was to his wife Tang Yizhen or the children.
In the spring of 1985, the People's Government of Changting County erected a white jade monument in the village of Xia Lai, the capital of the martyr Tang Yizhen. The monument is inscribed with the handwritten inscription of Lu Dingyi: "Righteous confidant, my wife." "In this life, they have gathered very little, although they have lived up to their debts, they have finally lived up to the common perseverance and ideals in each other's hearts."
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > conclusion</h1>
On May 9, 1996, Comrade Lu Dingyi died in Beijing at the age of 90 due to ineffective medical treatment. The tragedy of Lu Dingyi's separation from flesh and blood was not an exception to that era.
Countless revolutionary martyrs were separated from their families and never seen again. Compared with them, Lu Dingyi was lucky after all, and in his lifetime, he could reunite with his children and enjoy the joy of heaven.
The pain cannot be forgotten, and they have been suffering in each other's thoughts for many years. Although the time left for him is short, he has finally fulfilled his wish, and he has no regrets in this life.